DISQUS

VIChick · 1 year ago

Fuck me then I get the fuck out. That goes for one night stands and booty calls. With a one night stand if I ever had one (which i never had one) I would tell them up front "you know what it is". No phone numbers, I probably wont give my real name. It's just getting our jollies for one night and that's it.

You want a one night stand Xilla?

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

Nah i'm not a big fan of one night stands... I mean depends on my mood. but i dont like being just D*ck

Roxychic · 1 year ago

that's funny you say that because I know plenty who do lol

thejadednyer · 1 year ago

I never take them back to my place; I like to be the one that leaves and I never give out my number... they can email me at my alias email addy and if I feel like it I'll reply.

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

dang alias email addy that's gangsta

Miss Cocoa Luv · 1 year ago

It's been quite a long time since I've had a One Night Stand, but in the past both parties knew what the deal was. You get your rocks off then bounce. Now that I'm a little older and weary of people that want to do the one hit quick and roll I have steered clear of it. However there is one guy, if the moment came and I was twisted I would handle the bizz. lol.

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

HAHAHA Well I don't know if it happens it happens I don't think it would be cool for someone to knowing only want to f*ck you once. There isn't anyone that i can say I would only want to have sex one time with.

Ess · 1 year ago

I havent experienced this in years. But it really wasnt discussed.
Ill say this, in my past experience/s. It ended up being a one nighter cuz I made it that way.

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

What made you make it a one nighter?

Ess · 1 year ago

Wasnt really interested in having sex with the guy again. But he was willing.. I wasnt.

LawdHaveMercy · 1 year ago

I think that you both should be upfront and honest and say this is only a one night thing,so that way nobody catches feelings and turns stalker-ish.You know some females will sleep with a dude and catch feelings and be thinking the next morning he's there man,and vice versa.So to avoid all the drama,just say we both know what this is,it's a one nighter and nothing more,we aren't under any obligation to call one another,it's just a one time thing.

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

True I feel you but i firmly believe that a lot of females have a problem with the truth! Well hell men too so let me not single out women. We just handle it differently

ANuJS · 1 year ago

I may be a man. I have had horrible sex and let it end with that. However, I have entered into *uck buddy relationships a time or two in my past. I think this is a wonderful meeting of the mind b/c in my experience one of my best buddies wasn't make him ur man material. Therefore, I got some wonderful lovin and didn't deal with the drama. We were honestly buds and we had fun together.

Ess · 1 year ago

I agree with this.. Im not a fan of 1-nighters at all.
But Ive had a buddy who was honestly dayum near almost a best friend. We knew what it was. Mentally, physically ad emotionally we were on point with each other, We just knew that a "label" wasnt necessary.

I always say, it was the greatest non-relationship I ever had.

ANuJS · 1 year ago

What if....

VIChick · 1 year ago

One time I had sex with this guy and that shit was repulsive. I couldn't continue, I said I am never gonna let you fuck me again, you sucke" and walked out the house. Horrible sex makes me angry. I just want to fuck someone up after I have bad sex.

kingsmomma · 1 year ago

I think when you first meet someone and yuor loins start tingling instantly and you sucumb to that sensation you are on one night territory. Circumstances should really let you know that its a one time thing. I think its a bit more awkward when you've been dating someone for a while before you get any and then you finally get it and it extra whack- thus a one night only type of thing. I still have no idea how to get that one across.

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

oh yea if it's wack it instantly becomes a one night stand barring certain circumstances. lol

kingsmomma · 1 year ago

Like what?

ChucksFavorite · 1 year ago

i've only had one 1 nighter and it was the SHIT!!!! and after it was over, i thought that we both knew what the deal was, until he called to say how good it was and that he wanted to see me the next time i was in town. i didn't think it would happen again, but sure enuff i was back in his city a few months later and we ended up back between the sheets. then, a short time after encounter #2, i found out he had feelings. i felt kinda bad for him....but what can i say, GOOD GOOD will do that to you ;-) but looking back on it, i prolly should have told him that it was a one time thing.

thejadednyer · 1 year ago

Very similar to what happened with this dude I met while visiting my girl out in Cali... we did a repeat and it wasn't all that the 2nd time around (although it was still good... i wonder what he's up to these days... lol). He was, like, TALKING TO ME n sh*t, like trying to have a conversation as if we were on a date... WTH?

yeah, we never met up again...

PUSSYCATFUN · 1 year ago

I WON'T SAY SHIT.....DUDE WILL FIND OUT EARLY I'M NOT CALLING.

ANuJS · 1 year ago

Sheeee's back. Missed them CAPS

LawdHaveMercy · 1 year ago

Hey PCF,man missed seeing your comments..I'mma make Xilla my one and only blog stop,I can't take to many more ebeef convos and you hatin comments..ugh

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

they beefing over the fence?

LawdHaveMercy · 1 year ago

Ugh Xilla,I swear it has got to be nothing but little kids and mental patients up over there now..sometimes you can tell it's he same person with a different name saying the same BS and then fighting with THEMSELVES....You can't even have an adult opinion or conversation over there anymore.......Love Necoole aand had mad love for her blog,but I'm not feeling it over there anymore

toosexy · 1 year ago

I have never had a one night stand, but it is one of my fantasies, I would def not tell the person my motive in the beginning, but if i start feeling them I would let them not my intentions, I plan on going on a girl only weekend and living out my fantasy. I will tell the person eventually that it is what it is. I think the person has the right to know so they can make an informed decision.

