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Re: The Ladies Still Love Chris Brown: “You Know He Ain’t Sh*t”

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nubian — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 23:37:59 -0000

Too many of our young women are suffering from low self esteem and lack of self worth. I often defend women who are promiscuous and think they are in control because I know the sharing of your most precious gift with many men is a cry for help, not an act of stupidity. A woman who values herself and knows that what she has to offer a man is good, will not be so quick to jump into relationships and share herself with men she doesnt know. But truthfully, becoming a self assured woman is a process. It doesnt happen over night. We must allow these women to grow at their own pace until they realize that what they are doing is hurting them rather than helping them. Our women like bad boys bec they are working from the mind of a child who does not know what isgood for them rather than from the mind of a woman who does.

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Indireneed — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 13:51:13 -0000

@Nieka
>>> Wow, that was...profound; big ups to Nieka for her bearing of her soul!!! You know, I didn't want to come off like blaming Rhianna, not at all. I just don't like the fact that Chris is getting the worst of it, like his music not being played and the likes, I can imagine Rhianna being hurt, but I think that stuff was in that text message that set her off, I mean, it was reported that that text was like 3 pages long. And what's more important its who the text came from; this is where everything gets deep; It was reported that the text came from Tina Davis, and she's been sleeping with him from age 16! Wow, this shit just became....serious! I mean, people grow plants, but Tina is growing dick (Paul Mooney joke, I couldn't help myself)!
How did Rhianna know that Tina and Chris had something in the past, 'eh? I mean, she did say it in her statement to the police. I think Rhianna felt like she was battling something that was way beyond her, real talk! They even had excerpts from it saying that the texter, Tina, said that she had power over Chris; man, I'm a man and if I read that shit I would have lost my mind too.
Nieka, like it or not, Chris is a victim of child abuse, that is if you're using the "mainstream" definition of the word. For guys, we look at it from the perspective that it was/is good experience, I mean, if you can "hold down" a woman who was/is 2X your age, then you must be doing something right, don't you agree, Nieka? That's the only "upside" to all of this: the fact that she taught Chris how to fuck. But the down side is far darker; in the long run, Chris, unconsciously, will grow to hate Tina, and might even grow to hate his mother for knowing everything but yet still remaining slient. He'd have been robbed of his childhood; Why can't Tina just leave Chris alone, 'eh? Why can't she realize that she and he, in no way, shape or form, have a future and Rhianna offers him so much more?
Who knows what else Tina did to sabotage their relationship; she seems like the sort of person that might do such a thing.
Now, looking at the last time he went to court and plead Not Guilty, she was in Barbados and did want him to plead out. But he's looking at 2 felonies, not misdemeanors, shit that'll get you time. This realtionship is done, don't believe the stuff you hear 'bout they're still together, the fact that he was hesitant to say "not guilty" and his lawyer had to force him to say tells me that she's talking to Chris, and trying to get him to take the plea, I guess telling him that they'll be together and all, but that's a bunch of BS!! Rhianna has gone "white", not to say that she was every "black," but she sees this as a career move, but didn't count on him trying to fight it in court - good for him!! If he takes it to trial, it'll come out that she did admit to hitting him 2x before and him not hitting her back, it'll also come out that they were also broke up BEFORE he went to Europe and he was forced by his and her people to take her to the Clive Davis dinner; look at the video of him and her, I mean, he didn't want to be there, at least, not with her, you know?
But the thing is that, after all is said and done, all of this drama, and how Rhianna fought and got beat will weigh heavy on Chris, in his heart, he now respects Rhianna, but its sad that she's now moved on with Brody Jenner, you know, the latest hollywood white boy sensation; he's just like his sister, no talent just a face and he's like 6 years older than Chris; oh, and they're stories 'bout him: Valtrex and girls AND BOYS!!! BTW, Bruce Jenner, his father, frequents gay clubs in LA, I mean, take from it what you will, just had to mention it!!
Well, I said enough, Neika, Orange and every one else, have a great life!

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nieka — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 10:18:09 -0000

