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Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

Blacksand — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 16:16:51 -0000

You are a phenomenal woman. As a smile makes it's way across my face. The knowledge you give, it floats off your lips like honey sweet to the taste.

You are phenomenal.. Until the next time... Peace & Blessings...:o)

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

HeadMistress — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 16:07:16 -0000

Nope, sure don't, but that doesn't mean it's not real...

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

HeadMistress — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 15:58:02 -0000

Yes you have but don't let that stop you from saying it again and again :-D

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

ms. jai — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 15:37:56 -0000

u seem passionate about this mess u got unconditional love 4 a significant other?

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

Blacksand — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 14:41:11 -0000

I respect your opinion ms.jai. We can agree that we disagree on this topic. Peace and Blessings to you and yours...

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

Blacksand — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 14:38:52 -0000

I respect your opinion Ms.jai. We can just agree that we disagree on this topic. Peace and Blessings to you and yours..

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

Blacksand — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 14:35:29 -0000

Have I ever told you that you are a phenomenal woman HeadMistress? You are a phenomenal woman whose depth grows more impressive and attractive everyday...:o)

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

HeadMistress — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 18:15:16 -0000

LOL @ "calm down" - you're too funny :-D

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

ms. jai — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 17:54:47 -0000

um it is not that serious calm down I just state how I feel i'm entitled to my point of view.

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

HeadMistress — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 16:35:15 -0000

"Why are you hollerin?" *in my best Katt Williams voice*

I never said it wasn't important, it is a very important issue, but don't be fooled there are people who do have unconditional love in their romantic relationships...just because it's not as prevelant as the f*ckery most people accept in it's place doesn't mean that it doesn't happen

Human stupidity can never and will never bring an end to what God created and intended to be

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

MS.JAI — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 16:13:27 -0000

WELL OBVIOUSLY THAT MUST BE IMPORTANT IF PEOPLE ARE FOLLOWING TRENDS AND NOT CONTINUING TO THINK 4 THEMSELVES PEOPLE HAVE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE 4 THEIR FAMILIES NOT 4 ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

HeadMistress — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 15:07:23 -0000

Materialistic things and looks are not more valuable, just more popular...there's a difference.

What makes it bad is that people who do value whats in a persons heart more than looks or possessions are losing hope, throwing up their hands and jumping on "society's" bandwagon instead of holding onto their standards and holding out for what is real

Blacksand is right, LOVE (in all of it's forms) is not a concept, it is a gift from God, he is the Originator of it, the first to exercise it - it will ALWAYS exist.

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

ms.jai — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 11:59:54 -0000

materialistic things and looks are more valuable than wats inside ur heart now a days thats society. If unconditional love was still around than this topic wouldn't even be discussed

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

Blacksand — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 15:59:37 -0000

If a man does not Love, cherish and appreciate YOU for YOU and what YOU bring to the table in all of YOUR glory let him go. He does not deserve YOU. YOU are worth far more than YOUR weight in gold beautiful esskaye. Do not forget that. Peace & Blessings

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

Blacksand — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 15:51:56 -0000

I am glad you feel that way. Thank you Ms. esskaye!! Have a good weekend!!

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

Blacksand — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 15:50:41 -0000

Falling in love is not a concept. It was here before us and it will be here after we are gone. It has no end. Concepts come and go!! Be Easy ms. Jai.

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

esskaye — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 14:43:23 -0000

wow this is so well put... and u are absolutely right... WOW!

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

esskaye — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 14:41:48 -0000

I love this post because it is so true.... I am not well endowed in the butt or breast areas but I am fit and athletic and i look good. I absolutely love black men. BUt i find that a black man may never be satisfied iwth me because I am not well endowed in the number one thing that attracts them... ass... lol its so funny to hear that but I have been with a guy who i absolutely loved and he loved having sex with me but then when we would hang out sometimes he would mention people and their asses (celebrities) and it just made me think like damn why are you with me. I just wish that things weren't so superficial..... I commend you for this topic

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

ms. jai — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 17:22:13 -0000

if people are scared to fall in love and refuse to even give in then the concept doesn't exist anymore

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

Blacksand — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 15:41:40 -0000

I believe unconditional love exists. It is just that most of us are not ready to receive or give it when the opportunity presents itself. The hearts capacity to love is limitless. People place limitations on Love out of fear. Fear of being hurt, abandoned or taken advantage of. Unconditional Love is scary. It means no matter what, come hell or high water you are with that woman or that man. No ifs ands or buts about it. It exists, people are conditioned in todays society to believe that it does not. To Love unconditionally you have to make yourself vulnerable and people are not prepared to do that. It is trusting someone implicitly. It is putting someone before yourself knowing that they are going to do the same for you. To love and be loved unconditionally you have to let it all go. Fear, doubt, distrust, pet peeves all must leave your mind. Then as your heart opens unconditional love can come in.

That is just my two cents. Peace & Blessings

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

ms. jai — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 11:25:48 -0000

damn thats deep maymajesty and on all of levels i agree

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

maymajesty — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 06:42:14 -0000

I don't think unconditional love exists, nor should it. When it's unconditional, one can be set up for hurt and failure. If someone is able to love someone else unconditionally, there is a problem with that person. Now, I will say that you cannot love someone for what they have, or what they can do. That's not love. Love is compromise, understanding, unselfish, communication, friendship, compatibility, chemistry, and lots of other attributes.
As I read what I just wrote, I wonder if I've ever really been in love... I don't believe I've had all of those at one time. I want to love, and be loved. The question is -- is it possible for someone to possess all of these things, or do we have to settle for less than. I have done a lot of settling, and been unhappy in each situation because I thought I was in love. As I think back, I wasn't. I was "conditioned to love" that person.
Damn, that was deep! I need to do some soul-searching and introspection of myself...

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

ms.jai — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 20:30:42 -0000

no everything is all about sex now

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

nique3 — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 15:44:54 -0000

I totally agree with you, well said.

Re: The Death Of Unconditional Love

oshh16 — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 15:28:16 -0000

All that goes out the window when cupid empties that clip of arrows with direct hits to el corazon LOL