DISQUS

MissBriNicole · 4 months ago

lol that's funny cuz i know guys who actually have lost their girls to another girl... let me say this, it's a very difficult task attempting to console a guy whose girl is now into girls! i've tried but he was giving me the look of death simply cuz i was a girl lmao

BlogXilla · 4 months ago

oh i know i mean my ex was years later but still... i mean i felt some sort of way about that... you know. like not me... smh!

MissBriNicole · 4 months ago

lol i feel u. but i wonder how it feels to be a woman who's man turned gay. like wouldn't that be more awkward than anger-provoking? lol

j. lewis · 4 months ago

That's real talk...seems like every girl is wanting to experience another chick...damn u katy perry. Nah it was growing before that, she just added fuel to the fire. I mean no one knows more about a woman's need and wants than a woman. Some days I feel men will no longer be need than just to be a handy man lol.

But would u rather have your girl taken by another man or another woman?

BlogXilla · 4 months ago

Another nigga... I'd have my pride! but aint no nigga taking my girl unless he is 100 times better than me. Which i won't mind let the best man win.

Nixx_01 · 4 months ago

Tell it.. Girls are getting worse then dudes... something ain't right in the water because I certainly don't put out the vibe that Im into chicks but they holla..

BlogXilla · 4 months ago

Becuse they don't care i think they firmly believe they can turn any chick

Bitchiemood · 4 months ago

this all goes back to the old saying" be carfeul what you wish for"...yall know the rest.

all these men rappin about two girls kissing in the backseat
three is the new two
they dykin and all of that but all the while they never stop to think, maybe i could lose my girl to another girl if i keep pushing this lesbian shit
I graduated last year from high school and i kid u not
85% of the senior class was either gay/bi or just dykie!

BlogXilla · 4 months ago

That's what i noticed bout the high schooler i see I was in Cali the other week and these 4 fly young lesbos asked me for directions... i just shook my head. So young never got any good d. lost.

dee_ray · 4 months ago

yes I know exactly where u comin from pretty soon men will wonder "where have all the straight ones gone?"

Oohkeekee · 4 months ago

Damn.... I feel kinda bad... Now I know how my ex feels...
I went gay on his ass... we were together for a while... and we decided to do a 3 some n we made this one chick our girlfriend...hung out and everything...it was cool for a while... it was all fun and games...then she caught feelings for me and i caught feelings for her tongue... females give head better than men hands down... i just like the aggression that men have wit it... so we dated for about it a year until she cheated on me... so now im just chillin... lol

Itsme1 · 4 months ago

Lol..my sophmore year of high school and beyomd it seem like very girl i know was bi/gay..wtf the world is goin through some shit.. exspecially the black/ spanish i guess thats wat happens when all niggaz dont act right..but on the real the whole bi/gay trend will soon fade away then all these 14 yrold girls tlkin bout they bi and all will b wifed up by some unsuspecting nigga lol
P.S i know wat u mean bout the nigga-bitches i go to school with a couple,one that look like snoop from the wire..they b baggin grls like the guys these bitches playb no games so for all my straight chicks Beware ..cause u might b next on the list..they take pride in turing staright chicks out its like on their to do list
To Do List
1) get hair Cut
2) Go to footlocker
3) Bag a bad straight bitch eat the pussy get her hooked

the real ? is can a grl who experimented once b still considered straight after she messed with a female if she didnt like it and wants to stick to the ALMIGHTY dick like b4

Cutie · 4 months ago

the real ? is can a grl who experimented once b still considered straight after she messed with a female if she didnt like it and wants to stick to the ALMIGHTY dick like b4

Yes! It is a different story if it were a dude since there is NO such thing as a bisexual dude...

DomiMami · 4 months ago

Absolutely! I am totally straight and have had more pussy than a little.
I have never been w/ a woman alone (only w/ the hubby) and I have no desire to. I dont consider myself bi, I consider myself a freak!
Lables schmables.
I could NEVER see myself giving up the almighty dick...its so powerful. Pussy dont compare to good dick.
I first experimented w/ women like 8 years ago. Women are so soft and warm and not too eager. And they smell good! Its all about the sensualness when I freak w/ a woman. HOWEVER
I have an affinity for dick. And I most def have to disaggree w/ the fact that women give better cuntilingus. Yall just been with some dudes that need to study up on the art.

