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Re: The Drought - “My Vagina Is Depressed”

PEGGY SUE — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 20:19:35 -0000

WOW I CANT GO 1 DAY WITHOUT SEX AND I WANT IT 3 OR 4 OR MORE TIMES A DAY SO WEEKS, MONTHS, AND YEARS ARE DEFINETLY OUT OF THE QUESTION FOR ME.....IT WAS HARD ENOUGH WAITING AFTER HAVIN MY KIDS......LOL

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sfbrat — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 14:45:23 -0000

i love your details! i think i can go 3months. i'm selective so knowing my partner is important. however it doesn't mean i go completely without.

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MayMay81 — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 15:57:06 -0000

*kilt*
Lmmfao!!!

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Vhision — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 14:42:29 -0000

27 years old - 11 months w/o - I want to pop the heads off small children and eat them!

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talicia — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 00:39:04 -0000

I went almost a year without sex ( last year) . I was not in a relationship and was no indulging into casual sex just for he hell of it. if the guys was not my man then it was not going to happen.once i was rejecting a lot of them they got the clue and it seperated the real from the fake. it was a refreshing experience way of letting the bad apples out my life

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I Stay SMH — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 22:15:40 -0000

and when i DON'T????

I'm talking MAD shyt to the vibe,

"imma breakyoplasticass...what? what?"

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I Stay SMH — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 22:13:27 -0000

Lawd...I do feel sorry for my husband though. hoooooo!

power to ya, Mama

how old are the babies?

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sunshyne84 — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 20:57:24 -0000

It definitely affects ur mood when u stop having regular sex for awhile. Gradually that need will drop. lol I can go long periods or time but sometimes u still go through withdrawals and yearn for some good ol pussy pounding.

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Muhammad the Harlem Sk8rboi — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 20:36:18 -0000

My unintentional sexual fast is bordering 6 years now. It wasn't tough for me at the beginning & it still isn't that crazy on my psyche now. Every once in awhile I'll get weak when I peep a fat ass, some luscious boobies, or a triple threat chick that passes my way. In the end though I have always maintained pretty good self -control with all of my appetites. There has never been a time when the head on my shoulders didn't have dominance over the head down below.

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Ant_from_Chi — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 19:52:57 -0000

A few things, dick and pussy ain't nothing but meat on a bone. A true spritual, mental and physical connection is a blast like no other. I for one, don't particularly like to go with the casual fuck, but I be damned if I'm going to go on some celibate shit. At the same time, I can dig just coolin' and not having my sexual urges dictate my life. It's funny though because the last two women I have went on a date with came out they face with some abstinate conversation, and this was before I even broached the subject of sex. I am a firm believer in connections and sometimes you connect with someone and you just know you're going to fuck them come hell or high water (as my mama used to say) As grown folks, we should be able to make these types of decisions in good faith and be good with them. But we all know how it goes after the morning after. In the end, do what works for you and be cool with it.

Mz. K if you ain't fucking your man sweetie, then who is? Maybe that's a bit harsh but damn a year of not making love to you HUSBAND demands a bit more explanation. (not that you owe me, or anyone else one) but damn Baby, I could see if you were single and making a choice like that , but there ain't that much busy in the world. You got a Man at home. Give that Ninja some pussy and quit playing. At the very least, blow his head.

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Ant_from_Chi — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 19:33:09 -0000

WHAT?

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HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 18:11:53 -0000

Right now I'm on month 5 of no sex & I'm not handling it too well. I am horny all the time & think about doing it with damn near every guy I know. It's bad. On 2 different occasions I've gone well over a year without & it wasn't that bad. I never do it on purpose, I just get tired of the bullshit & take myself out of the game for awhile. I think in another month or 2 I'll be okay. Masturbation is the only thing that gets me through. . .no matter how long I go without the real thing, I can't go more than a few days without loving myself! I gotta have it some way!

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Mz k — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 16:42:45 -0000

not really by choice

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crash — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 16:20:32 -0000

i feel your pain
i have been in an even longer drought , and i am depressed for quite some time , and everyone says you dont need someone to make you happy , no just someone to rock my sox off , lol

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Mz k — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 15:59:47 -0000

Well we do have kids i spend the whole day running around and having no privacy by the night reach we all dead asleep

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Starr — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 15:49:33 -0000

As of now it's been 6 months and 12 days.......LOL. At first I was kinda, sorta losing it. But afterwhile, I don't think about it as much. I mean I get the random thoughts and urges but it's not how it was in the beginning.

I can't do the casual thing anymore. I'm an emotional being. I'd rather be in a relationship and hope and pray that it remains monogamous...plus with new diseases poppin' up every five minutes, you really have to be choosy in who you bang. That is just too scary. Go get tested for STDs BEFORE you bang.

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Ness — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 15:11:54 -0000

I've gone about 2 hours w/o sex lol (j/k)

The longest I've ever went was 6 months. I was fine, I didn't loose my mind b/c it was a decision I made for self. Not b/c I couldn't get it.

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Miss Cocoa Luv — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 14:23:40 -0000

Good question. I think that it's a combination. The closeness, the orgasm, the feeling of being pleased or pleasing someone.

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DomiX — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 14:19:00 -0000

Try going almost 8 months. I managed to survive, but I didn't like it.

I am currently on month six of my involuntary hiatus until my boyfriend gets here for Thanksgiving. By the time he gets here, it will be seven months.

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Miss Cocoa Luv — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 14:18:00 -0000

It will have you ass in Miami wearing a blonde wig making pancakes...or so i heard. lol

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Miss Cocoa Luv — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 14:17:30 -0000

Amen to that. I think that I might have to break the emergency glass this time.

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napps126 — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 14:14:42 -0000

wow....when ur married ur not having sex?

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Radio Girl — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 13:50:54 -0000

A beautiful dick will have you doing anything.

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Randumb dude — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 13:48:11 -0000

You can't say that because you haven't had ME yet!! CHALLENGE!!! lol I kid I kid.

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Killa — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 13:34:50 -0000

Exaclty, sex is more than just stick it in an have an orgasm, I'm more interested in a spiritual, mental connection, now that's the BEST sex you will ever have.