DISQUS

texasbelle86 · 8 months ago

not to toot my own horn....
im so glad im a natural beauty lol
anywho my most favoritest natural attire is
a bra & panties when im in the house of course=]

blogxilla@gmail.com · 8 months ago

yea but that looks like a nose job in your grav... lol hi janet! lol just kidding.

texasbelle86 · 8 months ago

lol!! i knew someone was gonna say somethin about my janet grav!

DEANTAE · 8 months ago

2 words SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL!

HeadMistress · 8 months ago

Great post Xilla!

We are sexiest when we least expect to be, when we're not "trying" to be...

ALMiss · 8 months ago

I love this! I totally agree...alot of the times I get compliments is when I'm dressing down and chilling. I like being a natural beauty ;)

Lili · 8 months ago

Man, that is so true...I don't know why guys like to holla when I'm rocking sweats, no makeup, and I feel like my hair is looking too plain. The times I'm running around getting things done and I don't want anyone to look my way are the times dudes want to talk. Then I look funny because I'm trying to get in my car as quickly as possible. LOL

Ness · 8 months ago

I agree....I like this post :)

I admit, that I like to look cute when I go out whether it's to dinner, a movie, a lounge or just to hang at a friends house.

But I noticed that when I think I look "okay" that's when I get the most attention. When I think I'm doing it up....I get a couple of looks but I don't pull the same numbers I do when I'm on my chill out sh*t...lol

HeadMistress · 8 months ago

Exactly, there's nothin wrong with kickin it up a notch when you're goin out but every woman should be comfortable with her "everyday natural look"

There are chicks whose life depends on 2 hour hair, makeup and wardrobe sessions otherwise they won't even leave the house to get milk and pampers for the baby...LOL

Ness · 8 months ago

You're right about that!!! Thank goodness I'm not friends with anyone like that....it sounds annoying lol

OrangeStar616 · 8 months ago

LOL @ scarf tho...but I totally feel this as a woman,
I love it when attractive men take notice or try to holla on my plain, not glammed up days. like your girl with the hat
when you got it, you got it,
I love that, cause it means hopefully LOL he is really SEEING ME
and then when I do put it on......
I DAZZLE em.....LOVE THAT!!!!

MsLady.. · 8 months ago

Love that Drake Quote as Much as I love this Post...Dope!
Great to Know Real men are out there With a Understanding of Sexy... U never fail to Amaze=) Lol! at Boy beater...

OrangeStar616 · 8 months ago

I never try to be sexy...to me either you are , or you're not...something contrived isn't sexy IMO its just as natural for some as breathing. *shrug*

shayna · 8 months ago

i lovee just leavin the house w. a scarf on a v neck tee sweats & some jordans..
full chill out mode & still cute.

shayna · 8 months ago

although i did have some chics try to holla at me...
think thats the down side.

Blacksand · 8 months ago

I saw a woman on the train today in some grey sweats, some air force ones a nike tee shirt, and some lip gloss. She was in full chill mode and she was gorgeous to me. I walked up to her and said excuse me miss, you are very attractive and then I took my seat. She just smiled and I inhaled her natural beauty. As I exited the train I touched her shoulder softly, smiled at her and said have a good day. I appreciate a woman's natural beauty. I didn't want anything from her. I just appreciated what I saw in her. Great post Xilla

streetz · 8 months ago

Cosign on all except the scarf..lol. Maybe its cause im Haitian and Ive been exposed to scarfs from sisters, moms, gfs, etc my whole life, but idk about a turn on. Boyshorts and wife beaters are sexier than ballroom gowns on the right woman...true story!

JMK · 8 months ago

I agree with this pust completely. The only thing is that not all girls can pull the look off. If you seen some 300lb women wearing any of those suggestions you just might NEVER want to see another chick wearing it. It does come down to natural beauty, and either you have the look or don't. If you are attractive all dolled up chances are you will look good in chill mode too, and vice versa.