Cutie · 4 months ago

I hear you Chica! I ain't mad @ you AT ALL!! Keeping it Real is the only way to go :)

Chris Howard · 4 months ago

ppl like to ignore the signs and signals that their partner give them..whether its subtle or obvious, we all like to see the good in ppl...ive never had a women leave for a women but i know the ones that are willing to experiment or who actually like women jus by the way they interact..gotta stay on point but what hurts more losing to a man or losing to a woman???

MissBriNicole · 4 months ago

for guys, i think they'd rather lose to a man simply because they can just say that the guy was better than him or whatever & the relationship will be ended with both dignities intact. if they lose to a woman, it'll be like "well, damn. she didn't like me so much that she swore off my entire sex/gender. the guy's self-esteem will definitely go kaputz"

just my opinion...

BlogXilla · 4 months ago

Its like damn was I that bad, or did i f her up that much that she turned lesbo. Was the the straw that broke the monkey's back to make her start licking cooch! lol

MissBriNicole · 4 months ago

lol maybe she couldn't handle u. haha

Cutie · 4 months ago

A chick can't take your girl UNLESS she is a willing participant! My ex best friend tried to turn me out & I had NO idea she was into girls. Needless to say, we aren't friends anymore..
I think women in Atlanta especially are scorned from the fact that there are not that many eligible STRAIGHT men here so they resort to women.
I couldn't be a lesbian AT ALL cause I need WAY more than my nana eaten..

BlogXilla · 4 months ago

Yes that was my point... you got a chick who is friendly... and she turns your girl out without her even knowing... Its sort of like the guys versions of Mo's blog the saga of a str8 chick.

smiley · 4 months ago

Xilla your a freakin genius. Like, for real. This is one of the funniest blogs because it is so relevant. I'm an advocate of men, black men in particular, and honestly it does seem like the quote, " Ni**as aint shit" is leaking more and more into existence. Sperm donors and Dildos. Damn! But honestly, there is nothing like a man. I don't care how cute a "ni**a bitch" is. At the end of the day I'd rather have the dynamic of a man intertwined with me than a female who is trying really hard to be a dude but still bitches like a female. Have no fear Xilla, threesomes are awesome and you will find a female out there who wont second guess being with you just because she received an amazing tongue spanking from a girl during the deed. And if she does leave, she wasn't shit anyway. LOL.

BlogXilla · 4 months ago

Thanks Smiley, I try to tackle serious topics in a fun and hilarious way and this was just something that was on my mind. I was sitting down and thinking like hey... niggas are losing they chicks to other chicks talking bout my girl gotta girlfriend... lol

Cutie · 4 months ago

Dudes need to step their game UP!! Point Blank Period! There MUST be something lacking in the home to make the wife/girlfriend leave their SO for a woman.
I need Men to be MEN! Be there for your woman at all times! Women are very emotional & I heard that gay women treat their women like REAL women are supposed to be treated..

DomiMami · 4 months ago

Hilarious post. So relevant! I love dick...I just got a little crush on pussy!
Thats my motto!
No harm no foul. But you are right xilla, "nigga Bitches" are on the rise. And they gettin so good with it, you never know they have been plottin on that pussy til their face is all in it!

bogart4017 · 4 months ago

You know these girls flip the script in a minute! Keep your 3some.

cb · 4 months ago

This is a very interesting but serious topic. I know this guy who was married and his wife left him and the kids for another woman. Brother don't talk much about that incident but it's a sad situation.

I've always said " to each his/her own" do whatever makes you happy. But don't bring it to me. I love men and I prefer my black brothers. There is nothing a woman with her strap on can do for me.

Just Saying · 4 months ago

BlogXilla.. just read and we all know that the bi-curious girls have been on the rise in the black community, but do you think this has to do with the fact that something like 7 out of 10 black females are single?? can dudes really get upset when some men are out living the Young Money motto in "Every Girl" or are dating outside the race so much (which I actually have NO problem with, love is love) but it's gonna look like it's on the rise in the Black community when some girls only options are Dealing with the BS, joining the Cobweb Club or eating a lil coochie.

your blog is dope, this is the stuff soledad skips over in her Black in America talks =)

Reptile214 · 4 months ago

For the young girls talking about they're bi I blame it on the music. They're infatuated with the whole my girlfriend got a girlfriend thing. And they think its cool to claim that in high school.

