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Re: Women Vs Bitches

Yea so.... — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 20:14:06 -0000

Late addition to this post, but I have to say I can agree to some points in this post maybe most but I can't get behind some of these comments because I am an educated woman on the graduate level I am very independent can't say I'm one of the chicks that has to have a man but I have been considered "easy" back in the day and sometimes even now depends on how I feel but I don't do it for the status or what a man can give me sometimes I just want to be the one who controls the situation it makes me feel empowered in a way just to know that I'll probably fuck you and never call but I understand that karma will probably come back to me on the things that I have done past and present but I can honestly say I tried, when I first started dating, to be that great woman, that woman who did anything for her man but being that I started in college and most college guys don't feel the need for relationships when its being tossed at them in every direction I was taken for granted and cheated on so after being naive for a period I time I learned from it and stopped being stupid. I can't say that I've met a good man there was one that I thought was great but turned out to be a manipulative bastard who also cheated but lied about it until I just said fuck it maybe its the guys I'm attracted to or maybe its me and how it takes me a while to open up and most guys aren't patient in that aspect... and my last guy before i decided to lock up the cookie jar was a lying bastard so yeah ... no good guy for me so I don't know would you still consider me a bitch.

Re: Women Vs Bitches

Killa — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 13:25:46 -0000

Once again...LMAO, Nope why would I try to get a rise out of someone on a computer, and??? I made an observation and was just asking you a question you haven't answered yet.

And please read again where did I call you a name??

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404 — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 13:00:31 -0000

AAAAAWWWWWW POOR THING...........................

You have nothing better to do than judge strangers on a blog?
The name calling is juvenile & I don't get offended easily, so if your goal is to get a rise outta me, you're going to have to come a lil bit harder....................Go get some business...............

Re: Women Vs Bitches

Killa — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 12:18:13 -0000

If you notice I started the comment laughing, I actually find you quite entertaining I'm pretty much guaranteed a good laugh. Not angry at all Boo Boo... I was really looking for some clarification since I found it an oxymoron for you to be commenting on a post about women and bitches, considering your moral standing is questionable since you find it acceptable and seem to be quite proud of the fact you sleep with married men, I was actually curious as to which of the two you consider yourself.

And it does become an issue for WOMEN when bitches sleep around with WOMEN'S husbands or significant others with no regard for that WOMAN.

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OnDaReal — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 10:50:29 -0000

I'm sorry, but the way I see it, you get what your looking for, or paying for, or however you'd like to put it. I have no symapthy for a chick who's talking about being a real woman, but your dating a hustla? Who does this? Give me a break. This is why things are the way they are. Hustlas rule the world... At least "our" (black folks) world anyway.

Riddle me this: I'm a black male, just hitting 30, business owner, well established, mature, college educated on the graduate level, and by all accounts I'm a good looking, muscular, 6'4 guy...

I can't find a chick to compliment me to save my life...

I'm in Miami and all the chicks I've run into basically meet me for my looks, talk to me based on potential, and then fade away because I don't have golds in my mouth, I don't care to put 24's on my ride, and I don't have some stank ass dreads looking like Lil Wayne... I'm sorry, I have no sympathy for sistas now-a-days. Most of them would'nt know a good man if he walked up to them and spit in their eye...

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Sad — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 09:47:13 -0000

I caught up with an old friend from school via myspace. And the majority of her pics were of her high with a kid not a few feet away from her. One of the captions read on her daughters pic read "break them pockets girl" meaning she is teaching her daughter to be like her, and try to get any and everything they can from a man and it's so sad. She has about 4 kids from different guys and she is 26. A lot of these women were raised this way. Single mom, who is all about partying, drinking and going to the club. Children growing up, look up to their parents and want to be like them. Asking men for money and things is something I have never been comfortable with and I've been with my guy for 10 years now. But back to the point, girls that are hardcore in trying to get everything they can from a man, don't even know better half the time b/c that's all they saw growing up or that is all they were around.

Re: Women Vs Bitches

404 — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 08:46:10 -0000

I do sleep with a married man........ and quite well actually.

And yes, if you want to sleep with someone outside of your relationship, I don't give a shit, do you.

And why you so angry?????

Re: Women Vs Bitches

Killa — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 08:36:50 -0000

LMAO...OTFR!!! Don't you sleep with a married man and announce it like it's something you're proud of?? And don't you feel it's ok to have or be a side piece? So which one are you??

