DISQUS

BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals: Questions Men Should Never EVER Ask

  • EbbNflow · 9 months ago
    I've never been one to ask those questions because it's a clear sign of insecurity.
  • natalia · 9 months ago
    When you gon let me hit?
    Does me or ya man hit it better?

    Blah Blah Blah....dont worry bout it !!!!
  • Blacksand · 9 months ago
    I have not and will not ask any of those questions. If you are handling your business you do not have too. The woman you are with will make it clear. That is all I have to say about that.
  • Quonesha · 9 months ago
    Best post ever....that's so true the dudes you not checking for are the main ones asking all the questions
  • MissSexED · 9 months ago
    Thank you! I'm glad to know I am not alone on this.

    and please excuse the grammatical errors/typos. Ugh I hate that!
  • Ed The Sports Fan · 9 months ago
    LOL, too funny. Yes, I'm never asking any of those questions...ever. I'm secretly terrified to do so. I like my girlfriend and I ain't trying to fuck it up.

    -Ed.
  • danielle the bedroom beast · 9 months ago
    My ex boyfriend used to always ask me if i liked it right after sex. He would be like " baby you liked that right?" The first time it was iight, but to me if you ALWAYS have to ask me then something is obviously wrong..........I guess he had low self esteem lol
  • onebaddboo · 9 months ago
    I completely agree!!!! I could understand if later on he made a reference to something new he tried and wanted to know if I liked it but needed to hear that I liked it is a no, no.

    He was there, HE SHOULD KNOW!
  • ihateu · 9 months ago
    that ish happened to me too..omg it was so annoying...it we were together 4 times a night he was asking me 4 times...i started having nightmares with that question...
  • taut_7 · 9 months ago
    i don't think I've ever asked any of those questions. mainly because i'm a private person and i wouldn't want anyone asking me those questions. the question bout how many dudes she's slept with, i truly don't want to know. like you said i'm not going to be satisfied with the answer no matter what.

    i haven't been asked any type of ridiculous questions. maybe because i don't give off the vibe or act like i would invite such foolish behavior. lol.
  • Isis · 9 months ago
    I hate that "Who was that"?. . bugs the hell outta me
    I had one dude ask me to change my hair color because it reminded him of his ex. (while mine was natural and hers was dyed)

    And never ask for a threesome if we wanted one we would tell you.
  • ALMiss · 9 months ago
    Once, me and my friends were out and this guy approached one of my friends and asked if her hair was real! BIG NO NO!!

    I don't think I've ever had a guy ask me stupid questions because they already know!
  • nynikki · 9 months ago
    I was on a date and the guy thought it was OK to ask if I'd ever been pregnant! Whoo, I was caught so off guard and so offended. Men need to know this is NOT a first date question. Really I don't know when this question would be OK. Maybe right before you say "I do"? Help me out.
  • MissSexED · 9 months ago
    Wow!!! Are you serious? Where do these guys come from? I don't know what I would've done
  • TheWiz · 9 months ago
    my grandmother always told me "Never ask a women a ? you can't handle the answer too" . . .so I pick wisely what ?'s I ask . . .and I would never ask any of those
  • DomiMami · 9 months ago
    Speaking of questions ole Wizzy one, what had-happened with baby moms and your main chick?

    I agree with that statement @Never ask a question you dont want the answer to.

    Men sometimes are more hypersensitive about our social lives, they forget all the shit they have done. If you want to marry a virgin, go the R Kelly route and get a 10 year old cuz girls today be buckin!

    Great post Ms. Sex Ed
  • MissSexED · 9 months ago
    Thank you!
  • TheWiz · 9 months ago
    I put all the cards on the table
  • DomiMami · 9 months ago
    Good to hear. Did everything work out for the best.....OR did everything work out to your liking? And how long til your baby is due?
    I know we talked shit, but I wish you all the best.
  • TheWiz · 9 months ago
    Everything worked out for the best.
    Baby is due late july/early august.

    Its cool i needed/deserved it, tough love. . . I can take it . . .lol

    Thanks
  • hunniebee724 · 9 months ago
    My ex used to ask me who was on the phone all the time....and then get mad if I didn't tell him right away. Drove me nuts....which is one of the reasons he's an ex!

    I've had guys ask if my ass was real.....if I wasn't only 5'1" I would've smacked them in the mouth!

    ~Melissa
  • MissSexED · 9 months ago
    I get, "Is that your real hair?"