Now for older women to switch teams, that is something thats been in them. You don't wake up one day a say " I'm a lesbian, no more D for me".
Because niggas aint shit; no lady niggas YOU mess with aint shit.
To get turned out in you late 20's or early 30's you have to be a lil slow.

Ness · 4 months ago

Well, I've and 1 and a half experiences with another female, both of the times my bf was present altho the 1st time was just a tongue kiss outside the club, and he wasn't my man yet hahahahahaha lol.

The 2nd time was a full fledge three some and that experience didn't make me want to be with a female. It was a different kinds of experience but not enough to make me turn my back on the strenght of a man.

And recently, I had a female blantanly hit on me....while I was a little intoxicated. I was flattered, but I had to let her know it wasn't happening. It was a little weird to have a female walk me to the car, open my door and close it once I was in (lol) b/c I view it as a male role.

Either way, none of these experiences have ever made me want to trade in my luv for the male species :)

Always Passin' Thru · 4 months ago

I think that you hit the nail on the head when you said that a female hit on you and then did things that women would be hard pressed to find a man (these days) to do, such as walk you to the car and open the door, etc... A woman who knows women knows what a female needs as far as needing to feel special, appreciated, and like she's your sole focus. But that's the same with a man. I believe the only way a chick (or a man) can take your girl is if you aren't handling business in the relationship... And I'm speaking on taking your girl, not experimenting. Rarely, though, the girl can just get turned out.

Personally, I'd rather have a man. A female can get a strap on, but it's nothing like the weight of a man...

Ness · 4 months ago

I feel wht you're saying about how she did the things tht most men don't do but at the same time I thnk tht it was all done to achieve the final outcome and thts me going out w/ her. I thnk women have the same agendas as men.

For example the way she got my number was by tellin me and my girls tht her and her friends were having a bbq & for us to come thru. I gave her my # to call me w/ the details lol. Then she left the party we were at came back b/c she lost her phone. Sure enough her phone was on the table (which I thnk she did on purpose lol).

Point of the story is tht women who r into women r just as sneaky as guys lol.

But nothing can make me forsake the height, physique, scent, strength, and the persona of a man's man!

Shout out to all the men! I luv ya'll like italian ices on a hot day!

N3SSBABY19 · 4 months ago

I WAS JUS THINKIN TODAY BLOGXILLA NEED TO TALK ABOUT LESBIANS OR GIRLS THAT ARE CURIOUS
CUZ IM GETTIN TYPE BORED WITH MY MAN AND GUYS IN GENERAL AND THATS CRAZY
AND THIS NIGGA BITCHS U ARE TALKIN ABOUT ARE AG'S
AGGRESSIVE GIRLS..DIKES..BUTCH
I LOVE AG'S THEY ARE SEXY TO ME
THEY ARE TOO PRETTY TO BE BOYS BUT COULD STILL PULL IT OFF
I WAS TALKIN TO MY GIRLFRIEND AND MAN ON HOW I NEED A GIRL JUST CUZ IM BORED WITH DICK AND I NEED SOMETHING DIFFERENT
AND UR SOO RITE A CHICK CAN BE TAKEN FRM HER MAN BY A NIGGA- BITCH AS YOU SAY
JUST CUZ SHE KNOWS WHAT WE NEED AND LIKE
AND PLUS SHE'S A CHICK JUST LIKE US
WHEN I WAS 17..I HAD A GIRLFRIEND AND MY MAN HATED HER CUZ HE KNEW SHE WAS GIVING ME A TONGUE LASHING HE COULD NEVER PROVIDED FOR ME
THEY STAYED GETTIN IN ARGUMENTS AND HE NEVER WANTED ME AROUND HER CUZ I THINK HE WAS JEALOUS AND KNEW IF THA CHANCE CAME I WOULD STAY WITH HER RATHER THAN HIM

Cutie · 4 months ago

WOW! Keep it Real!

bknychick86 · 4 months ago

i agree. i told my man that i slept with 2 other females. he didnt even bite. i was trying to see if he like 3sum because i wouldnt mind doing it again. i know he is too straight...

undressingHER · 4 months ago

I honestly had a boy who lost his girl to a girl, but to me, you can't loose a person. Either you have them, or you don't. If someone can "take" your girl (and I use "your" loosely), then you never had them to begin with.

My main girls can't be bisexual anyway, I leave that for the A-Team or some random chicks I mess with. I like the girl I mess with the most to be heterosexual, even those I still suggest it to her from time to time.

