DISQUS

Ness · 2 months ago

I personally think that a female should get top first! ;)

And let me tell u MY logic ;) lol.

The reason why I feel that the female should get hit off first is because the best is being saved for last. If a guy was to get head first and then give it to the girl, then he might stay hard or he might not and who really wants to take away from the action of great head to massage his johnson? When all he has to do is give the female head first that way, she can return the favor and get on top ;) and ride him until the wheels fell off.

ALMiss · 2 months ago

Ness, you better preach it!!

Ness · 2 months ago

Lol....I'm just sayinnnn....lmao
Ladies first always! Its more beneficial to both partners.

Its nothing better than a guy giving it first and whn he's done, he'll come up for air, kiss then go a little higher and put his d*ck in and mouth f*ck ;)

HeadMistress · 2 months ago

I am HeadMistress and I approve this message!

sexonthebeachmagazine · 2 months ago

The woman should get her rocks off 1st and here's why. Biological breakdown....women outlast men in orgasm reaching capacity on average...and most times when women "O"...they can still keep going for a 2nd or 3rd "O" during non-oral fking....most dudes tend to go flacid after the "O" and need to "save some" for the regular sex follow-up. So, if a dude breaks off a woman 1st she is going to so sexually explosive in the mental...she'll accept his sword and do all kinds of neat tricks to it not even worried that the tip touching her tonsils puts her on the verge of hurling....and she can best judge when he's abt to climax and STOP...not to torment but to move on to the next stage maybe hittin it from the back.....so both can reach that final base happy.....ahhh, the natural order of things...

Blacksand · 2 months ago

I go first. I want to set the tone. I want the woman I am with to have a personal or personals so powerful she is disoriented, confused, reaching for stuff that ain't there looking at me like OMG what the hell did you do to me? DO IT AGAIN!!! That way, when she recipricates she knows she needs to handle her business!!! Cuz I ain't giving nothing but the sho nuff cuz that's all I got to give!!!!! Easy...

Ness · 2 months ago

See Black.....this why I like you!!!! Why can't more guys be like that!

Tht is the best way to go b/c like u said, she will go in and go hard after wht u just did....she won't be selfish and she'll do it so good that you'll have to beg her to stop lol ;)

Blacksand · 2 months ago

I like you too!!! I believe most guys have not learned one simple rule. You treat a woman right and she will treat you right in ways you never thought possible. It is that simple. And I personally Love it when I have to beg my woman to stop. That means I am handling my business!!:o)

Ness · 2 months ago

It is oh so simple but yet so damn complicated :)
But like u said, if they can just grasp tht one simple rule thn they would have it reciprocated to the 10th degree! ;)
I bet u do! I thnk everyone loves it whn they have to beg for mercy lol.

Blacksand · 2 months ago

The simplest things in life are Beautiful. In order for that ieda to be grasped the man has to be giving and unselfish. He has to want to cater/satisfy his woman. Yeah, a lot of brothers don't know what they are missing!! Their loss is my gain!!HEHE!! I Love it. And since I am in a weakened state afterwards, all I can do is laugh uncontrollably and beg for mercy like you said. And it doens't help that I am ticklish!!!lol

nynikki · 2 months ago

EXACTLY!!! Now go forth, Blacksand, and share your wisdom with your brethren. =)

Blacksand · 2 months ago

So it is written, So shall it be done!!!!!! :o)

Have a good weekend nynikki!!

nynikki · 2 months ago

You too!

cmongood · 2 months ago

I call bullshit. Men should go first. I like for a man to pretend like I'm in charge before he beats it up. And woe to the man who tries to push my head down there!!

BlogXilla · 2 months ago

So you wouldn't like for your vagina to be filled w/ a nice engorged member after you came one good hard nut inside your guys mouth? The head push is such a turn on... just gotta do it to the right woman!

PhoenixNicole · 2 months ago

there u go again with my "favorite word" = engorged! lol

Jay · 2 months ago

Ms. PhoenixNicole you are beautiful

PhoenixNicole · 2 months ago

thank u Jay

sparklyskepsis · 2 months ago

Your reasoning does sound like an excuse to get it done first lol. It doesn't make a difference to me, but I'm usually the agressor and will most likely go for it before he even thinks about it. I like to do it so it's no problem at all. I don't ever expect that a guy will do it. If it happens it happens; but if it doesn't he better know how to fawk real good lol.

BlogXilla · 2 months ago

LOL Not really I mean I like to have sex w/ a woman who has came already the vag is better that way. But i mean since you like going don I like you even more now! Much love!

sparklyskepsis · 2 months ago

Haha, I don't know why a woman wouldn't enjoy doing it. The reaction is such a turn on; when he really gets into it and grabs my head...ugh. The sounds he makes, the shit he says while its happening, love it!! It's a normal part of sex to me. Then again many people call me weird on the regular so, eh what do I know lol.

