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Blacksand — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 16:57:32 -0000

You are welcome. Have a good weekend!

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Princess0889 — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 16:31:33 -0000

Thanks for the compliment

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Blacksand — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 14:16:38 -0000

It is sad but true. I am glad you are not that way. Life is too short to be arguing all the time. Whoever wants to be that way can have it. I like what you wrote pertaining to grown folks. That is right on point. I feel you Princess0889. Nice pic also!

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Princess0889 — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 11:00:51 -0000

It's kind of funny but you are exactly right. I know plenty of women you love to argue and fight till the cows come home. I am not one of those women I refuse to argue with anyone because nothing gets done by doing it. I believe strongly in "Grown folk are going to do and believe what they want to and no one will change that."

P.S. I love this place and the positivity that inspires me.

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Blacksand — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 08:54:04 -0000

Negativity is easier to discuss than positivity. There you go. In less than twenty words.

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ink — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 23:58:12 -0000

i sure would like to

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thejadednyer — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 22:21:39 -0000

BUSTED! lol

But in my defense- I feel so bombarded by images and blog posts and news articles about the Obamas that once I saw the pic I didn't even read it.

Yes, it is refreshing to see that kind of marriage- black or white- but it's like overkill already. Everywhere I turn I have to read about their personal life? It's sooo none of my business. What I want to know is will this man lead this country right? Everything else is just tabloid fodder.

It's like when that Single Ladies song came out (or ANY Bey song for that matter LOL)... it's really good until people start playing it to death. And then you want to hang yourself every time it comes on the radio.

Or is that just me?

The redbone post struck a nerve 'cause I'm fresh off a break-up for this very reason... what can I say? :D

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Missy — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 21:30:41 -0000

LMAO....I missed BOTH!!!

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daniecal — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 20:43:27 -0000

Maybe its not women in general , perhaps its just the women who frequent the blogs? Nevertheless, u shouldnt be surprised most celebrity blogs cater to, and are visited by mostly women, and they are certainly not a testament to women's fondness of "positivity".

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toronto — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 19:34:02 -0000

you got a greater response in a post about attraction to skin tone NOT because women like to focus on the negative (which by the way is a stupid sweeping generalization). expect the more controversial topic that addresses a core issue, like colorism, that almost ALL black women have experienced to garner more responses sooner. shit, ive yet to experience love with a significant other, but i sure as hell have felt insecure about my complexion.

your readers, men or women, are always going to gravitate towards the more controversial topics, because its those ones that inspire the most interesting discussion; thats what i thought the whole point of a blog was.

if you intentionally tried to get a rise out of readers by offending them, then of course theyre going to rush to that post. it has little to do with catty and more to do with black women who are more egger to respond to a topic that deals with a problem in our community that touches us all.

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taut_7 — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 19:14:33 -0000

rotflmao...true so very true.

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Haniplease — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 19:10:22 -0000

i don't comment as much because this wonky thang won't show my ass..... p.s. i aggree with what u said, i have more fun pissin off headmiss than i do reading the good stuff, yet i asked for more positive thangs? i'ma mess! lol

p.s. there is totally a different way u gotta approach a redbone.....just like theres a special way to approach a good hurred brown skin chick. u just can't treat erbody the same.... society has put us in a place where we gotta be placed above and beyond our more normal regula chicks!

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1AM — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:48:45 -0000

Xilla you know people thrive off of negativity. When something is good, people don't find it exciting. The black love post was great.

...and the internet takeover continues *evil laugh* hahah

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what? — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:34:34 -0000

U know u aint' playin'. LOL...U sound Maaad!LOL

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PhoenixNicole — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:12:15 -0000

i liked the positive post Xilla.. i just couldnt comment 'cuz i had to force myself to focus on that damn essay lol..

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Divine — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:08:35 -0000

I go thru the same thing and can't figure it out. I'll let you know if I do. Keep blogging :))

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HeadMistress — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:06:42 -0000

STFU! LOL!

Which one? I'll tell you if it was wack ;-D

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BlogXilla — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:04:43 -0000

cuz i can!! lol nah i was just venting... i love you too WHAT?

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BlogXilla — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:04:06 -0000

thanks Divine, I appreciate you. but i wonder why it's like that though? like really i try my best not to respond to negativity.

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BlogXilla — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:02:50 -0000

again i got nothing but love for you. MUAH!! and you can put that anywhere.

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BlogXilla — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:01:41 -0000

props

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BlogXilla — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:00:41 -0000

nope!! no more positive post ever!! I'm just going to post all negative post so i can get a million comments until y'all start conversing as normal. I wrote a post the other day... maybe it was wack i don't htink it was... but i got like 2 comments... after all day long! lol nah negative post till we have our discussion i have decided!!!

lol

how i'm going ot have 50,000 people come by and get 2 comments? SMCH!!

Just kidding.

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HeadMistress — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 16:52:28 -0000

This is nothing new Xilla - the positive posts usually do go, I won't say unnoticed, but certainly "uncommented".

The controversial, dramatic, provocative, and negative posts are always gonna draw more attention...you can't read fast enough to keep up with the comments

People in general (not just women and no particular race) thrive on negativity and drama - that is why tabloid media is such big business

I love the positive pieces you do so please don't stop

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what? — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 16:50:07 -0000

Xilla, why are you generalizing? I haven't read ur blog on Black love where is it? Below the one with Caviar? I think maybe her picture was more attention grabbing than the headline for the other post. I don't know if ur having a bad day or what...I hope it gets better. We LOVES U!

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Divine — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 16:35:20 -0000

That's the way it is Xilla. You post something positive, nothing. Stir up controversy, off we go.

P.S. Love your blog.