this guy i talked to for all of 2weeks would try to argue w/ me thru text messages. like using ALL CAPS and what not. and i'd be like "are u serious. good day."
kyas_mami
· 1 year ago
OMG!!! Me and ALL my girls been sayin this same shit ALL summer... I dont know, when or why but it seems like men an women are swapping places when it comes to relationships and sex. Used to be men complaining about women being clingy, jealous, insecure, stalkin... an now it's them. Gettin feelins hurt, catchin feelins, whining, complaining, naggin and blowin a Bitch UP!!! XILLA wuts goin on?!
Ttime
· 1 year ago
Men are the new women when:
You are conversing with a guy and he wants to go on and on about what is wrong with the women of today. As if that isn't bad enough, he references the show "Girlfriends" (with ample knowledge and examples) to illustrate his points. What REAL man watches "Girlfriends"?
My estimation of the problem is that men have bought into the oh-so-prevalent-idea that women want a sensitive man. I have always contended that I do not want a sensitive man, I want an understanding man. A man who understands that women are emotional and he may not get it, but he allows me to be emotional over "women's issues" without mocking or scolding me. Men have stopped being men because they allow women to effemanize them by doing such things as watching Girlfriends/Sex and the City, Going shopping and holding the purse; Making baby showers co-ed, etc.
A man should be man enough to stand up to a woman and put his foot down and say with great CONFIDENCE---"No, I will not do that because I am a man and that act is feminine!" If a man will not assert himself with a woman, he is not a man, but a mouse. A man should always have his own barometer of what is/isn't feminine behavior for a man to participate in. If I can control a man, beleive me, I don't want him and CANNOT repect him. I am old-fashioned, the bible says a woman will never have authority over a man and the man is the head of the household. If you want the authority and to run the household, then you must command respect as a person and a man. PERIOD.
Lb
· 1 year ago
I love this post Xilla..I just recently broke up with my ex because he would not let me be the female in the relationship..he did most of what was mentioned above.. There are a lot of dudes out there like this and its scary/crazy all at the same time.
superstarbroadway
· 1 year ago
LOL I agree with this. I had a friend who was low on testerone. He called me all the time although I wasn't interested, he deleted me off of facebook because I put "in a relationship" with another friend. Then one time I called him a name and he apologized to me. Love it. This dude was sprung for no reason.
NaijaWifey
· 1 year ago
I AGREE 100 TIMES. HE WHINES ABOUT EVERYTHING, HE BLAMES THE NATION FOR HIS SHORTCOMINGS, WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME YOU LOVE ME TODAY? DO I HAVE TO SAY IT 15 TIMES A DAY, I THOUGHT 10 WAS ENOUGH, DAMN? WHERE ARE YOU GOING AND WHO ARE YOU GOING TO BE WITH? ARE WE GOING OUT OR JUST YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS?
THEN THE ONE ON THE SIDE FORGETS HIS ROLE AS A SIDELINE PLAYERS TRYING TO CREEP OUT TO THE SPOTLIGHT...WHY YOU ASK ME TO GO TO DISNEYLAND? WHY WASN'T I INVITED TO THE PARTY? I CALLED YOU AND YOU DIDN'T PICK UP?
WHERE ARE THE DAYS WHEN MEN WERE MEN???????
what?
· 1 year ago
That ish was funny, sounds like u need a new sideline dude!!! Do he beat it up like he should? girl, u might as well find another piece
Kash
· 1 year ago
OMG thats true...my boyfriend is str8 on bitch status....blowing up my phne whining and this one time he wanted to use my car and i said no and he thru a tantrum and started kcking his legs in my car...he's 24 and i'm 20!
I find myself being the strong one, tha one who doesnt show much emotion except for if i'm yelling at him.
what?
· 1 year ago
My BD swears his a thug, he's a thug, but don't let that fool have a bug anywhere around him...he's all get it off get it off*high pitched girly voice*LOL
jO
· 1 year ago
I wish I could post this voicemail message that a friend passed on to me. Im caught up in this DNC so i cant think of how to do it. any ideas? Please post.
On a personal note Im happy that I've never had to deal with any of this foolishness.
Jaila
· 1 year ago
Where are the men who were like James Evans of Good Times? Thats what im waiting on.