I'm just sayin'...

Re: Women Vs Bitches

NubianGoddez — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 21:43:20 -0000

Good article and 100% true, blame it on the BET and VH1 era and the moms who had no parental skills and raised these b*tches to be the same thing. unfortunately society has gone to hell, these b*tches have no morals or self love and respect, they are beyond pathetic and do make it bad for real women out here, we can't blame the men, we allow them to dog and use us then the good guys pay for that. there is a book by Akil called Goddess Black Woman, Mother of Civilization. should be mandatory reading also Marcus Garvey. sometimes I really wish we had a drop squad for most of these brain dead zombi black folks. I just pray for them and keep it moving, you ain't gonna save everybody.

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louisej — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 20:08:32 -0000

as many women have stated on here, its hard out here for real women. i was dating a guy off and on for five years. he was a hustla. i left him because i was tired off the door being kicked in, gun shots all time of night and different itches talking to him. He had the audacity to call me a triflin hoe. I dont think i was wrong for leaving him. Everytime he get on, some scallywag come along and gets his attention and he dont want to be with me. he often blames it on me being in college. then when he aint on he wanna be all in my face. its not the fact that he got money that i am with him, i was with him when he didnt have a pot to piss in. but im a hoe because i am tired of putting up with the itches sucking and f*cking for a ride. Real women have it hard out especially the ones handling it on their own.

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Kirk — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 19:26:39 -0000

On Point

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404 — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 10:17:30 -0000

Mornin!

I feel that it is not only the bitches who make it hard for women but it is also the men who PREFER the bitches. Here in Atlanta everybody knows the ratio is 17:1 women to men, and within the 17 I would guess 85% are bitches. Leaving the remaining 15% to battle with these clowns for some respect. Grant it, it is a recession and it is slim pickins I get it, but GOTDAMN, it's hard out here. Like Xilla stated in a recent post "the price of pussy has plummeted" lmao and it has. I can tell by the way men approach women now. There is no introduction just, "gimmie yo number" or "here go my number". Nigga naw, I don't even have a jus to make a rational decision as to whether or not I wanna speak with you again..........EVER!!!

The bitches think they stars, wanna get next to stars, and fuck stars...............A woman knows that she doesn't need any additional "accessory" to shine.

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rawdawgbuffalo — Sun, 12 Oct 2008 18:10:43 -0000

i dont think Chivalry is dead - look at me

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occasional lurker — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 21:24:26 -0000

As a single woman handling my own business, I get upset at a lot of my female counterparts that feel it is acceptable to give head and fugg for a hair do, light bill or whatever the object may be. I had my time as a child and I acted as a child, but as a grown azz woman I had to put those behaviors away and be responsible for my actions. Not that this is the answer, but I keep myself to myself until I find someone who is seemingly worthy of me. U don't fugg cause you took me out to eat , I can do that for myself. I have a homegirl right now that is 28 and will suck and fu*k for a meal at applebee's. Women need to realize that we teach men how to treat us and as Xilla said, when a person shows you who you are believe them. It's Itches that mess it up for us real women, but us real women need to be able to recognize when a real azz nugga come into our lives and give him the respect he deserves for being such.

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ALMiss — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 08:19:26 -0000

I agree! Some of my high school friends started having sex wayy too early! For most of them 7th or 8th grade, and although they were my age, I'm thinking "WHAT?? We're really only kids!! Are you serious??" And today, it's only getting worse....

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ALMiss — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 08:08:27 -0000

"Mad like insane and because I got J's on my feet, you wanna fuck.

Because I post a video on You Tube acting silly, you asking for my name and age because I'm cute."

You killed them with that one!! I know plenty of girls like that and it's not cute at all! When are young ladies these days gonna learn?

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Breezy — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 00:31:55 -0000

Well said SarahLove. B*tches definitely give the real women sideeyes probably because they are ashamed of themselves and their whorish ways. I used to think the issue was me, but then I realized it was those "women" don't know their worth and don't know the harm in their actions. I dated a (college) football player and you would not believe the locker room stories I've heard. As a female I was ashamed and so hurt for my gender. Men would never treat us with respect until we respect ourselves as females (talking 2 the b*tches). and its sad because those fools think that just because they treat one girl like that, they can step to the real women that way.

