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Yes, Chris made a huge mistake with the Rihanna situation, and while some fans try to downplay it, for the most part we acknowledge it. But Chris is a cute, young, loveable personality. That’s what he was before, and that’s what he is now. I don’t believe that female fans getting excited over him has anything to do with him being a “bad boy” necessarily… because if you think about it, nothing else about him has really changed. It’s not like he’s gone on some public binge of destruction or anything. From what we’ve seen in pics/read on gossip sites, he’s the same young man from VA…just with a police record. I think as far as many female fans are concerned, the Rihanna confrontation was something COMPLETELY out of character, so after the initial shock and outrage died down, a lot of fans went back to just loving Chris.
I mean, he’s still cute/loveable/famous. All these girls want is a pic and a hug.
On the flip side...i would never let a guy treat me like crap, because my daddy didnt treat me like crap..and the minute he does would be the last time he see's me..
However, about the post, damn near every guy will say "I just can't do that to a woman"; "I was raised right".... But come on now, how many dudes are going to admit that they shit on chicks and don't give a fuck. Some women may have a constant run-in with dudes that ain't shit but hell at some point them niggas was the business and was doin' the most to get her. Once dudes get comfortable they act up. And women generally stay in that type relationship because they feel that they can get that ol' dude back...
THAT is what people don't realize. A lot of times we are invested emotionally, the guy starts acting up, but we do hope that things will improve and that he'll return to the guy he once was. It can be hard. Sometimes you have faith in a person and want things to change, as opposed to going out and finding someone new.
One day they'll wake up and realize things aren't going to get better and they will look for a man who will treat them right.
He ain't shit.
Did you get a chance to read her statements to the cops? Well, she hit him, while driving, she tried to push her back in her seat while he was driving, he pulled onto a quite street and tried to get her out of HIS CAR, she didn't want to. Her excuse was that the seatbelt was on, so she couldn't get out of the car, but if you look at the Lambo's seatbelt, you CAN get out, its designed that way; not only this, but if you can think to take the keys out of the ignition then when he's telling you, no pushing you to get out of the car, you should just get out of HIS CAR, bu NO, you are trying to still hit him again and again; WTF are you thinking, this isn't about a "bad boy", this is about you and your crazy azz.
This blog is new to me, but you should do a piece on this: if you're in/on someone's property and ya'll get into it an argument, and they ask you to leave, and more importantly, they give you the chance to leave, and you then hit them, don't they have the right to defend themselves? How is this assault? I have rights in/on my property that you don't. When you don't want to leave, it now becomes tresspassing, no?
Rhianna is using that boy, and she wants him to cop to 2 felonies, I'm just glad he didn't fall for it, I want this to go to trial and for Shannon to see what really happened; but you know, Chris should have done the white thing and file counter changes against her, this would have squashed everything.
Shannon, please respond>>>>......
@Anna, he "spent" on her, wanna expand on that? I thought it was he who co-wrote disturbia and gave it to her and wasn't it her biggest seller to date?
black folks would give SATAN a pardon LMAO..
."girl thats the debil". "I know but he is such a gentleman" hahahahahahhaa
just doesnt do it for me...
muh brest friend even pointed out that as soon as c breezy song come on i immediately turn...didnt even realize it.
Your right it is usually the ones who have daddy issues. I was wondering were any females going to bring that up.
I'm not sure if you read what I wrote completely, can you and get back to me, I'd like to really know what everyone thinks.
Shannon, was there in fact an "assault?" Or was there self defense or was there tresspassing? Did you know that she tried to gouge out his eyes too, and she did bit him too. I mean, I really think that this is one of the reasons that she wants him to plead out; so that she does not have to take the stand. I saw what Mark Garrigos can do to a...shaky witness, if it goes to trial, it should be .....interesting!
She stated that she took off her heels and was hitting him with it - while he was driving, this is before he pulled onto the side street and tried to get her out. K, so he pulls onto the side street, he askes her to get out, he even tries to get her out, but she just keeps on hitting him, does, as I asked in my previous posting, he not have the right to self defense? This is where you and I differ, I'm asking if you have someone on your property, it could be your house or your car, and you two start to argue and then the other person hits you, you ask them to leave, they hit you and DON'T WANT TO LEAVE don't they now become a tresspasser? And if they hit you, and you hit back is that now not self defense, and NOT assault.
Shannon, Orangestar if Chris get to talk and Garrigos shows pictures of him looking messed up, would this change your mind? The only way this'll ever come out is if this goes to trial, I'll tell you what, if he cops out to whatever, I'll never support him in anything he does. I think Rhianna is....is...evil.
So Orange, what you're saying is that he should have picked her up and thrown her out of his car? This is HIS CAR, HIS PROPERTY, why does he have to go to such extremes, 'eh?