Qrazy
· 1 year ago
I was going to post on this yesterday, but my ADD kicked in. My most recent ex would only go out with his family (mom dad and brother). When I mean only I mean the movies, concerts etc. When I lost my job I had a lot of male friends getting me out the house and snapping me out of my shock. He got mad because they were doing what he refused to do and said "what are you retarded like your son" and then said "Don't let me see you out in the streets". He spent 2 months trying to get back with me after that. If he wasn't such a bitch he would have been an average guy at the least. If he sounds like a winner I can pass you his info ladies!
AskYnX
· 1 year ago
LMAO! I know guys that won't say anything if you pissed him off he would just slam things or had an attitude and not talk, or hang up the phone in your face. Or ifyou something he didn't like he would get all sensitive and say you hurt his feelings.
They need to start selling testosterone shots over the counter or the men need to grow some balls. A weak ass man is not attractive for women.
Will E. Johnson
· 1 year ago
Woah. This is the first time where I've seen it addressed. These are BANs= Bitch Ass Niggas. They feel too big headed and act like divos, its becoming sad. I had a dude who would worry about his girl every 15 min. When she cheated on him he didn't eat. Maybe it has to do with the lost of fathers or a male figure. Something. Its becoming real embarrassing.
Also whats wrong with a dude watching Girlfriends? Its a good Black sitcom. I understand the quoting and stuff but why women flip when a man watches more than ESPN?
Preston
· 1 year ago
I keep seeing, hearing, and reading about this and it's truly the saddest shit of all time. WEAREREALLYTRYING our best, but DAMN fellas!!
starr
· 1 year ago
a guy im messin around with is catching MAD FEELINGS.. i spoke to him on the phone, told him I was in another city (that was a lie), 5 minutes later he's buzzing me from my lobby....long story short, he was knockin on my door then hiding in the stairwell LOL
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XILLA wuts goin on?!
You are conversing with a guy and he wants to go on and on about what is wrong with the women of today. As if that isn't bad enough, he references the show "Girlfriends" (with ample knowledge and examples) to illustrate his points. What REAL man watches "Girlfriends"?
My estimation of the problem is that men have bought into the oh-so-prevalent-idea that women want a sensitive man. I have always contended that I do not want a sensitive man, I want an understanding man. A man who understands that women are emotional and he may not get it, but he allows me to be emotional over "women's issues" without mocking or scolding me. Men have stopped being men because they allow women to effemanize them by doing such things as watching Girlfriends/Sex and the City, Going shopping and holding the purse; Making baby showers co-ed, etc.
A man should be man enough to stand up to a woman and put his foot down and say with great CONFIDENCE---"No, I will not do that because I am a man and that act is feminine!" If a man will not assert himself with a woman, he is not a man, but a mouse. A man should always have his own barometer of what is/isn't feminine behavior for a man to participate in. If I can control a man, beleive me, I don't want him and CANNOT repect him. I am old-fashioned, the bible says a woman will never have authority over a man and the man is the head of the household. If you want the authority and to run the household, then you must command respect as a person and a man. PERIOD.
There are a lot of dudes out there like this and its scary/crazy all at the same time.
THEN THE ONE ON THE SIDE FORGETS HIS ROLE AS A SIDELINE PLAYERS TRYING TO CREEP OUT TO THE SPOTLIGHT...WHY YOU ASK ME TO GO TO DISNEYLAND? WHY WASN'T I INVITED TO THE PARTY? I CALLED YOU AND YOU DIDN'T PICK UP?
WHERE ARE THE DAYS WHEN MEN WERE MEN???????
I find myself being the strong one, tha one who doesnt show much emotion except for if i'm yelling at him.
On a personal note Im happy that I've never had to deal with any of this foolishness.
My most recent ex would only go out with his family (mom dad and brother). When I mean only I mean the movies, concerts etc. When I lost my job I had a lot of male friends getting me out the house and snapping me out of my shock. He got mad because they were doing what he refused to do and said "what are you retarded like your son" and then said "Don't let me see you out in the streets". He spent 2 months trying to get back with me after that. If he wasn't such a bitch he would have been an average guy at the least.
If he sounds like a winner I can pass you his info ladies!
They need to start selling testosterone shots over the counter or the men need to grow some balls. A weak ass man is not attractive for women.
Also whats wrong with a dude watching Girlfriends? Its a good Black sitcom. I understand the quoting and stuff but why women flip when a man watches more than ESPN?