Cutie · 4 months ago

I agree!! Only if more men thought logically like you! Dudes shouldn't WIFE the freak..

N3SSBABY19 · 4 months ago

SO BECAUSE ONE IS BI
SHE IS A FREAK AND CANNOT BE WIFED
LMFAO
CANT EVEN GET MAD AT UR OPINION
BUT IVE BEEN WIFED BY THE SAM DUDE SINCE I WAS 17 SO I GUESS WE CAN GET WIFED(DA FREAKS)

Cutie · 4 months ago

Nothing wrong with "freaks" getting wifed but the dudes SHOULD NOT be surprised if she CONTINUES being a "freak" during the relationship..

DomiMami · 4 months ago

Too many games. U want a hetero girl, but u wanna suggest bi sexuality to her? Lemme let you know...if she bites...she prolly had pussy before and you just didnt know!
You cant turn a hoe into a housewife
and you cant turn a Str8 bitch bi!

trynabcute · 4 months ago

Shit I got a spongebob ready tongue lol I keep the katt sprung

nynikki · 4 months ago

This blog post had me laughing all the way through...aw man I can feel your frustration! I'm 100% hetero and the thugged-out lesbians have caught me looking on the train trying to decipher their gender (some of them make a cute dude until you notice no facial hair and tied down breasts). They start flirting and then I have to spend the rest of my ride staring at my shoes, LOL.

bknychick86 · 4 months ago

lmao and rotfwl...n*gga, that was actually was about to happen to me and my ex! one day after my birthday, my ex and i decided to hang out with a couple of coworkers, one was his homeboy and the girl was was cool with me and his homeboy. So his homeboy went to pick him up and the girl came to pick me up. We, the girl and me, arrived at her house first. we started smoking, she asked me do i want to try to find out what the other side was like, so i said yeah. we f*cked and it was mind blowing enough to where i still remember everything we did. About 15 min after we was finished, my ex and his homeboy came and was that man pissed!. He was mad that we didnt include him!! i believe he got scared that i might leave him for her but i didnt. now i wished i did!

DomiMami · 4 months ago

PSA PSA
WOMEN DO NOT EAT BETTER PUSSY THAN MEN
this is fallacy!!!!!
If the man/woman you are fucking with got deadly tongue....
its because they were taught well.
Not because of their gender. I am with the best pussyeater this side of the Mississippi and HE is all MAN
In fact the last woman we were in a 3-some w/ took tips from him...
Lesbos are just lesbos...this does not qualify them as best pussy eaters JUST CUZ THEY HAVE ONE!!!!!!

MzVirgo · 4 months ago

Now, I've been hit on by a couple of women, invited to threesomes, but that doesn't mean that I want to be with a woman. And what makes these women think that being with another woman is so great? Sure, a woman knows what another woman wants and knows how to touch a woman, etc, etc, but from what I hear, they are just as similar as men, they will dog you out. So I would suggest that if a woman wants see if the grass is greener on the other side, be careful.

My ex boyfriend jokes around with me and says that I should be with a woman, since these men I try to date are no good. I say no to that, because like the other commenter said, I need a lot more than the licky licky and a strap on.

Deirdre · 4 months ago

I hate hangin' around women. Too much drama. Look for chicks like that.

dee_ray · 4 months ago

Life can be so fuckin dissappointing some time. Im no angel,but i be damned if I let my private parts completely control my mind. Sex is a beautiful thing but it seems the world has made it something with roots in hell. Make wise decisions my people. Dont ruin yourself just because you enjoy getting a lil head. Let the intelligent part of your brain rule. Orgasms only last so long.

Glennisha · 4 months ago

LMAO! I surely can happen!!! That's all I'mma say...

j · 4 months ago

lol.... too funny. but there's nothing you can do when it comes down to a woman deciding what she wants, being presented with the opportunity + one drink too many.(in most cases)

PYT · 4 months ago

I have to admit, I've been married a few years, and I have been thinking about experimenting.

Lisa · 4 months ago

Sometimes becoming romantically involved with a woman following a past romantic relationship with a guy, has NOTHING to do with the sex. As someone mentioned earlier, a woman knows what another woman needs & wants. I believe that if you are in love with someone, then you're in love with them. And guys, if your girl leaves you for another girl, it's no different than her leaving you for a guy. There was something that she needed, that you weren't providing, so she found it elsewhere. Just my two cents.