i agree wit some of these comments about chris..then i dont..but this is my two cents..this isnt about being close minded nor dumb(however you want to take it) when me and my sister heard about this i was like damn chris went off then the picture i was like ok the picture doesnt co sign everything this girl said..true she look beat the hell up but take away the lump and busted lip all there is a a crying girl.. i not condone domestic violence at all i seen this happen to my mother and this is not the case..my mother would walk around with busted eyes broken finger and even knock the hell out by my step dad..i wish i could send you a picture of a batter woman because if you ever seen one rihanna pic doesnt come close...if chris really wanted to he could have made that girl look alot worse than that believe me. i notice some people bring up home bring..this only plays a small part in a situation..when i was chris and rihanna age(i am 25 now) but when i was 19 me and my guy use to fight one minute than love each other the next..this is called puppy love...he hit me once yes he slap me i bet you guys are looking like omg you let him hit you!!!! NOPE i was choking the hell out of him with a phone cord.. and then he smack me!! that was the last and first time he ever hit me...i cant even count how many times i punch and slap him(too many to count).. we know chris was caught getting a text ok how many of you just gonna let a text talking about hooking up with your guy.. and just be cool about it..if youy say you would then you are lying thus making you a fake ass person..we women think with our hurt..rihanna is hurt and scorned..she flip out and went off..chris tried to put her out(if a guy is abusive he will not try to kick you out of his car he'll just beat your ass in it, you will be trying to get out) she didnt want to leave because of the fear of her man going to be with this chick..so what do you do, you saying naw i'm not going nowhere, if you going to meet up with her i'm going with you and i starting some sh*t over there to..you and her as* is grass!!lol rihanna felt her man slipping away and she was trying to save the relationship but she felt like many women do she had to fight for it even if that means fighting him....we dont know chris to say he not sh*t and we dont know rihanna to say she was done wrong and she is innocent.. we dont know what went on that night but i dont think chris should be the only one in question in this situation..it doesnt matter if a guy is stonrger because a guy who doesnt beat women wont never use all his force on you(thus again look at the pic) but a woman who is trying to fight will..how do i because i been there and done..if you havent been in that situation or know someone who been in something like that then you dont know nor understand that situation.so there for shut the hell up and watch

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Tracie — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 17:08:48 -0000

Please don't say Chris ain't sh*t! He effed up yes, but ain't sh*t is harsh. The women swoon because he is sexy as hell and other than that one incident that we still don't know everything about, he seems to be a nice guy too.

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mii09 — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 14:49:19 -0000

It will be nice if the writer of this gives me a glimpse into his own life so i can tell him if he is or aint s....? And its amazing how people would rather hope that its not the first time and he will hit again rather than believe since he has been good its probably the first time and this is just out of character..why are people so desperate to have chris be the bad guy? chris isnt a bad guy and he never will.....so whoever you are get a life instead of trying to paint chris the bad guy.

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OrangeStar616 — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 10:32:11 -0000

LOL of course people have the right to defend themselves LOL, what he ALLEGEDY did went FAR beyond self defense was my point ......and how much danger was he really in , not like she had a gat.. not saying its right for anyone to put their hanbs on anyone else out of anger etc.......but whateva tho you are hard to press defend CB so defend em........ but me I can never defend a man who BEAT THE BRAKES off a woman even if she did slap him first.because a mans strength>>>>a woman, and he can do far more damage.Thats situation should have been handled alot diff.

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Breezy — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 23:58:09 -0000

to answer the question about falling for bad dudes:

it's a matter of self-esteem and like Kiki said, daddy issues. Although i dont fully believe that w/o a male figure, a female is more likely to be bouncing from man to man..it's about who she lines herself up with. there are females out there that need constant approval or reassurance from a man or relationship and don't often care that the men treat them like garbage. it's human nature to want to feel wanted and i think that's where a lot of the problems come in..

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B.Lucky — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 18:11:24 -0000

SOUNDS LIKE THEIRS SOME HATE IN THIS POST LOL

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sharde — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 17:35:13 -0000

I AM NOT ONE OF THESE WOMEN. My man treats me so good, has his head on straighter than 6 oclock, and respects all the women in his family and mine. But i have many friends who go for and even love bum nigglets. My bff's current boyfriend got our girlfriend preggo, then she had an abortion, he was not there for her at all!! But he and my bff are in love. And to make matters worse, our girlfriend just recently gave the dude head!! Too too much.
I have not an iota of a clue why women would look twice at a dead beat guy, other than the fact that they think they can change him (never) or that they like the bad boy type, goon type, hood type kinda guy. No education, no respect. But they like the "excitement" of dealing with an immoral, law breaking guy. I guess ...

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asdf — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 17:23:18 -0000

Whoever wrote this article is so closed minded or maybe just unaware of what Chris Brown has shown the world since he first came out. He's shown how decent, fun-loving, down to earth,and NON-VIOLENT he his. He's drug free and a 'normal' teen. The pressures and frustrations he endured to become the star that he has probably had a lot to do with his over reaction the night him and Rihanna 'fought'. This is probably the first break he's had since he made Run It. No One can with stand that kind of pressured life style - plus the paparaazi in his face every minute since he got with Rihanna. We love Chris Brown because he has shown to be ultra decent and nothing but a GOOD guy. And look it up, because he 'hit' Rihanna back, does NOT mean he would ever hit another woman. False rumor started by the media - not based on Domestic Violence statistics..

