DISQUS

J. McFly · 1 year ago

Man I feel you on this, I know what it's like to go after a dream that no one else understands. Keep striving for greatness within yourself, don't let them hold you back.

Lissa · 1 year ago

I have to agree with J McFly. . .I'm still chasing my dreams and Im not stoppiong til' I catch them. Hey you only have one life to live . .

Miss G · 1 year ago

I feel like im on the brink of great things and the scariest thing is am i ready? I have always dreamt of being a sucsessfull black woman with a husband and kids by 25, dont need to be rich, comfortable was what i was aiming for... Now im a 27 year old unmarried, childless woman with her future looking mighty bright (gotta need dem shades) and i just pray everyday that i dont miss those oppertunites i have prayed to the Lord about and yes, i try and take every stumbling block, push back and knock down as a lesson in humility so that i dont forget who i am, but try and remain the positive, bubbly G i have always been...

404 · 1 year ago

My opinion is to only stop if you feel that you are not where you want to be. Life is a journey, and with or without your duck sauce (which I looooooooove on my veggie egg rolls BTW) it's still your journey. YOU must walk your own path, it's yours. And yes, Xilla, it is about what God's plan is for you, because GOD is IN YOU!!!!!! You don't have to look for any answers outside of yourself. Everything you need is inside of you. Enjoy where you are, the power is in the NOW.

Happy Pre Birthday Xilla!!!! I wish you peace of mind, love, joy, wealth, happiness and stability in you many years ahead. Peace!!

LawdHaveMercy · 1 year ago

Morning Xilla, All I have to say is live your life for you and for noone else,nobody can steal your joy.I'd rather you be broke and happy than rich and miserable as hell.How old are you going to be this sunday if you don't mind me asking? If you're aboyt to enter your 30's,I say you are having your "Lightbulb moment"..I had mine last year when I turned 30,it was like something in me just clicked and said you know what,I could give 2 damns what the world thinks of me,I'm gonna do what makes me happy.As long as my children are fd,healthy,clothed and happy and my husband too,that is all that matters to me.Do you sweetie because in the end you have to look you in the mirror.

VIChick · 1 year ago

I totally understand what you are saying. I know someone that I care about very much and they are going through some difficulties and I know I can be more supportive, but I know that I say things that may make that person feel down about themselves. I honestly don't mean any harm but I know that some people have to travel a different road and GOD takes them on a path that they must follow.

I am not satisfied where I am in my life. I know that I am meant for greater things, but I am not sure exactly what they are right now. I imagined myself in a different place in my life. Family, own home, married, but nothing has been attained yet. I wanted to be the CEO of my own company. Right now working for someone else, which I am not complaining because a year ago I was almost out on my ass with nowhere to go. God has blessed me, and I know I will continue receiving his blessings.

All I have to say is keep your head up, and we will all be here for you. And I know you will enjoy your birthday.

what? · 1 year ago

Isn't duck sauce just basically mustard???

404 · 1 year ago

Naw..........ducksauce is that pinkish/orangish jelly/honey like stuff.............mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.............ducksauce.................lol

kyas_mami · 1 year ago

That's why it's called YOUR dream Xilla...cus it's YOURS and no one elses
If they can't see the vision or get with the movement, leave them in a cloud of smoke as you DO IT MOVING
My mom used to tell me the hardest thing to do in life is to follow you dreams, especially when others dont see, realize, appreciate or understand it
If you can look yourself in the eye everynight and be satisifed with the person looking back at you, then you headed in the right direction
Live your life for you and your children, no one else!
And once you achieve that dream, remember to thank the haters for fueling the drive and determination it took to get you there! OH!! and dont forget to wave at them a la Ms. America and say...HI HATER!!! LOL
Love what u do here Xilla, keep doin it!

THEflyGIRL · 1 year ago

It's funny cause as I've begun to follow you here and on twitter and various places (and strange on air convos), I had really begun to wonder what was at the edge of the sex-laden persona. And with this post, I think we're all able to see a rounder picture of Xilla. And it's an honest and beautiful one.

Killa · 1 year ago

You are EXACTLY where God wants you to be. If I knew your address, I'd send you my favorite book in the world, The Power of Now, by Echkert Tolle, Go buy it for yourself it will put all the questions you have in perspective I read at least a sentence out of that book everyday. Go get it.

baby_t · 1 year ago

I totally understand what you are saying. I know someone that I care about very much and they are going through some difficulties and I know I can be more supportive, but I know that I say things that may make that person feel down about themselves. I honestly don't mean any harm but I know that some people have to travel a different road and GOD takes them on a path that they must follow.

I am not satisfied where I am in my life. I know that I am meant for greater things, but I am not sure exactly what they are right now. All I have to say is keep your head up, and we will all be here for you. And I know you will enjoy your birthday.