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BUT.. — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 23:17:41 -0000

i know who's fault it is....my opinion.

if you have sex with a boy
give a boy head
treat him like he is a king
when he is a boy that don't have anything going for him
but a functioning d*ck
you are telling that boy that he does not need to grow up and become a man
he already has everything that men strive for...money respect, sex & head
the solution is stop letting your kids have sex before they are of age
this is what really killed the "good man"

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chanel — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 19:03:07 -0000

..WOW.. you on point.. lol i need to meet you..but anyway my comments:

1. STOP BEING LAZY!! (women) get a job
- i don't have a job im 18 but i am fortunate for parents that dont mind paying for my college and nessecities but trust and believe i dont need no man to get me things i can get myself.. smh
2. PERFORMING NASTINESSS ON NIGGAS YOU DO NOT KNOW
- me and my then boyfriend used to do everything EVERYTHING but the was MY MAN.. so therefore the rigght to be a naughty little girl inside his doors.
3. WE ARE IN A RECESSION
-if you are gonna be with a nigga your gonna have to put out alot more to get money...

BYEEz

Re: Women Vs Bitches

SarahLove — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 18:27:22 -0000

Wow this whole post is sooooooo sad!!!
I have daughters, and it saddens me that this is the world they were born into.
Men calling women, b*tches, and whores, women calling women b*tches, and whores.
I always go back to 'who raised these b*tches, and whores?'.
We do what we know. And when you see that someone doesn't know, why take advantage, why not teach. Be a real HUMAN (not man) and let them know that what their doing is leading to nothing.

The human race is in a sad place right now:(
To me if your sexually intellegent you don't need to take advantage of a woman who is hurting to get some sex. And trust when I say women who are doing this are hurting.
Compassion!!!!! I wanna order some of that!!!

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Shayna' — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 18:09:49 -0000

i agree. women are having a hard time finding a good man who wants more than to just have sex with them, cuz these "bitches" out there giving up easy.
easy ass bitches in the club wearing next to nothing, easy ass bitches on myspace w. slutty ass pictures. smh.
I've been single for almost 2 years and celibate for 1 year (by choice). 2 of the dudes i dated for a quick minute just wanted sex, and thats not what im about right now. im young (20) but i want something more than just a fuck buddy right now, but that seems to be on every dudes mind that i meet. im not a picky person, and i definately can appreciate a good man sadly have yet to meet anyone lately.

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Ness — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 17:10:31 -0000

Women want to complain b/c men are dealing w/ b*tches and whores, or dealing w/ white women or asian women.
When r we going to get it together?
We're loosing our men to so many elements & with the woman to male ratio, we're gonna loose out on a potentially good thing.

Re: Women Vs Bitches

kyas_mami — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 16:56:05 -0000

I agree...
Just like Xilla said men get used to the bitches, I think women get used to their male counterparts...
The same way we want men to open their eyes and steer clear of these bitches
We need to realize that there are good men out there!

Re: Women Vs Bitches

Ness — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 16:48:29 -0000

What it all boils down to is that 'real' women feel like they don't NEED a man to do anything for them. Men don't wanna hear the sh*t (I'm sorry, but it's true). Yeah we all want to be independent women but we don't know when to sit the f*ck down and sh*t the f*ck up. Real women r too busy bumpin their gums about what they can do for themselves and how they don't need a man to help them with anything, not even bustn a nut. So all the 'good' men go out and find the 'easy' women and get their jollies off that way.

All the females out there getting tricked on and doing all this strange sh*t is b/c 'real' women toss 'good' men back in the sea. So these women go to great lengths (which real women see as being a hoe or a b*tch) to keep these men coming back b/c they know that these men do have standards it's just that men can't get an inch with the so called 'real' women out there b/c their standards are so high that they can't look down and recognize a good man.

And with black women it's the worst. We're walking around with chips on our shoulders, and wonder why they can't find a descent man. A man can walk past a woman on the street and say a simple hello and she's rolling her eyes and suckin her teeth. All of that isn't necessary. Say hi back, smile at a brother. Every hello, or how r u doing isn't an invitation to f*ck.

Re: Women Vs Bitches

Reesethe — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 16:27:22 -0000

Youre right. Real women know the difference.