BlogXilla · 2 months ago

See you so understand me. While a chick is sucking she can get right its like foreplay for the mind... isn't that want all women want?

true2me · 2 months ago

Man any dude that don't like to go down dont really know this secret. Then they blame the women for not being "wet enough"..SUCK IT lol

Nichelle · 2 months ago

no way...The man should go 1st, he should earn it....no self-respecting woman should just give out treats w/out the man doing any tricks...or else she becomes the trick...it's like sexual courtship...even sex needs courtship just like a relationship does....NONE of my male friends married the chick that got down on their knees on the 1st date or 1st encounter...they married the woman that did NOT...that's my 2cents

MissThang09 · 2 months ago

Well i put it like this......we can jus equal the shit out by doin the 69....we both can do each other @ da same time.....im always a supporter of a equal opportunity......lol.......fa real or if u dont like dat then take ur ass to sleep and i can let my homeboy in the drawer handle me.....ladies.....they make tongue toyz now too.....cuz we got no business whinin and debatin on who gon do while tryin to get the business in...im jus sayin

Ness · 2 months ago

I never really liked the 69 position until it was done with this one guy who it felt so good with....idk wht made that 69 experience sooooooo much more enjoyable but it did...... ;)

true2me · 2 months ago

Those dudes sound immature and as if they would cheat on their wives with women that go down on the 1st date LMFAO

chulitamia · 2 months ago

Sex is not a power struggle. I love to go down, I love the pleasure it brings my man, I love the power of being able to make him react... sigh, shift, start, cry out, grab my head, I love the way his eyes open wide when he he realizes I CAN take another inch in my hot, loving mouth... when I decide to do it is irrelevant. I will do it when the spirit moves me. I hate having a damn itinerary. I love spontaneity. If a man puts it on me real sweet, sometimes I need to stop the crush to give him a real personal thank you with my mouth right in the middle of banging. That said, I certainly look for the same generosity and and spontaneity in my partner, so when he goes down on me is not important, but he damn well better be as amazing and commited to my pleasure as I am to his.

nynikki · 2 months ago

Smart men go first. It ensures more *ahem* "enthusiastic" reciprocation.

HeadMistress · 2 months ago

I agree with Chulitamia - sex should not be a power struggle and should be about spontaneity but in the real world where men are often selfish sexually, they should definitely go first!

Some, not all, have been known to get theirs and then forget the rules of reciprocity OR they get good head and then wanna dive right in thinkin that layin the pipe, even good pipe is gonna make up for not eatin...pero, it does not!

Ness · 2 months ago

Preach!!!

:)

Megan Taylor · 2 months ago

WELL I LIKE THE CONCEPT OF WAT YOU SAYING SINCE THATS NORMALLY HOW IT GOES ANYWAY... I LOVE GETTIN LICKED LIKE A TOOTSIE POP UNTIL HE REACHES THE CENTER AND I EXPLODE!!! I LOVE IT ALL & LOVE DOIN IT ALL!! U TAKE DAT HOW U WANNA!!!!! LOL

true2me · 2 months ago

you know gooden well once you suck a dude off first he wants to hurry up and put it in then nut then the sex is over, but if you eat a woman out first, she will still have energy to get you right before you put it in, so I DONT AGREE. the woman needs to get her rocks off first, plus men are less generous when it comes to oral, but always feel like they deserve some head. Then you got wack dudes talkin bout they dont eat erybody coot but be quick to get some damn head.

NOPE..dont agree..men need to eat first..eff that

msthang220 · 2 months ago

Love this site!! LOL

devastatingt · 2 months ago

I say just do 69 and then knock me off until my toes cant curl any more

ChellBellz AKA Mimz · 2 months ago

How about a 69...1, 2, 3 Go!

EbonyLolita · 2 months ago

Yeah a good ole fashion 69 takes care of this problem. I prefer being on top cuz :)

ALMiss · 2 months ago

Like some others have said, I believe the man should go first and eat the woman. It's easier for us to be turned on because there's nothing for us to "get back up" when it's time for sex. After I give you a little head, I'll just go straight to riding you instead of having to massage your penis to get you hard again (which irks my nerves sometimes). So I vote that ladies should receive first!

Lo-Kei · 2 months ago

I didn't read all the comments, but it depends on if you are giving head to the point of ogasm.

If you are then she should give first. Cause if he reaches orgasm then cool. Then well he is going down on her, he is "recharging". And by the time she is ready, if she reached orgasm or not, he is too, and the first one is out the way? It's on then!

tash · 2 months ago

I read the article and decided to try it out for myself. Do. Not. Do This!!!!!!! You will be left very disappointed in the long run. Maybe I just have a seriously selfish guy...

ThatManAgain · 2 months ago

Female fist....and that means yall ladies get on that duty. When he is "light as a feather" and really can't take it anymore, that is when I left you up throw you on the bed/couch/whereever and find my goody 2 shoes frosting face on! If he is doing anything right your moans and wetness will keep him hard....if not - 1/2 of yall suck <and not the Superhead way>

Drapeto · 2 months ago

First may I say the comments have me LMAO in the middle of EWR. I've been missing out. Personally, I think us fellas going first leads the way. There are plenty of women I have encountered that will receive enthusiastically and just expect us to toss it in after we go down. Fellas, let's lead the way. Going down on a woman denotes a higher level of... Tolerance if you will. Woman gives dome and doesn't get any, she can turn and go to sleep mad (worst case scenario with no penetration.) if dude goes down with no reciprocity (thanks Lauryn), he still has to get her legs off, and head to the bathroom to wash tw shameful sugar off.
That being said, both ways are effective. If I forget to run the first one out, go ahead and "rock the mic". Let's get that first one outta the way together. I put in work when I eat. The effects of good cunnilingus gets me back up every time. By that time, we're both in for a good session.
On the reverse, like I said, I get turned on knowing I'm eating well, so doing for her first gets me ready for her mic performance and we both go in.

CCGroovy · 2 months ago

CCG has been BLESSED & HIGHLY FAVORED in his lifetime by a few special ladies who were HIGHLY Reciprocal!!!

Yours Truly ALWAYS gets down first to GET DOWN!!!

If a Brotha heeds your very HELPFUL HINTS, and give her a mood-altering, mind-blowing, soul-stirring, OOOOOOOOOOOOOOO; endless impossibilities are suddenly possible