PUSSYCATFUN · 1 year ago

@MISS MERCY...GIRL YOU SEE WHY I STEPPED OFF.....I ONLY STOP BY FOR MY "FRIDAY LIST"...I WOULD COME TO XILLA'S SPOT AND DO MY "LIST" BUT, XILLA HAVEN'T SAID IT WAS OK TO DO IT YET.........HEY, JUST STPEH...WHAT'S GOOD!

XILLA...HOLLA AT ME...YO!

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

I been told you you could do it... You want it to be it's own post? shoot it to me and i'll put it in a blog.

ANuJS · 1 year ago

Tell me where I can view the Friday List. I have heard about it, but never seen it. Tell me where and I'll venture out of Xilla-world.

BlogXilla · 1 year ago

Whoa!! we are not having anyone venture out of xilla world!! please refrain from blasphemous comments!!

ANuJS · 1 year ago

I'd PROBABLY come back.

LawdHaveMercy · 1 year ago

Yes Let's please do the Friday List here....

wildbill · 1 year ago

Brothers and Sisters, I'm going to share tha TRUTH with you about "one night stands". The really real is that you are nervous to make a second shot at it because in your mind "you trying to straight dogg that (fellas). And ladies you know you were trying to work off frustrations and "show off" too.F... it, so it's whatever comes to mind at that moment. So that one night it's "Sunshine" meets "Rocky". Stay TRUE

PUSSYCATFUN · 1 year ago

COOL!

I'LL WORK ON MY "LIST" TONIGHT AND PUT IT UP IN YOUR COMMENT AREA....THANX XILLA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wildbill · 1 year ago

PCF let me get that list,too. You look great.

Killa · 1 year ago

Thank Goodness. I need my "list" fix...will Shani be in on it too??

PUSSYCATFUN · 1 year ago

@KILLA...IF YOU COULD FIND THE CHICK...SHIT SHANI IS ALWAYS MISSING......@ WILDBILL...**CLEARS THROAT** WHY THANK YOU....**BLUSHING**

Killa · 1 year ago

Yeah she does stay MIA...lol

One NightER · 1 year ago

If it happens more than once, it wouldn't be a one night stand. More than likely they got a fake name. It was safe, definitely. We didn't exchange nothing but love faces. I kiss them on the forehead in the morning before the sun rises and I am gone like the wind. Too funny though cause talking about this now makes me think of the situation. It was good but so much better as a memory. MUAH!!

Kandy Red · 1 year ago

To be honest if you’re straight forward, you might just catch a scaliwag in the bunch; some women could just except it for what it is, now and days women are doing exactly what a man is doing even harder, they're trying to keep up with the males. "Not lady like at all" but to each it's own. But back to the question; if you was to approach a female and let them know “Sweetheart your fine is hell and I'm only in town for a day, I would love to see what that feel like". Nine times outta a ten you might just get that female that might just take you up on that offer... one nights don't suppose to be plan it suppose to just happen...that’s why it's called a one night stand!!

yes · 1 year ago

well i dont do them enough to have etiquette, but you really dont need to exchange numbers, just say follow me

yes · 1 year ago

that chick in the pic looks like my friend...lol

SexxyNay · 1 year ago

Yeah I Think That You Should Let The Person Know That It's Just Goin To Be A One Night Stand......... This Is Just So That Mo'Fo's Dont Try To Get In Bed Wit Feelings.......... Me If I Was To Ever Again Have A One Night Stand The Exchanging Of Numbers Would Neva Happen There Would Be No Need To Right???..... O.k Last Year I Met This Dude At A Club And We Had A "Meeting" Later That Night We Had Exchanged Phone Numbers To Meet Up Well The Sex Ended Up Being Whack So I Didnt Call Him Had No Intentions On Calling Him And Was Mad As Hell.......... We Ran Into Each Other At The Club Like Two Weeks Later And He Was All Hurt That I Decided Not To Call Him So I;m Like "Hey What We Did Will Never Happen Again You Are Not On My Level Sexually And There Is No Need For Us To Be Friends....." Thats Why I Say That The Exchanging Of Phone Numbers Will Neva Happen Again. Now About 4 Months Ago I Met A Friend Of A Friend And What I Thought Was Only Going To Be A One Night Stand Turned Into A Two Night Stand, So Here I Go Gettin Feelings Fo The Dick Thinkin I'm Speical Called Him About A Week Later Thinkin I Was Bout To Get Sum More Good Good And He Like He Neva Have Sex Wit The Same Female More Than Once............ Yeah I Wish He Would Have Told Me That Shit B4 We Had Sex The 2nd Night It Wouldnt Of Had Made A Difference I Still Would Have Hit But I Wouldnt Of Been Callin This NIgga Like I Aint Got Shit Else To Do How Embrassing!!!! So Yes You Should Tell Them And Neva Exchange Numbers If Its Only Going To Be A One Night Stand

Tyrease · 1 year ago

Shoot.....I've been having a one night stand now for 2 years! lol Everyday I say to myself, "How the h*ll I get myself in this situation"?