DISQUS

the devil in disguise >;-] · 5 months ago

i enjoy kissin... but i am very picky about whom i kiss... besides the fact that im a germaphob.. lol, u jus cant go around kissin random ppl, which i often see ppl doin in parties and clubs. idk y guys prefer to fuck a girl and not kiss her.. is it because they think its safer? lol, y because they dont make condoms for lips?? idk but its deff a lot more dangerous to have sex wit somebody then it is to kiss them, so these guys should seriously rethink their logic for their actions. of course the mono thing and even the idea of havin a cold sore on ur lip may scare some ppl but honestly i'd rather a cold sore from kissin then have somethin 1000000x 's worse from sex..

DaRuler · 5 months ago

as a guy, i think the reason dudes dont like kissin' certain girls is because of what they've heard about her. (ex. oh she messed with this person, this person.. or the fact ur homeboy told you about how good the hed was..)

drea da diva · 5 months ago

i deff kno guys that are like that.. they would be quick to fuck a chick but would play that "i dont kiss" bullshit... i think thats crazy.. if a guy thinks he's guna fuck me and not even kiss me.. he has another thing comin... cuz that is a major insult.. if a girl is good enough for u to stick ur cock in her, then she should be good enough for u to kiss her.. its deff an respect issue. ur basically sayin shes nothin but sex... but hey if the chick lets u treat her this way maybe she doesnt deserve for u or any other guy to kiss her.

BlogXilla · 5 months ago

preach!!! I always say that a man will only do what you allow him to do. But yeah I was one of those guys... i don't think it was a conscious thing though. it was just a habit i found myself in.

Ness · 5 months ago

I see your point, but lets just play around wit this for a second.

Lets say that you're dating a guy....ya'll r feeling one another....and ya'll have protected sex. Key word, protected. He decides that he doesn't like to kiss (for whatever reason) but u feel that it's an insult.

Fast fwd to a wk and a half later when he comes to pick u up and take u out to eat and he has a cold sore on his lip. In your mind, you might not think anything of it, but to someone else that's a form of herpes.

After dinner, he drops u off and tells u that he has a complex about kissing and wants to make it up to u by kissing u good night.

Wht do u do? Kiss him w/ a cold sore on his lip or let it heal and kiss him the next time during sex?

DaRuler · 5 months ago

do what drake said... "say what's real".

Ness · 5 months ago

so...u would say... no ? lol....

DaRuler · 5 months ago

hell yes i would say no. i'd be like "nah boo, that shit on ur lip got some shit on its lip..." lol.. nah. i aint that cruel, but i would figure out a way to say no politely to i can find out whats that on her lip though...

dre da diva · 5 months ago

lmfao ^^^^^^ thats hilarious i agree wit him.. i would deff wait until it went away... lmao

Ness · 5 months ago

Hhahahaa...

See ppl have their reasons for not kissing....

U can protect ur d*ck and pu$$y but u can't protect ur mouth...lol

Lana · 5 months ago

i would give him the cheek not the lips

Ness · 5 months ago

But wht if he insists that u kiss his lips... :)

Would u have a problem kissing after his lip has healed.....(just curious) lol

juicyfruit4u · 5 months ago

Love kissing, it's sensual, it's a requirement.

BlogXilla · 5 months ago

so you never been f'd and not kissed?

outofyourmind · 5 months ago

I love kissing. Me and my man have completely different kissing styles and that can sort of put me off of it sometimes. I like the slow sensual kissing, he does what I call "porno kissing", LOL. Just mouth wide and shoving a tongue down my throat. Most of the time we compromise and its a great thing.

Princess0889 · 5 months ago

I have to tell my SO to calm down I think it's the eagerness that gets to most guys when they are kissing. It's like the passion doesn't slow up between his dick to lips and he just goes in for the kill (I am not a gazelle no need for a race). Anywho, try leading and pulling away a little if he is coming on to strong but, if that doesn't work say something like "[insert name here], I am not going anywhere slow down." He may forget from time to time but just remember he is only trying to please you too.

BlogXilla · 5 months ago

great advice.

BlogXilla · 5 months ago

wow that's crazy... you have to be able to do different kissing styles.. have you tried talking to him? Or taking control and telling him to slow down and and follow your lead. Kiss him like you want and force him to follow your lead.

confused143 · 5 months ago

i love kissing.. it can be really nice if ur kissing the right person.. i hate those ppl that think kissin is jus shoving their tongue down the other persons throat cuz that is not a turn on and honestly.. its gross.. im not a big fan of "french kissin" im more of a "pecker" [[lol]] but if the moment is right and its wit the right person then its a go =]

OrangeStar616@gmail.com · 5 months ago

yes there is def art to it just like there is art to Love period......

G3RMANCHOCOLATE · 5 months ago

A kiss is kind of representation of what the sex is going to be like to me...some kiss slow and passionate while others have that "edge" (a lil roughness)and then you just have those that don't know what the H3LL they're doing...So YESSSS.... I definitely believe it's an art!!!

BlogXilla · 5 months ago

kissin is a science though. But I agree it can sort of guide what the sex will be like...

TheWiz · 5 months ago

I use to date this girl who hated kissing she would do anything sexually I asked her but she would not kiss I didnt get that shit.

But personally I have to really be into you to kiss you...IDK why but its like I have to have a connection with you to be kissing you. Glad to know Im not the only one

Mahogany · 5 months ago

Kissing is only for people you REALLY LIKE...not some random ol' person you just met!
ANd if I am "talking" to someone I at least wait three weeks before I kiss them just to make sure no MYSTERIOUS BUMPS pop up around the mouth or on the lip.
I am very GERMAPHOBIC! You are not gonna be giving me no MONO!