But back again to my point, if the letter of the law says that once you're asked to leave and given due opportunity to do so and refuses, and become belligerent, is this not "menacing" /"Tresspassing?" If could be you and a "friend" in that same situation, you know?
I'd like to tell any young woman/lady/girl out there, if you get into a heated argument with someone and he asks you to leave, HIS CAR and he pulls over to let you out, then just get out and cool off and maybe later on your and he or she can talk things out. if you hit him, he has the right to defend himself, especially if you hit him with an object like the spike of your shoes or cell phone.
@Shannon and @ Orangestar >>> let use educate the young, please reply!!
I have not an iota of a clue why women would look twice at a dead beat guy, other than the fact that they think they can change him (never) or that they like the bad boy type, goon type, hood type kinda guy. No education, no respect. But they like the "excitement" of dealing with an immoral, law breaking guy. I guess ...
it's a matter of self-esteem and like Kiki said, daddy issues. Although i dont fully believe that w/o a male figure, a female is more likely to be bouncing from man to man..it's about who she lines herself up with. there are females out there that need constant approval or reassurance from a man or relationship and don't often care that the men treat them like garbage. it's human nature to want to feel wanted and i think that's where a lot of the problems come in..
>>> Wow, that was...profound; big ups to Nieka for her bearing of her soul!!! You know, I didn't want to come off like blaming Rhianna, not at all. I just don't like the fact that Chris is getting the worst of it, like his music not being played and the likes, I can imagine Rhianna being hurt, but I think that stuff was in that text message that set her off, I mean, it was reported that that text was like 3 pages long. And what's more important its who the text came from; this is where everything gets deep; It was reported that the text came from Tina Davis, and she's been sleeping with him from age 16! Wow, this shit just became....serious! I mean, people grow plants, but Tina is growing dick (Paul Mooney joke, I couldn't help myself)!
How did Rhianna know that Tina and Chris had something in the past, 'eh? I mean, she did say it in her statement to the police. I think Rhianna felt like she was battling something that was way beyond her, real talk! They even had excerpts from it saying that the texter, Tina, said that she had power over Chris; man, I'm a man and if I read that shit I would have lost my mind too.
Nieka, like it or not, Chris is a victim of child abuse, that is if you're using the "mainstream" definition of the word. For guys, we look at it from the perspective that it was/is good experience, I mean, if you can "hold down" a woman who was/is 2X your age, then you must be doing something right, don't you agree, Nieka? That's the only "upside" to all of this: the fact that she taught Chris how to fuck. But the down side is far darker; in the long run, Chris, unconsciously, will grow to hate Tina, and might even grow to hate his mother for knowing everything but yet still remaining slient. He'd have been robbed of his childhood; Why can't Tina just leave Chris alone, 'eh? Why can't she realize that she and he, in no way, shape or form, have a future and Rhianna offers him so much more?
Who knows what else Tina did to sabotage their relationship; she seems like the sort of person that might do such a thing.
Now, looking at the last time he went to court and plead Not Guilty, she was in Barbados and did want him to plead out. But he's looking at 2 felonies, not misdemeanors, shit that'll get you time. This realtionship is done, don't believe the stuff you hear 'bout they're still together, the fact that he was hesitant to say "not guilty" and his lawyer had to force him to say tells me that she's talking to Chris, and trying to get him to take the plea, I guess telling him that they'll be together and all, but that's a bunch of BS!! Rhianna has gone "white", not to say that she was every "black," but she sees this as a career move, but didn't count on him trying to fight it in court - good for him!! If he takes it to trial, it'll come out that she did admit to hitting him 2x before and him not hitting her back, it'll also come out that they were also broke up BEFORE he went to Europe and he was forced by his and her people to take her to the Clive Davis dinner; look at the video of him and her, I mean, he didn't want to be there, at least, not with her, you know?
But the thing is that, after all is said and done, all of this drama, and how Rhianna fought and got beat will weigh heavy on Chris, in his heart, he now respects Rhianna, but its sad that she's now moved on with Brody Jenner, you know, the latest hollywood white boy sensation; he's just like his sister, no talent just a face and he's like 6 years older than Chris; oh, and they're stories 'bout him: Valtrex and girls AND BOYS!!! BTW, Bruce Jenner, his father, frequents gay clubs in LA, I mean, take from it what you will, just had to mention it!!
Well, I said enough, Neika, Orange and every one else, have a great life!
You listen to these people for their music not the lives they lead. You know who Roman Polanski is?? His crime doesn't take away from his ability to be a great director that created critically acclaimed mastepieces. That's one thing that disturbs me about the youngin's; yall' fail to realize that from actors to recording artists these people were signed for their ability to perfect their craft....not to live up to your expectations of their lifestyle.