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Re: Mixing The Races For The Next Obama

Haniplease — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 15:12:49 -0000

dude, i went to NY to visit a friend workign there this summer, and everybody was lovin this tea with honey! let me teeeeeeeeell u. if i was richa it'd be on. from doboys in harlem to a banker in times square when we were sight seeing. i was amazed at how cats just walked up to me like "we're going to dinner i'll send a car" i said "aaWHAAAT?!! oKAAAAY?!?! and marched my happass into the cutest thang i had and enjoyed myself" that has never and would never happen to me in chicago.... seriously my cousin gets cursed out daily and is going into debt for an ugly [inside and out] chick just because she's light with "hanihair",,,,,, its a dang shame. bawack is an exception and he's paying a light AND whiteside pieces MM! [rolling eyes]

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Ness — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 00:48:59 -0000

Thnx!! :)
Dang, I didn't know black men were color struck in Chicago?! Wow....tht's bananas.

U should come to NYC for a wk, hook one of these brothers and make him move to Chicago lol....lmao.

Re: Mixing The Races For The Next Obama

Haniplease — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 16:17:03 -0000

u betta SAY DAT Ness! i love ur replies lol
well here in chicago, i honestly don't have a choice. if i want to date someone close to my age that will respect me it comes at the hands of a white man, or an indian, or a flip boy, or that mexian at the cleaners....brothas here are color stricken in the worst way. i'm in no way striving to sound like the sad bitter brown girl as i've been other places and been lusted after, but here? no dice!

when i see a man i feel. i was previously hung up on color and that led to many a lonely night with my boo Moscatto and some boomboom tunes on the ipod. i feel like you should just do whatever feels right....especially when remotely decent brothas are rarera than a $3 bill on the wesside in front of a herronheaded hooka. seriously, i'd like to settle down with a black man, but unless i move, the likelihood of that just isn't probable at all! there are some out there, i agree zilla, just not enough.

and ANOTHA thank, u need the breaks beat off u if ur hookin up with somebody to birtha bawack.! str8up! one yaself! i'm mixed and we are indeed a cute breed, but still! thas a shame! [mumbling to myself birth a bawack? mmmm not a bad idea lol ;P]

Re: Mixing The Races For The Next Obama

Mahealani — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 01:35:27 -0000

I'm right along with you, Audrey! I grew up in a mixed-race town outside of Sacramento. I have sisters-in-law of different races so now I have nieces and nephews of mixed racial backgrounds and they're all beautiful!
When I dated a Black guy in high school, I know a lot of people, including some of my own friends, thought I only dated him because of the myth that all Black guys are "well endowed" (coughs) lol. Why don't they think we date because we LIKE the person.. not because we're having an experiment to see how it's like to be with someone of a different race?

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Mahealani — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 01:30:09 -0000

I'll just say that if my great grandparents never dated or married out of their race I wouldn't be here lol. It's hard in itself to just classify me as "one race" so if I date any man who may happen to be Hawaiian, Tongan, Filipino, Portuguese, Chinese, German, Spanish or Fijian then I guess I'm dating inside of my "race." I've mostly dated Black men but within the past 5-6 years I've dated a Cajun/Cuban/etc. guy (who looked straight up white) and my current bf of 3 years is Mexican/Armenian/Italian... I wonder how many people nowadays are full-blooded anything anyways.

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PrincessTitusIsAMoron — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 03:15:04 -0000

LOL you are a moron. Before you come in here to spout off hatred, racist diatribe and poppycockery, shouldn't you brush up on your English and grammar skills? Your posts don't make sense anyway, and you have the nerve to speak foolishness? Oh, the irony!

You don't like black women, that's good for you. Judging by your post, there's not a damned thing we would want or see in you in the first place. LOL I love idiots on the internet.

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mslatinprincess — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 21:45:21 -0000

yes lol...small world...lol...

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ThatchickNik — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 21:14:11 -0000

@Head EXACTLY!! The more I hear from fools like this one, the more I pray that he is a lone fool. Thats part of the reason why have difficulty finding quality men; they've resorted to the media way of thinking. @"King" Titus, If you dont see the beauty in an "average" Black Woman, shame on you! Get some therapy for the trauma you've been through in your life. Im going to leave this alone before Xilla's blog turns real ugly, real fast. Facts my ass...

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HeadMistress — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 19:40:06 -0000

LOL@ "You know what? Let me go ahead a see what Bob is talking about..."

and yes, that David Beckham, whooo he can definitely get it!!!

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HeadMistress — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 17:47:48 -0000

King Titus is obviously starved for attention, thats the only reason for being here saying stupid ish, to get a reaction

sorry King the men and women of this blog are too classy and intelligent to fall for and play your juvenile game, you're welcome to stay, learn and grow though

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Tamika — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 17:04:13 -0000

Here's my story...

with both of my parents being mixed themselves (both being black and white) I am even more diluted in the race game. just like a majority of other mixed kids (well the ones i know) they grew up with the black card given to them. i was raised in a black house hold didnt know abt the white side of either sides...when i started to date i only dated black guys and that was the norm around me and my household. but when it came to my senior prom not one person in my family knew my date my date was white to my surprised they didnt mind that he was white...with me being both double-dipped of black and white...i have no problem dating white men or black me...but i still prefer to date a black male....

