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BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals: Quickie: Grab The Back Of Her Head And Push Down

  • Lady Jei · 2 weeks ago
    If you push my head down, you will get Lorrena Bobbit'd. I know exactly what I am doing. And if it won't go down the back of my throat any further, then damn it won't. I have control of my gag reflex (practice makes perfect, lol) so it will take a lot for me to gag. I can even gargle while his tip is back there. He goes crazy from the vibrations, lol.

    But if you push my head, my truck has gas, I am going home, lol.

    Now (picture this), he gets out the shower and steps in front of me, I get in position, its ok, for him to put his fingers in my hair, (sort of spread out so that he's sort of palming each side of my head like a basketball), and enjoy the back and forth that I am in control of. And again, if he presses to go to the back before I am ready, I'm cool with that.

    But the pushing of my head, will not bring you to a 'Happy Ending'.
  • HeadMistress · 2 weeks ago
    I am HeadMistress and I approve this message!
  • TKH · 2 weeks ago
    I actually sucked dick for the first time EVER this past sunday (at 25 i finally lost my mouth virginity....you're next vag...lol) and he grabbed the back of my head and i didn't mind at all, mostly because i needed the guidance and my neck was HELLA tired. Since I've only done it once i don't know if my opinion is really worth much but there it is..... it was a lot of work too. lots of multitasking...
  • BlogXilla · 2 weeks ago
    congrats on sucking your first peen! lol Tired necks are good means you were putting in work. lol good job! I'm proud of you.
  • bknychick86 · 2 weeks ago
    please tel the men again! i hate when i am forced to give head. do not grab my head to get me to do it. you should have earned this privilige from me...now i uunderstand when i am already down there and you grabbing it like you hitting from the back good, but not b4...
  • BlogXilla · 2 weeks ago
    but why wait... you know the guy wants it and you're just gonna take your time? SMH! You can't do that to us... lol it's like the whole OBEY your man blog y'all do it just to do it b/c you know he wants it.
  • bknychick86 · 2 weeks ago
    with me, that's how it works, or you would not get that pleasurable feeling...that is why my head is the best from i have been told and experienced...lol :P
  • tbg · 2 weeks ago
    sometimes it seems like he is giving u the "girl u dont know what u doing" head grab and other times that may be just how he gets into it...the head grab is not as intimate as the "let me move your hair so i can see your pretty face" but its what ever...yea i put random shit in quotes..sorry
  • Anthony Taurus · 2 weeks ago
    Sometimes that gag is like a vomit button, for real. One little gag and next thing you know, ya crotch is full of mushy Olive Garden breadsticks (you know I treats em right LOL) and stomach acid. That's why I am wary of pushin a chick's head down. I don't wanna see her beets and coleslaw from Junior's drippin down my sack, for real.

    Also, if I have to push a chick's head down, she ain't doin it right. I need a woman to have as much enthusiasm about giving me head as I would eatin her out and I'm all about pussy control. I like to hear em gag b/c they strugglin to get it all in. Now, that's a woman who's worth those Red Lobster cheddar biscuits, ya dig. If she's lukewarm about that part of the act, then she probably wack wit the rest of it. Sure, I'll get it in and I might hook up wit her later. But, I'll be lookin for better in the long run. No bueno lol
  • tbg · 2 weeks ago
    there have been times where a guys has pushed my head down and i gag a bit..when that happens i just take a second..gather my thoughts...and get back to suckin...but it shouldnt get to the point where girls are gaging constantly...its best that guys let the girls do there own thing and establish their own rythm..if u insist and she doesnt mind then u r in the clear..if you know you are dealing with a newbie are someone is sucks at sucking..then you u might end up with a crotch full of mushy olive garden breadsticks and stomach acid
  • hissweetestdream · 2 weeks ago
    IL OVE THE PIC YOU POSTED WITH THIS BLOG. I MAY HAVE TO HAVE ONE OF HESE DONE TO HANG OVER MY BED.

    I have never had my head pushed down, but the fact that I think about sucking my man off at work, at the grocery store, and even in my sleep...I don't think I would mind if he did. Sometimes I wish he would grab my head and force me to my knees in the middle of my making his dinner.

