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Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Dana — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 11:43:12 -0000

Why do men feel that women should always cook,clean house,and take care of the kids?Whats wrong with rotating these responsiblities?Thats why women look so run down trying to do everything at the homefront.Remember its a job that has no pay or vacation!There are women who cater to their men and kids,because they put their needs before their own.No time for themselves,Those are nice pics of Eva,but they are not reality.

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

HeadMistress — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 19:23:19 -0000

a gay boy dog?!?

I'ma really need Thoney to stop bein so GD funny!!!

this is why I can't f*ck wit ya"ll at work, Boss Bytch or not I'll get fired for sure for always being UMDROFLMAOOL instead of workin, shyt I need a door and a ceiling for my cubiffice

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Ness — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 19:08:33 -0000

Wow tht's crzy! He set her up lovely knowing tht she wouldn't terminate it...damn he's so smart. Too bad the Plan B wasn't an over the counter option lol.

lol...u can't have a gay boy dog lol..lmao!! u know they have fly clothes for male dogs lol....

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

HeadMistress — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 19:07:52 -0000

OMG, you just stand there lookin at dude with that smirk like are you really with this dumb broad and for whatever reason no matter how cute she might be she becomes the ultimate source of shame for him at that moment....sooooo effin funny to witness

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Haniplease — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 19:04:40 -0000

girl my grandmothers empoloyees daughter [such a hood tree of relation right there] had a guy get her preg on purpose. cuz she's mixed. and they're all religious so she didn't get an abortion. the baby is absolutely amazingly handsome and he takes care of him but the ish is still wild 100's!

i'm soooo enjoying the ride and Santa better bring me my cockapoo named QueenB[but its gone be a gay boy dog and i'ma dress him in girl clothes] there's no need to get married to me. all it is is legally tying my duckets to his coins. i ain' goin!

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Ness — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 18:58:44 -0000

lol..hahahahaha tht's cute lol.

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Ness — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 18:56:31 -0000

Oh and tht's why I'm not rushing into marriage b/c I'll be damned if I have a kid w/ my husband and he pulls a "waiting to exhale" moment like angela b. when thru in tht movie!! hell naw!!!

if it happens then it happens, but I'd rather spend the rest of my life traveling the world, getting my block rocked by the men/man tht I choose & have a puppy lmao

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Ness — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 18:51:57 -0000

damn....I guess it's really true tht dudes really try to get females prego!!! WOW!! damn tht's bananas...u gotta watch dudes sometimes! they make it seem like females try to trick dudes 2 get prego but it goes both ways from wht I see

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Haniplease — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 18:39:08 -0000

girl i ddated dude a min and he popped the condom on me then proposed after i found out i was preg. i saids aWHAT?! noWAAAAY! headed right to the chopshop, handled my b-i, gotta pedicure and leg rub, and didn't speak to him again til ma rent was late. he wanted a baby more than anything and thought i'd make a cute one since i had good hair and my parents were mixed. i couldn't make this mess up!

i don't know anyone that's married and are really in love. all the married folks i know are angry or they did it for career purposes. that ain' even me.

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Haniplease — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 18:36:37 -0000

oKAAAY! lol i love coming to amerikkka. bitch was like arf arf! omg! i love hearing stupid girls speak. it brightens my day. especially when their guy gets embarassed! HA!

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Haniplease — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 18:29:39 -0000

amen, i need the corporatey white boy to pay me, and the hood nigga to bounce and break my back! lol OW!

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

HeadMistress — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 18:06:28 -0000

the problem is some men, even the good/smart ones, don't know that they want and need a good woman, with substance, we can after all be a bit of a challenge at times

they think something nice to look at without a brain or domestic skill to speak of is gonna satisfy them and because she's dumb she won't put up resistance or offer an opinion

cut to scene in Coming to America when Vanessa Bell Calloway was hopping on one foot barking and repeating "whatever you like"

the joke is on them tho' cause dumb bytches don't know they're dumb and when they do start offering up their stupid POV and arguing the men realize (all to late) their mistake, nothing worse than a debate with a dumb ass...HA!

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Ness — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 17:51:45 -0000

Lol of course I'll marry you!!! :)

So wait...let me get this str8t! I guy proposed just so u could have his baby? WTH is wrong w/ some of these guys nowadays!