I would remove the scarf from the list and add sports bra though, just my opinion.

chantel · 8 months ago

i don't wear make up like that, so thank you jesus i been blessed with natural beauty :)

Mr_Jones · 8 months ago

I have been telling dudes for years about girls in sweatpants and no one wanted to listen.

Lili · 8 months ago

That's true. I even noticed...when I'd be on chill mode w/my ex...and I'd be en route or away from him for a moment...I told him...how weird it was that guys would be complimenting me and throwing smiles my way or just checking me...and I'd be rocking some bball shorts or sweats w/a tee. I'd be walking around mad comfy because I'm not worried about impressing any man on the street...but that's when they'd try to holla! He'd just laugh...

I guess if you can look good in sweats then you look great in anything else.

Blacksand · 8 months ago

Ms. Lili, you are on point. Your quote summed it up.

"I guess if you can look good in sweats then you look great in anything else"

When you can do that you are doing it big. That is when a man can truly see how confident you are. When a woman is in chill mode not trying to be all dressed up and she still has what I call unintentional swagger. She is doing it. A natural beauty is what men want. And you said you were in D.C. right!!!lol Have a good weekend!!

Lili · 8 months ago

Oh....and I was listening to that Drake song last night...In fact I can listen to him every damn night. :)

EbonyLolita · 8 months ago

@Streetz Sak pase ;) Yup, I notice that I get more shine from the fellas when I'm on the run, in the scarf/sweats. I asked my BGF (Best Guy Friend) He tole me that's when I woman is less intimidating so *shrugs* hey, it is what it is and it's all good.

DaRuler · 8 months ago

i tend to prefer the naturale beauty and a female in shorts and a wife beater is so sexy!

Art2dope · 8 months ago

imma keep it funky i love when a girl is just chilling wearing her everyday.... i just like to chill with shorty when she loose and comfortable. On some real shit a good majority of the times (this being me) if i see a chick well done up, hair and make up, YEAH i might look, but would i approach her? Most probably not. It gives off an impression like she stuck up. Especially when a chick is going to the corner store to get some milk. I like to just see a girl at her vulnerable moments. it just makes it sexy, and i love me sweats with a thong, plays with the mind! i thought i was the only weird one...

Lady Jei · 8 months ago

This is so true. When I am laying around the house in my wife beater and boy shorts he can't keep his damn hands to himself.
The other day I was washing dishes in a pink sweatsuit and he kept running up behind me and humping my butt. It was so funny.

I haven't rocked a baseball cap since Mary's video back in the day. We're having a lunch date then going to the auto show, may be a good look for today.

I do tend to rock a scarf, but its often tied to the side to make it more fashionable. And its a designer scarf. Not that crap I sleep in, LOL!!!

But I can't leave the house, regardless of what is on my body ,without my MAC 'Oh Baby' lipglass. I could be wearing a moo-moo and with that lipglass on, I am poppin.

Men are such simple creatures! FAF!!!

Blacksand · 8 months ago

YUP!! Your first paragraph sounds like some R. Kelly in the kitchen type of stuff.lol It's good that he is on you like that! That makes everything interesting. I bet if he stopped doing that you would be wondering why? (I bet you would) lol!

Rock a cap, it is almost beoming a lost art. I think caps look great on a woman. It helps frame their face and bring out whtever features they choose to accentuate. For instance their lips with their MAC Oh Baby lipglass!!! I ain't mad at you Lady Jei! Get em' Girl!!!!!

And yes, we men are simple creatures. We are visual. We like it simple with just a little touch of mystery that makes us wonder what else is she covering up? That is the truth. And I'm Gone!

bogart4017 · 8 months ago

If you got nice healthy thighs and you wearing boxer shorts ima hafta try real hard to control myself. What is it about a woman who looks comfortable that makes me want to slide up behind her and neck-kiss her?

ThickiC$C · 8 months ago

Thats when you know you got it...damn the club how many niggas can u snatch while you're in your work clothes? lolz i been saying that a lot females try too hard to catch men