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indireneed — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 16:39:40 -0000

@Shannon and @Orange
I'm not sure if you read what I wrote completely, can you and get back to me, I'd like to really know what everyone thinks.
Shannon, was there in fact an "assault?" Or was there self defense or was there tresspassing? Did you know that she tried to gouge out his eyes too, and she did bit him too. I mean, I really think that this is one of the reasons that she wants him to plead out; so that she does not have to take the stand. I saw what Mark Garrigos can do to a...shaky witness, if it goes to trial, it should be .....interesting!
She stated that she took off her heels and was hitting him with it - while he was driving, this is before he pulled onto the side street and tried to get her out. K, so he pulls onto the side street, he askes her to get out, he even tries to get her out, but she just keeps on hitting him, does, as I asked in my previous posting, he not have the right to self defense? This is where you and I differ, I'm asking if you have someone on your property, it could be your house or your car, and you two start to argue and then the other person hits you, you ask them to leave, they hit you and DON'T WANT TO LEAVE don't they now become a tresspasser? And if they hit you, and you hit back is that now not self defense, and NOT assault.
Shannon, Orangestar if Chris get to talk and Garrigos shows pictures of him looking messed up, would this change your mind? The only way this'll ever come out is if this goes to trial, I'll tell you what, if he cops out to whatever, I'll never support him in anything he does. I think Rhianna is....is...evil.
So Orange, what you're saying is that he should have picked her up and thrown her out of his car? This is HIS CAR, HIS PROPERTY, why does he have to go to such extremes, 'eh?
But back again to my point, if the letter of the law says that once you're asked to leave and given due opportunity to do so and refuses, and become belligerent, is this not "menacing" /"Tresspassing?" If could be you and a "friend" in that same situation, you know?
I'd like to tell any young woman/lady/girl out there, if you get into a heated argument with someone and he asks you to leave, HIS CAR and he pulls over to let you out, then just get out and cool off and maybe later on your and he or she can talk things out. if you hit him, he has the right to defend himself, especially if you hit him with an object like the spike of your shoes or cell phone.
@Shannon and @ Orangestar >>> let use educate the young, please reply!!

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Atisha — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 16:36:13 -0000

I don't think Chris is a bad guy. I still like Chris Brown. He made a bad decision just like a lot of us do in our lifetime. I wouldn't want anyone deeming me good or bad based on one bad relationship full of bad choices. I have done some things in my life that are not good things but I'm not a bad person.

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kikiwest — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 16:13:15 -0000

ditto!!!!!!

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1MSGP1 — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 15:52:49 -0000

Amen sista!!!

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1MSGP1 — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 15:48:49 -0000

I was waiting on someone to say it. Kudos!!!!!!

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1MSGP1 — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 15:44:55 -0000

Good point!

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circa-81 — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 15:14:19 -0000

@ Kikiwest

Your right it is usually the ones who have daddy issues. I was wondering were any females going to bring that up.

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circa-81 — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 15:11:45 -0000

@ Shayna

You listen to these people for their music not the lives they lead. You know who Roman Polanski is?? His crime doesn't take away from his ability to be a great director that created critically acclaimed mastepieces. That's one thing that disturbs me about the youngin's; yall' fail to realize that from actors to recording artists these people were signed for their ability to perfect their craft....not to live up to your expectations of their lifestyle.

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Shannon — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 15:00:28 -0000

@ indireneed......Im not saying he a bad guy for beating the living shit out of her(that goes without saying) Im saying hes a bad guy for pleading not guilty to it, hell there was an assult and clearly she was on the losing end of that battle, so clearly there was a winner...and ima role with one for C. Brezzy. I dont care if she wouldnt get outta your car or not, pick her little ass up...toss her out and keep it moving....but to whoop her ass, bite her on the neck, and attempt to choke her till she fail asleep and be like naw i cant take the fall for that! Please

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Sexy N Sassy — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 14:49:09 -0000

And neither do I

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shayna — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 14:36:45 -0000

i wouldnt hop on Breezy..after the whole chr/rih-gate not a huge fan..
just doesnt do it for me...
muh brest friend even pointed out that as soon as c breezy song come on i immediately turn...didnt even realize it.

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OrangeStar616 — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 14:06:07 -0000

defend themselves??? some of ya'l mofos are nuts, defend himself by beating the shat of of her,..not some group of dudes trying to jack him but a woman in the passenger seat SMH
black folks would give SATAN a pardon LMAO..
."girl thats the debil". "I know but he is such a gentleman" hahahahahahhaa

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anna — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 14:05:36 -0000

Didn't you see if ur were once a real rihanna fan logging on to fan sites everyday almost every day u would see that they were always in stores and he was always buying expensive stuff for riri.