    Dammit now my mind done went there and I still have 4 hours till I can get home.
  • thejadednyer · 2 weeks ago
    I don't mind it at all. In fact I prefer it, and a REAL man would just KNOW if it was OK.

    lol ok let me stop playing on your blog. But seriously, in the heat of the moment, if both parties are in sync with one another and it's just the hottest encounter... yes, go ahead and fuck her face. Just make sure she's the kind of woman who enjoys that.

    Gagging? Yeah, that can be an issue, but sometimes you just gotta roll the dice... lol
  • HeadMistress · 2 weeks ago
    Like Lady Jei said “I know exactly what I’m doing”

    Grabbing and pushing my head down just cause you're too eager and/or impatient interrupts the process, an interruption that we might not recover from, leading to the utterance of the dreaded “Tha’s it?” o_O - if you need/want it faster, suck your own dick!

    Grabbing, holding onto and/or pulling my hair? Green Light allllll the way! My hair is my spot!

    Grabbing for the purposes of face fucking? All Systems Go

    But pushing my head down is about as smart as grabbing the steering wheel because you think the driver is gonna miss the turn - just a bad move that may very well cause an "accident"
  • Blacksand · 2 weeks ago
    That's right HeadMistress, I Love the way you talk. I am also a patient man who Loves grabbing, holding onto and/or pulling hair. Grown and sexy, grown and sexy, I will get on a train tonight!!!! (Yes Lovely)
  • HeadMistress · 2 weeks ago
    *twirling my hair* ;-)
  • Blacksand · 2 weeks ago
    Like only you can Lovely!! I am sitting here licking my lips!
  • Lili · 2 weeks ago
    We must acknowledge that there is a major distinction between aggressively pushing a woman's head down while she is performing fellatio and a delicately forceful push.

    I think Xilla was referring to the latter.

    I don't think there's anything wrong with it; I think it's sexy- if the couple is completely comfortable with one another and in tune with their partner's body and nonverbal cues.

    Really, it's akin to wrapping your legs around your man's head or holding it in place while he's performing oral (ladies, you know how we do) when he's doing it RIGHT. You get caught in the passion of the moment and react, take a little control...Well, sometimes the fellas do too.

    My bf is so respectful...he never place his hands on my head (besides playing with my hair or pushing it out of my face) until I put them there. But when I give him the green light, he knows what to do...
  • Smalls2234 · 2 weeks ago
    yeah, I have a problem with that...I feel like sorta, I guess you could say "slutty" when my head is pushed, like some of the respect between us has been thrown out the window

    Also, if you're pushing my head, it makes me feel as though I'm being rushed and you just want to get yours and be done and don't want to enjoy how I'm trying to please you.

    Point blank, don't PUSH my head damn it! LoL!
  • maymajesty · 2 weeks ago
    Unt uh, I have to prepare for the deep throat, change up the breathing. If my head is pushed when I'm not expecting it and my tonsils are touched...bad business. Men don't know how to do a gentle nudge, it's always the Uhhh! push/pump. That's trouble, trouble *in Bernie Mack voice*. I don't mind it, but let me prepare first...that's all
  • Asea · 2 weeks ago
    If you push my head down south you will get a kicked out. That gets on my nerves. It doesnt make me feel 'slutty' or anything its just disrespectful and immature. Just ask me? I would rather my man say, "Can you kiss it?" or "Can you suck me??" that pushing my head. I don't mind being asked at all.

    If I am already going in that direction, I'm gonna do it, so chill and wait!
  • KidDrinka · 2 weeks ago
    I LOVE a hand on the back of my head!!! pullin my hair but dnt push me down...I wanna slide the dick down my throat at my speed..trust I got skills..lay back and get ready 2 nut..also, unless we talked about me swallowin u need to say when u bouta nut cuz some niggas b tryna act silent and I stabbed this nigga 4 doin it...NO LIE!
  • Lady A · 2 weeks ago
    I really think you say these things to piss women off...