Re: Mixing The Races For The Next Obama

king titus — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 16:18:19 -0000

Its called delusion. The majority of white men like thin women. The average black women is overweight, white guys don't go for fat chicks. I am not talking about the tooth hillbillies living in trailer parks. You will not find a professional white man with the average black women from around the way.
Because Obama is in charge is not going to change anything, this is magical thinking by black women.
Black did not create good bodies GOD DID! And white with shapes and asses are not trying to be anything. Don't hate. And the majority of black men are more into latina
s anyway.
Black women are not desirable. I am not talking about video women or Halle Berry, but the average black women walking down the street. And every famous black women that gets a white men for the most part gets a no name white boy. So if a famous and good looking rich black women can only get an unknown white boy, then what chance does the average black women have? Facts speak for themselves.

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Nicki Sunshine — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:48:54 -0000

I haven't dated out of the race OFFICIALLY yet (middle school doesn't count. LOL).. I always threaten to b/c it seems the brothas just are not acting right....

BUT something is holding me back.... the chocolate skin, the lucious lips that can match mine, the mocha mystery HANGING below the border.. Um. LOL.

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ThatchickNik — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:48:29 -0000

LOL@ thanks for your perspective Ant. You alright with me. And GOOD LUCK!!

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ThatchickNik — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:44:53 -0000

Right@HeadMistress; a mature women wouldnt have a problem at all with anybody being with anybody. I personally know some Black Women who still do have a problem with it, for the very reasons you stated. But there are also many Black Women who are now starting to say to themselves"You know what? Let me go ahead a see what Bob is talking about..." and they eventually start to step out of what they know to be their only preference and/or option. But no matter what race, background, even sexual preference, LOVE JUST FEELS GOOD. I applaud a sista that can go out and see what else is out there. And there are sistas who just prefer dating only brothas, like myself. But nobody should have a problem with people making decisions to love who ever they want. Thats the beauty of love.

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Ant_from_Chi — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:43:26 -0000

I grew up in the projects of Chicago. Went to a school that was all black. I mean so black that we only had maybe 10 whites teachers. All I really knew as a youth was Black. I joined the Army right out of high school and found myself living in Germany until I was 20. When I first got there it bugged me out that everyone was with a German chick and they of course were white. At first I was like naw not me. Then as I got to getting around and meeting people and making friends I realized that some of these chicks were pretty cool, and not bad looking if you could get back the body hair. lol. Anyway, I still didn't date any of them because I had hooked up with this juicy lil' thang from North Carolina so I was straight. I came away from this experience with a different idea about it though because a few of my partners were really into the ladies they were with. We would have all these conversations about mixed raced couples and how it really didn't matter as long as it was real. So i gets out of the Army after 4 years go to college and start my career,. Now my job takes me all over the world and everywhere I go I see interacial couples. Everybody is fucking everybody and no one has anything to say about it. It doesn't seem to be a problem anywhere but in the States. Headmistress made some god point about forbidden fruit and taking something from the white man, but in my opinion any one who is on that type of shit has other issues anyway and they hopefully will seek help. I won't even dignify this creating the next Obama shit with a comment.

ThatChickNik, if you meet a man who treats you with respect, makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside and gets you wet in all the right places. Take that into consideration and work with that before you dismiss the cat cause he got took out of the oven too soon. You might get the prize baby and aint nothing wrong with that.

I'm gotta be out. I'm in Romania and I got a date. Wish me luck!!!

Peace yall

Re: Mixing The Races For The Next Obama

ThatchickNik — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:31:59 -0000

LOL@ Ant - and what's so bad is that there are alot of Black Men who feel the same way this brotha does.

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ThatchickNik — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:31:08 -0000

Ms Latin is that you girl?? Are you a part of the Tattoo Group on BP? If this is you, Its good to "see" you! LOL!! My username is Idoadoreu25. Lets catch up!!

Re: Mixing The Races For The Next Obama

ThatchickNik — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:28:48 -0000

Im glad you found happiness with someone, Audrey. No matter his ethnicity.

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ThatchickNik — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:27:21 -0000

Your perspective on this post is all too familiar. Funny. No one is arguing about who the President is. And its interesting how you say that most guys arent even attracted to black women. I disagree completely with that. We are very desirable Titus. Why do you see many NOT ALL but many White Women attempting to darken their skin, create fuller lips, and posterior implants being the most requested cosmetic surgery? These are all characteristic of the Black Female. So while you may not see a long line of White Men searching for the Real Deal, you will notice that their Caucasion counterparts are looking very similar to us. As I said, your perspective is interesting, but I have to disagree, KING.

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Ant_from_Chi — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:24:09 -0000

Are you retarded or do you just like saying stupid shit?

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Ant_from_Chi — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:22:36 -0000

Bravo

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ThatchickNik — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:20:28 -0000

I think you a have a point Paul. And thats what Im beginning to think about as I get older; should I too consider this trend and step out of my box ? Im just not sure yet.
And I must stress this: As the co-author of this post, I dont or never will I have a problem with ANYONE choosing to be with ANYONE. Not at all. For me personally, my preference is Black Men. My point of the post was that many, NOT ALL, but many Black Women, a group that I am PROUD to be a part of, were typically known for their issues with their Black counterpart's dating choices (whether it be women of other ethnicities or Black Men dating other Black Men). But as of late, we are really starting to see more Black Women break out of those issues due to a variety of reasons. That was the point. I just didnt want it to get lost.

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Paul — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 08:24:55 -0000

I think a time is gonna come when everybody is gonna be racially mixed, whether they're just bi-racial. I have a thing for interracial relationships because its a way of stepping outside the box. Interracial dating shows that there are more women [of ethnicties] to chose from

Re: Mixing The Races For The Next Obama

king titus — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 23:37:53 -0000

News flash everyone. A black man is President. NOT A BLACK WOMEN. If anything a black man stock will continue to rise.
Don't there will all of sudden be white men who want black women. Most white guys want white women, hispanic and asian in the order pretty much. Most guys are not even attracted to black women.