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Regina — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 02:58:32 -0000

I'm sorry, but I could have sworn being gay means being attracted to the same sex and/or having sex with the same sex. So my question is how having sexual intercourse with the opposite sex, whether it be licking ass or not, make a man gay?

I would want a man you is a freak lol in the bed and most importantly comfortable enough in his sexuality. Now if he just doesnt like it or isnt into it, thats another story. But to say a man who doesnt mind getting is ass licked by a woman is automatically gay, I think is totally wrong.

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Carmen Sandiego — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 00:51:45 -0000

LMAO!!!!

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Mac — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 13:45:46 -0000

AAaight as a straight male i think thats just homo, thats one place on a man you dont play. Hell if you wanna get us off good finish the job, there is no better feeling when you cuming and ya gurl steady sucking u off, it feels like she's suckin every ounce of energy outta u. and she aint even gotta be close to ya ass

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Annamarie — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 11:34:53 -0000

Your thoughts are so detatched. A (Masters), educated woman would never draw a comparison of herself to a 'Video Hoe, nor would you refer to your degree as merely a 'masters.' Titles do not define who you are. It's wonderful that your marraige has lasted this long and you should be proud. But seriously what delight can you achieve by watching your man on all fours while you enlarge his asshole. Is this a behavior he wouldn't mind you telling his boys about. If yes then how would he respond if the thought made one of his homeboys' dick hard? And if no, then why r you putting his business out there like that? I hope I didn't beat you up but i'm just blown away by the 'anything goes' attitude. I know when I think of my husband the thought of bending him over and having him spead eagle would be the scariest fucking thought imaginable.

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SheLurks — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 22:14:17 -0000

Me and the same friend I mentioned from the other anal story also engaged in this... well I licked it lol... it was something we talked about a couple of times and I was curious so I did want to try it. anyways for the record I was INCREDIBLY DRUNK when this happened and if we didnt talk about it the next day I would've forgotten all about it. it All I know is I was givin head and then he started to move and ended up on all 4s... keep in mind i was Not in my right mind and all i knew was that there was ass in my face and i remembered what he said "lick and jack him off @ the same time" so i did that for like 20sec then we changed positions and continued on w/ the session...

I was incredibly drunk and it only lasted for 20sec... does this even count?? lol

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V.I. — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 21:44:42 -0000

I'm not down with that. If any man ask me to do anything round his ass I will have to slap his ass to fucking hard.

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kos ummak — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 21:41:48 -0000

kol khara

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hottnikz — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 20:50:22 -0000

I'm good on anything that has to do with an ass, especially my mans! That's bitchassness at it's best. I had a guy ask me to put a thumb up his ass, during phone sex. Thank God that was before anything went down between us. Needless to say he never got another call from me again. But my homie, she gets a kick out of shit like that. She is the initiator most of the time. Most dudes I imagine would be ready to snap the fuck out if asked to participate in this, but she obviously knows how to pick em. I think she gets a thrill out of totally emasculating a man, seeing him bitch up like that. Too weird for me, but oh well. If she likes it ,I love it, for her.

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nichellewalker — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 19:28:46 -0000

If a man gets upset about his ass, or even a talk, than most likely he's on the low a real man would not call you names are beat yo ass he would just say it's not my thing!!! guys on the low who don't want to admit that they are gay get defensive in my opin if I had a guy get all mad because I asked him this than I would think something was wrong with him that he's trying to hid something. Real men know what they like. And just because you get your ass licked doesn't make a man gay. Now putting toys up there that’s a bit much for me. I couldn’t do it at all. But if you read on the down low JL King says that if a man gets upset about sexual questions because that means that there's something to hide that he was the same way.

I don't think for one minute licking ass has something to do with why men are dogs or the down fall of our community it's all about what we accept as women. What goes on behind your closed doors is your business so if you lick ass okay if not okay, it doesn't make anybody wrong are right. I’m sure licking ass has been going on as long as head has.

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Rich — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 19:09:22 -0000

Nothing goes in or around my A, well unless we just talking about the taint...

If you don't know about the taint, go seek that knowledge.

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Bill — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 18:46:03 -0000

well, i guess this says it all: https://www.crackedtees.com...

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Qrazy — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 17:46:59 -0000

no lube
just lots of patience! lol.
I guess mine figured he may as well try it considering the size of his object he wanted to enter my back door.
oh I never licked his back door.

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404 — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 16:26:30 -0000

Awwww COME ON! What if that's what Mike wants? You not gone toss his salad? lol

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LADYNEWSOME — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:48:16 -0000

I know you seemed to intelligent to miss my point mission accomplished keep
on doing what your doing being a wonderful strong woman

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ANuJS — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:38:15 -0000

Agreed 100%. As a black woman-scratch black- ALL women, we have watched ourselves be devalued completely. Where ur booty size determines our worth. I understand completely about not wanting to see your man with his ass tooted up in the air. LMAO @ squirm like one be treated like one. Me now understands!

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LADYNEWSOME — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:33:31 -0000

Beauty I wouldn't have used those words but I agree totally

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LADYNEWSOME — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:32:28 -0000

Thanks and we all could use it peace be easy

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LADYNEWSOME — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:31:24 -0000

Bravo you are a very intelligent woman and deserve to be applauded but this
is a blog and everybodies opinion is open for discussion I was not targeting
you I was making a blanket statement. if you consider the media black women
are looked at as sex objects more than anything else and sex is an important
part of any relationship but my views remain the same and not because there
is a pedestal in my bedroom I can get down with the best of them I just want
my man to be masculine not bitchy it's a turn off for me I like a man's man
hard working and hard stroking. If you squirm like a Bitch I might feel
inclinded to treat you like one.

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Qrazy — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:27:38 -0000

Thanks, and so do you!

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LADYNEWSOME — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:25:30 -0000

Good sounds like you got a straight head

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ANuJS — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:23:59 -0000

I was not placed on this earth to judge any man....so I shall simple agree. We ALL need prayer!

BTW I like u DC!

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DC_REALEST — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:19:54 -0000

aye LADYNEWSOME... preciate that...i (we all) could use all the prayer.

be easy....its been REAL

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ANuJS — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:19:43 -0000

I have been with the same man for 15 years (married 9) I am college educated -have a masters. I have been through so much and prevailed. I am not a video hoe and I realize that my good loving isn't ALL that has kept my man with me over the years. I am indeed a lady (all day) and a freak (all night) Believe me I can cook, I can clean, and this is only the surface of my talents. However, I enjoy sex and it is a big part of my married life. I enjoying talking about it and doing it. I am very open minded. I can't see making adult decisions in the bedroom as compromising myself in any negative way. Truth be told, if we really knew all the freaky stuff that went on after dark....we'd be suprised. BTW, I have no pedestal in my bedroom. When the lights are off (sometimes on) whatever floats our boat is what we do. Also I know from reading some of the other comments, that there are a ton of ladies who enjoy being licked but aren't willing to be stuck.

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BeautyIsMyGift — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:19:07 -0000

THIS SHIT IS GAY!! if your man wants him anywhere near his ass he is homo!!! My man would beat my ass if I even asked him 2 look at his ass, and that's how real men suppose to be!!

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Qrazy — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:10:19 -0000

Oh, I know that...hence the words WAS fun. I don't share and will not accept
a man that will share me or himself with another....male or female.
I expect to get what I give. My current situation is MUCH better!