I realized a long time ago tht men don't marry out of love but they marry b/c they feel obligated.

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Ness — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 17:47:40 -0000

Yeah I'm not trying to get married unless I can marry two men (j/k) lol

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

HeadMistress — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 17:34:31 -0000

Great post - simply put, as women, we need to have substance - it's amazing that some women need to even be told this kind of stuff...

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

sexyma078 — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 17:14:28 -0000

Oh and as far as keeping yourself up just yesterday my husband was fussing at me cause when we went shopping he wanted to park in between two stores so we could walk back and forth I'm like fool do you see my heels and he was like well why hte hell did you wear them as he saying this we are pulling into a parking spot and this chick has on a dirty tee, some rolled over shoes and a head scarf and instanly he's like nevermind...lol

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

HeadMistress — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 17:11:51 -0000

UN-F*CKIN-BELIEVABLE...that is just plain sickening, and somebody like that won't ever have an open case with ACS but let a responsible loving parent pop their child for a legitimate reason - they'll be all in your shyt

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

sexyma078 — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 17:08:23 -0000

I agree somewhat...my household is the same way though we now have older kids so they do most of the household work...but before they got old enough I did the cooking and cleaning and worked and went to school (ladies it is possible) and my husband did the taking the garbabge, fixing ish etc. But my neighbors it's the opposite and it works for them so that the most important thing doing what works for you so above all communication is the key and the ability to be flexible

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Haniplease — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 17:05:17 -0000

TRUE! i had a black guy be married and have a son, that his wife dropped off at my apt. he worked a job where i couldn't contact him til that night so i was DISGUSTED! i had to play with bam bam for hrs! i love kids but damn! some people shouldn't even be allowed to make 'em! specially when good parents are sterile. its all nutty.

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Haniplease — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 16:59:39 -0000

Ness will you marry me!? AGAIN u are talkin my life. i've had one clown propose to me but its only because we wanted my babies and knew i wasn't eager to be a babymama.
i cook, order my cleaning lady to his apt, am a great listener, will help edit ur papers/re-acess calculations for clients portfolios, and got a sneakabooty that makes the preachas sin.

WHATS THE PROBLEM!?

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Haniplease — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 16:55:31 -0000

i agree. i enjoy allowing my man to be a man. yes i know how to change a tire or fix my sink, but i enjoy allowing him ti play his role. i enjoy cooking and experimenting with meals or doing womanly things.... role association is NECESSARY for success.

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

Haniplease — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 16:51:30 -0000

aaaaw xilla! i'm sorry we got in a text war now lol! anywhooo i think ur baaaaaaaaaaaack! todays posts were fire! and it sucks cuz i been busy and can't even keep up...

i so agree with what u said re: opposite sex. if men didn't dog women out because they nagg them things would be better...[y'all catch that!? i can't slow down for u to catch up lol] we must learn to communicate and be more honest.but exercise tact. there's nothing like someone that TOO honest and abrasive.

AND ANOTHA THING, women, specially black women PLEASE keep urself up!. too many sistas i know only get pedicures in the summer or shave in the summer. what is up with that!? i like the feeling of my baldie or a mohawk and i guess i'ma a cheater since i do hair and nails, but i enjoy gettin cute! please take notes! and buy fancy drawz er now and then. even ur "periodpantieS" can be cute MATCHING sets from wallyworld for $12 that hold up better than victoria's secret....ok done! ;D

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

jmk — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 16:32:54 -0000

You know you have a good girl when you can see her in her "down time" and still feel she is beautiful.... thats always a good judgement. And some chicks look better when they aren't "trying so hard"

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

jmk — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 16:31:00 -0000

I believe it is because most of the time the females have the custody of a child. This day and age it is way too hard for the father to gain custody without police reports, hospital records, or drug convictions on the mother. It does work both ways though, but the father has an easier time to cover their children up if they do not have custody.

Re: What Good Men Look For In A Woman

jmk — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 16:28:26 -0000

There is good credit and bad credit.... School loans and that are good cause it will help you in the future. MAJOR Credit Card debt, or the inability to get a cell phone in your own name because you previously did not pay your $400 bill is a red flag.