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I am thick and that is according to the thick-o-meter! I have a huge ass and huge legs but nobody I sleep with has to worry about any spillage when the layers come a-falling off. There is such a thing as being a thick/big girl with a nice ab section, not common but it does exist *points to self* however, being a fan of thick women as well, I have to say that I have witnessed the spillage and it is really gross lol.
Since I am a thick woman I have never come across anyone who gets filled from a handful of booty and a mouthful of breast LOL! Everybody I know needs a full plate plus seconds and thirds and I offer all of that but if all you need is a sampler then I guess that's cool too.
I also am flexible as well and I take pride in that! All my skinny friends are so surprised when we have our girl talk sessions at the things I can do and that's why I love being who I am. I love a challenge and I love winning. I love the look on a persons face when they see me in action and if I need to prove it to you I'll give you a GREAT Cinderella story but that's neither here nor there.
And there is a lot of hate toward slim women from thick women because society and men have determined that slim is better and slim is the way to go and that is simply untrue. Growing up I was always the bigger one of all my friends (note I said bigger NOT big) and subconsiously I was always treated as a lesser friend. Not intentionally but people do (or used to until I found some swag about myself) display fatist (read a person who doesn't like fat people) behaviors whether they want to or not and sometimes don't even know that they are doing it. I don't believe it's hate but I believe that now a thick/bigger girl has a voice and swag to stand up to men, women, and society as a whole and let them know that just because she has a little bit more junk in her trunk or wherever her junk lies, doesn't mean she is inferior, ugly, lazy, hungry or any of the other things people try to tag on the heavier population. We are standing up and saying that yes I can be a KFC frequenter and be sexier, smarter, and have waaaaay more swag than the Cheerio Hoola Hoop Champion sneaking pretzel sticks while your'e sleeping.
And that concludes my rant. You may now return to your regularly scheduled blogging.
THE NERVE OF YOU XILLA!
I am a slim woman and think I am rather good in the bedroom for many reasons. However, it has been brought to my attention that "Thick" women be having all that ass and cannot dick. Xilla in your opinion do you believe this tobe true. I know you touch on it here briefly, but please explain if this is true.
And for the record, I don't have any problems with Ciara, but I'm just wondering if her posing nekkid means she thinks *singing* "she a big girl now"
Second, as a female who is 5'2" and between 115 & 120 NOW.. BUT use to be 5'2 and 150-160.. Im alot more comfortable and healthier in my skin. Thats the most important thing. With that said I cant tell you how many people have told me (including my mother) that I "looked" better at 150-160. When I shoot back, "thanks for your opinion, even though I didnt ask it.." I get the crazy looks. When I lost my weight, I also had my future in mind, what happens when I have my first child? How much more will spread? lol
Everyone has preferences, point blank, period. But if you try and live up to someone elses standards you are going to DRIVE YOURSELF CRAZY. I say love who you are and what you are. Do what makes you happy. If you are a thick woman and you love yourelf, GREAT. If you are slim and petite and you love yourself, FABULOUS. But I think women need to stop putting down other chicks. Why is it ok for thicker females to say "oh she is too skinny or she is too small.." But I cant say "oh she is too big.." lmao.. Nah if you can dish it, you better be able to take it. Thats for sure. I cant tell you how many times I have encountered this exchange....
WIth all the b.s aside, though...I truly appreciate this blog.. cuz you aint lying.. Petite women (well Im really only speaking for me..) will surprise a dude.. lol
Another myth that needs to be broken is that petite women are all bones..lmao.. Ill tell you right now.. Im faaaaaaar from boney.
For me, it comes down to health. Not a man's preference. Me being 5'2 and 160 wass not healthy..and I know the thick thing is suppose to be in and extra stupid big phat asses are suppose to be the fly shit.. I got me a lil cutie bootie..and I havent had one complaint yet... There's someone for everyone!
Beginning at what size/weight is a woman considered slim to you. What size/weight starts the "thickness factor"?
take care
But I knew what you meant, so I worked off of that.. lol
And to the thick girls who've taken offense here, I know it always sucks to not be the chosen one, and please know that as I write this I am a very curvaceous and buxom 5'9, size 14/16, so I'm thick.
But like I said, we all have our preferences. I personally don't like short/small men. It's not my thing. But this is where knowing who you are comes in. As long as I know that I am thick and fine as hell, I could care less who does or doesn't want me. Because I want me. And because I know that their choice isn't about ME, it's about them and what they like.
Now with all of that being said, Xilla, you've been messing around with the wrong thick girls if they can't take the heat in the bed. They might've just been lazy.
I am not going to extoll the virtues of thick vs. skinny women and vice versa. That's already been said and covered well by previous commentators. You are dealing with weak women, period. There are plenty of skinny women who cannot hang as well. It has little if nothing to do with weight.
I also think that you this isn't so much of a weight issue for you as the fact that you prefer skinny women because they appeal to your male ego. Is it fragile? Some men would say so. I won't be so kneejerk as to say that. I will say that I know many men who would love to take down a thicker women because therein lies a challenge.
You probably like control and you find that you may be unable to manipulate and do that with a thicker woman.
As for the spillage, I am not sure what you refer to. Are you talking about women who've had kids? What do people expect after you have children?????
Hell to da naw!!!
Sidenote:
Does anyone watch the Tyler Perry Show House of Payne? You know the wife Ella now she's a full figured woman who is very flexible. Has anyone seen her do a split on the show? So size really has nothing to do with being flexible or not. I think that Xilla is being very closed minded with this post. It will be a time when your comments although for fun will come back to bite you on the arse. Don't slap women in the face with your arrogance. Women tall short big or small we are all beautiful!!!
Its crazy to me though, that some women say "society and men have determined that slim is better." I just don't see it that way at all. Especially being a black woman. I remember being like 12,13 & not watching any rap music videos for a month because I did not feel like I fit into what I was "supposed" to be. Like being black and slim just does not mix...
And I strongly disagree with your statement in regards to more hate towards a slimmer woman than her thicker counterparts. WTF, have you been living under a rock? But then again, leave ot up to a man to make comments on shit that they know nothing about. A woman is wrong when it comes to tryin to give advice on men becuase she is not a man, but yet you have men (especially the unattrative ones) that try to define what a woman is and make up these stoopid (yea, I said STOOPID) ass classifications and think that the shit is valid.
I don't need a man to define who I am as a woman. Either you like me for who I am or you don't. Don't need to state whether I'm a thick chick or a slim chick, cuz I don't thrive off the validation from other people.
Lastly, why do black men think that the best way to please a woman is to give her a pounding??? That sounds like some shit coming from a 14 year old boy.
Question you're an independent woman aren't you?
And I didn't say all women I said Ciara's Vibe Cover!
Skinny women ain't the only ones who can lift a leg over their head!!
I perform a Leg-Over-Head-Lifting show ON DEMAND at ChateauSavvy every now and then! ASK ABOUT ME!
But...To each their own.
As the resident Sexxxiest Big Biatch on the Planet, I ain't even mad. Everyone has their preference.
As for me: I like my women thick like meatloaf; thicka than a KANG-sized Snicka; thick like an encyclopedia...cuz I likes to EAT!
So enjoy your Lean Cuisine; I prefer my meals "Buffet-style," Thank.You.VURY.Much. :^p
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*looks below*
Some folks hate the truth!
No need to go any further though b/c you sound just like a moron!!!
I guess you've never seen Oprah, then. And I wonder what YOU look like, since you have all these qualifications for your woman. I don't think there's anything wrong with having a preference, but you had better be up to par yourself. In ALL catagories.
@ Kim -
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@ Chrissy
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