DISQUS

steevie · 1 month ago

yes and no.

No because i'd be afraid to crush the baby

Yes because the babe aint gonna remember anything! They need to know how they were made nigga! lmao

BlogXilla · 1 month ago

See a woman who isn't afraid to get down w/ her sleeping baby in the bed w/ her! LMAO They need to know how they were made!! DEAD!

NINAmac · 1 month ago

I rarely make comments on here, but this one def hits home! I have a 6 month old girl & honestly I have had sex with her in the bed, she has woke up a few times and looked around, but I've held the pacifier in her mouth, while still having sex LOL, a quickie while putting her to sleep in her crib...call it what you want, but she picks the most opprotune times to wake up... Her daddy once wanted a mid day quickie, but I couldn't pull myself to do it because she had these huge eyes and this smirk like I know what you doing...and kept peeking over my shoulder looking at him like "What 'cha doin" LOL...but needless to say absolutely no problem in it!

Briklin · 1 month ago

It seems kinda odd, but who am I to judge I guess. Sharing a 1 bedroom apartments sounds awful with children.

NINAmac · 1 month ago

I rarely make comments on here, but this one def hits home! I have a 6 month old girl & honestly I have had sex with her in the bed, she has woke up a few times and looked around, but I've held the pacifier in her mouth, while still having sex LOL, a quickie while putting her to sleep in her crib...call it what you want, but she picks the most opprotune times to wake up... Her daddy once wanted a mid day quickie, but I couldn't pull myself to do it because she had these huge eyes and this smirk like I know what you doing...and kept peeking over my shoulder looking at him like "What 'cha doin" LOL...but needless to say absolutely no problem in it

cincy88 · 1 month ago

I dont see anything wrong with having sex with your child in the bed as long as its the father. But if not oh well the child wont remember as long as they are under 1.Me and my kids father had sex in the bed with each child while they were babies. Sheesh we had to get it in any way possible.

loveit · 1 month ago

i've done it before...and i guess it's just the western world that looks and views it as being something strange. it really isn't. it's common practice in societies that have a strong sense of community.

AngieFree · 1 month ago

I sorry that just nasty. I mean go in the living room or the kitchen out of sight. I would feel like I scarred my child for life.

HeadMistress · 1 month ago

In the same bed is only acceptable if it's that childs father and if its a small baby...imo, once they can lift their head, can focus on other people's activity and have developed a sense of curiosity its a no-no. At that point in the same room is ok if their view can be obstructed.

My concern is how is anyone in this situation having a fulfilling experience when you have to stifle your moans, groans, grunts, shyt talking, ass smacking, choking etc???

In the same bed or same room with a "not the father"? Hell no, I can't see it. When my daughter was young and I was single my cousins and friends were more than willing to watch her for me...they were like "go ahead bitch you need to get some, we'll come pick her up and drop her back off!" LOL...so I can't imagine that every chick doesn't have at least one sister, cousin or friend who wouldn't be willing to help a sistah out and if worse comes to worse like someone else said you can always take it to the living room, shower or kitchen.

in2you · 1 month ago

lol okay...the social worker in me knows its wrong in all kinds of ways...but the reality is ain't Sh*t wrong wit it as long as the child ain't over five and woke cause it does mess with their psych...ppl who say its wrong and nasty need to quit cause you never know until you're put in the situation...sex can take over your mind real quick...lol

Fancee · 1 month ago

Really Xilla, its you who is good at bringing out some things that are really never discuss or never given a second thought. Somethings, ways, and habits, are just never given twice a thought. We just do/did these things and now we just remember them when you bring it up. Of course we did this me and the baby daddy/man/husband. I think alot of us or guilty or inosent of this behavior. Those were some of the good ole days.

jkinhandleem · 1 month ago

It is one thing to be the parents of the child you are exposing. But some random dude that may not be a part of the child's life? That is disrespectful! My husband and I have done it with hte kid in teh room, but she is all of 4 months and she is ours, and he is extraquiet about it cause she is ours. A single mom, sorry but you gotta change rooms, that dude has no ties to your kid and doesn't care. He could care less about banging your back out and making you scream with the kid around. And when our lil one stirs my hubby stops cause he knows one of us has to attend to teh baby. There is no guarantee soem random dde would even want to stop if the bay started fussin cause he is about himself.

HeadMistress · 1 month ago

....and no one has mentioned it BUT every mother out there knows she would Lose. Her. Mind. if she found out, that during his weekend of custody, baby daddy f*cked another broad while her precious gift was sleeping in the same bed or was even in the same room...

The results of said discovery would range in severity from attempted castration to a petition for termination of his parental rights

TheDuchess · 1 month ago

I AGREE!! I couldn't do it! Why not get it on in the living rm or bathroom?? Why in the bed with your child??

IMO, It is NOT the move to have children while living in a one bedroom..

patrickbatemann · 1 month ago

I had sex when my kid (toddler) was in the bed, but the kid was sleeping. I wouldnt do that if the kid was awake.

ChellBellz AKA Mimz · 1 month ago

Wow, when i first saw this on twitter, i thought who the hell would. I'm childless, but a newborn child in the bed. My only issue would be that I would be scared to wake the baby, or hit the baby. I don't even know if i could bring myself to do it. I think I would be feel better moving the baby or keeping the foor open, and doing it somewhere else in the house.

A 17 month old looking up and staring through is very wierd, married or not. I don't think i would want my child seeing that, then repeating the movements at daycare or something.

bogart4017 · 1 month ago

ou shouldnt even be sleeping in the same bed as the child. You can't believe how many kids make the paper by getting crushed like that.

TheWiz · 1 month ago

I couldn't do it with my daughter in the room so I know I couldn't with her in the bed. But hey if you're comfortable with it do u.

makenzie08 · 4 weeks ago

I have two kids and I have never once had sex with my kid even in the room. I dont think its right, even in a small apartment there are still other rooms beside the bed. My husbands also the kind of person that doesnt let the kids see him in his boxers and there only 18mths and 3yrs, which i like it that way, but to each there own. Kids are getting to where there having sex at earlier ages and ppl wonder why... But its bc we make it seem like sex is an everday part of life so in our kids eyes its ok to start having sex at 9,10 years old.

riri808 · 1 week ago

It's one thing to have sex with another man in the same bed with your baby. But if it's the babies father then yea ya'll do the damn thing. But word of the wise it won't last that long pretty soon you'll be figuring out a way to have privacy. I would never have sex in the same bed with my baby with a guy that is the father of my child. You can take it to the living room, kitchen, the floor, there are other places in the house also. It really isn't that serious!