    Yes Motherf*cker!

    Some guys (that I don't even know) will try to feel my head for tracks!

    WTF?
  • hunniebee724 · 9 months ago
    Damn....at least they don't try to touch my ass....cause then they WOULD get smacked. It's like they never saw a white girl with a big booty. Even my EBD/SLD students have more respect than to ask stupid questions like these!

    ~Melissa
  • Blacksand · 9 months ago
    Yal are becoming more prevalent. I think that is a good thing though. But in the end, eventually like Eddie Murphy said in Raw 1987 it's the Same ol ritz cracker.. Have a good weekend!
  • DomiMami · 9 months ago
    LMBAO you aint shit for that one.
  • conscious · 9 months ago
    whatever question you ask a women you'll never get a str8 answer
    their all liars! lol

    i ask what i want when i want, i have no limits, if you cant answer then thats your problem lol
  • DomiMami · 9 months ago
    This aint all true.
    Im truthful and upfront always with my husband, but that still dont mean he will like the answers to my questions. Especially that damn sex partner one. But HEY, I aint an ordinary biotch.

    And there is a difference between NOT answering those questions you asked and lying about them
  • HeadMistress · 9 months ago
    o_O @ "DID YOU CALM?"
  • onebaddboo · 9 months ago
    I'm thinking she ment "did you cum", but I can't be too sure.....
  • HeadMistress · 9 months ago
    LOL...me too but that's not even a typo, that's pure Oswald Bates type shyt...LMAO
  • DomiMami · 9 months ago
    Damn repeat offenders
  • HeadMistress · 9 months ago
    LMAO!
  • Just Saying · 9 months ago
    Great post! I co-sign on the "is that your real hair?" Get that a lot. Plus my last boyfriend, in the beginning stages used to turn off my cell phone when he would come over. It's not till people call my house phone asking why my cell phone was off would I then go and check and it was off. This insecure muthafucker would turn it off everytime. Hated that. No who was that, what did they want...just straight turned it off.
  • MaMa_MIA · 9 months ago
    Hahah good one friend...def questions you shouldnt ask because unlike some girls who want to be private i will tell you the real answer and i guarantee he won't be around much longer...However the only question I would NEVER answer is the "How many ppl you slept with" ... Thats oober private and no mines isnt a big # but thats something you share with your dude that has been with you for a min...

    LOL & THEWIZ i def agree with you! Never ask a question you not sure you want to kno
  • ihateu · 9 months ago
    the dumbest question ever that i hear every day when i go out is ''are ur boobs real''?ughhhh i hate it..some guys r just pathetic...there r girls in this world who have 36dd from their mommas..including me;-)
  • Blacksand · 9 months ago
    Ignore those ignorant dudes, they make it more difficult for real men like myself. God Bless you and the other women of the world who are walking around with homegrown 36dd's. Thank you Lord for creating them!!!! Have a great weekend ihateu. (SMILE)
  • ihateu · 9 months ago
    thanks blacksand:P:Pyuppp i try to ignore but it's not working very well...i wish u a great weekend too(smile back ::) )
  • Blacksand · 9 months ago
    You are welcome. Happy Monday to you. keep on smiling ihateu it makes the day brighter! Be easy!
  • Squishy · 9 months ago
    I had somebody ask me very randomly, "You eva been wit a nigga from prison?"
    I took that as my hint to walk away and never look back. lol
    Part of me wanted to stay though... I wanted to see where that pick-up line was going. lol What could he have followed that one up with????
  • HeadMistress · 9 months ago
    Wow, that shyt is funny!!!

    It almost reads like Will Smith's line in Bad Boys II when he asked that kid "You ever made love to a man?" LMAO
  • TheWiz · 9 months ago
    LMFAO
  • ashley bell · 9 months ago
    the one i hate is "when we gone go out on a date?" or "When you gone let me hit"...so annoying
  • Rashida · 9 months ago
    most ridiculous ? ever:
    You ever have a penis bigger than mine?
    Why?? Why would a dude ask that?
  • TRJ · 9 months ago
    i feel you those are some questions no dude should really ask although i have ask a few of them questions but i got all positive answers but still when i look back myself asking those questions i know i shouldnt have
  • FanceeFoxx · 9 months ago
    Those were excellent questions and points brought out.

    What about that dumb question most blackmen ask, "DID YOU CALM?" Its really shows stupidity and lack of skills. However when a man got real skills-As it should be obvious.