=] · 5 months ago

i dont understand "mysterious bumps"??... so if u like the guy and u kiss him after 3 weeks... and 2 days after u kiss him he gets a cold sore... that means ur fucked... right? b/c they r contagious one week b4 and a week after so... then what r u guna do?? so much for "bein careful"... lol

Fa · 5 months ago

I LOVE to kiss, it's a talent of mine and of course is reserved only for special dudes. It's all about the connection that determines whether a guys gets the tongue or the cheek. I had an ex that I rarely kissed, and then I was dating a guy that I could kiss and that was all we really did. I love how when you 1st kiss someone you need to get accustomed to their groove and style so it feels new everytime. Kissing is back for '09

HeadMistress · 5 months ago

I LOVE kissing, I'm a germophobe too but I don't think it's disgusting.

While I don't think one should f*ck/suck everyone that they kiss - I do think its ok to kiss everyone that they f*ck/suck (provided you're being discriminatory)

I never understood the concept of having sex with someone but not kissing them, I mean it's a good rule for a "pro" to adopt, but otherwise o_O

AmoraAtlanta · 5 months ago

Kissing is an intimate thing between two people more than sex to me, Sex is action that every species does but kissing only happens between humans. So personally i don't put my lips on dudes like that if we r just fucking, we have actually be like in love for that!!!!!!!!!

maymajesty · 5 months ago

I love kissing! I can be rough, romantic, or cute and friendly. It's a very big turn off for me if my guy can't kiss. I had one guy that couldn't kiss for shit, but he made up for it in other ways. WOOP!
But I would never let a man dictate that I'm alright a screw, but not kiss. How rude and disrectful. I wish somebody would turn their head...hmmm. That is a deal breaker for sure.
That's why I think people need to communicate before it even gets to that level. Before we do any kind of intimate touching, I want to know what's up. If I agree to jjust a sex thing, then that's cool. But trust and believe if you gonna fuck me, you gonna kiss me lmao...

Ness · 5 months ago

I like kissing......I almost think I like it as much as I like food lol.

But the person has to know how to kiss (which most people forget how to do) b/c they deal with jump offs so much that they don't kiss and when they find someone they're feeling they have to relearn how to do it again...

But I don't like kissing everyone. It has to be someone I like, I'm feeling and I'm connected to in some way. Otherwise, I can't do it. And I can't cuddle either....lol..if I'm with someone in the sense of really being with them (if that makes sense) hahahaha

nynikki · 5 months ago

My first kiss almost put me off of kissing forever. He shoved his tongue waaaay down my throat and I came away thinking "adults are nasty for liking this mess" (I was 16), LOL. But I have to say being well-kissed is almost as good as being well-f*cked and I wish more men were open to all the different ways to kiss their woman.

GENNA · 5 months ago

i love kissing. its what will lead to better sex. if you're not kissing then you better be doing something else to get me worked up... but i would much rather prefer kissing. i miss kissing.....

Oohkeekee · 5 months ago

ii LOVE A MAN WHO KNOWS HOW TO KISS... I LIKE IT SLOW, DEEP, AND PASSIONATE... GETS ME WETTER THAN A DUDE TOUCHIN ME... SOMETIMES U GOTTA TRAIN A PERSON TO KISS...
I THINK MY WORST EXPERIENCE WAS IN MIDDLE SCHOOL WHEN I HAD THIS CRUSH AND HIS LIPS WERE WAY BIGGER THAN MINE CUZ I HAVE CUTE MEDIUM SIZED LIPS AND HE LOOK LIKE JAY Z WIT HIS SHIT... SO NEEDLESS TO SAY HE SWALLOWED MY LIPS AND PUT ALL HIS SPIT ON MA FACE... IT WAS HORRIBLE!!!
MY EXGIRLFRIEND WAS THE BEST... SHE WAS A BITTER :P

quantumPeach · 5 months ago

kissing is a great turn on. it is sooo sensual, warm, soft and intimate. my favorite kiss is the the one that starts with looking up at him kinda shy then a little nose to nose rubbing that moves into a sucking of the bottom lip and finally a full on head moving side to side kiss with gentle tongue. All while i am gently massaging the back of his neck and he pulling me in tight....YES!

SassyScorpio · 5 months ago

Kissing to me is more intimiate then having sex. If I am really digging a guy I will kiss him if not he gets the cheek and later two fingers to the side.

big booti judy · 5 months ago

ok well im a young women and i havent had much kissing experience i had a bad experience and i started kissing at like 16 or 17 and i felt like i was a late bloomer which in turn mad me not wanna kiss. i have kiss a male but like a year i guess im embarressed plus i dont like germs. i wanna be able to enjoy kissing and have confidence about kissing. HELP ME PLEASE

amandaling · 5 months ago

I love kissing :) I've never met a guy who wanted to just have sex w/o the kissing but that seems weird to me. I mean to me kissing is like part of foreplay for me. I get turned on by kissing but thats just me

bknychick86 · 5 months ago

i love kissing. I think it can tell you a how lot about a person just for those few short moments. To me, kissing is a turn on. If you cant kiss, then you better know how to rub the kitty right to get it wet or the smash aint going to be good and i wont be calling you for another session. If you can kiss and know how to hit all the right spots when you do, you better hope your manhood can match your lips...

Dre · 4 months ago

You don't have to really like someone to smash them but usually if you're going to put your mouth out there you'd do it with someone you'd hopefully know the last name of.