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Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

Mr. NO Bitches — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 12:01:02 -0000

Wow. Glad I don't have this problem. Phew.
You know the reason why self-proclaimed "bitches" always end up with male bitches, right? No real man or woman would ever be in a relationship with a bitch. Bitches attract bitches.

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

Louis RICH — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 11:16:26 -0000

1st off responsibility has to come from both sides, somewhere along the way women stopped looking for men to be their heroes & started to become their own. It definitely is a role reversal because of the lack of respect that we have for one another as people, that's why you have situations like chris brown/Rihanna some women are taught at a young age that the man should take care of the women, so when a woman learns that she can take care of herself, she's like "what do I really NEED him for?" so she's prone to "Boss Up" to her man and either he's gonna react violently or leave altogether, as men we do need to take control of our lives starting with the choices we make. Women are choosing men based on their credentials (Degree, Good Career, Home Ownwership, no baby mamas, ambitious) and all we do is choose women based on how she looks or the size of her ass & breasts, then we wonder why we can't get along with our "baby's Mama" because we didn't choose based on "how can she make my life better" that's why there are more women in power positions than men & no doubt they deserve it because they worked hard for it, which is why your woman will take constructive criticism alot easier from a white man than from you, cause she doesn't care about your struggle she feels if she can do it why can't you! I don't think it would kill a woman to fall back a little let a man be a man and really let their guard down, you have the man you want, why are you still fighting yourself & him? But dudes need to MAN UP & take control of their lives cause when she's gone all you have is nothing, so it won't kill you to show some ambition & curb the hustla mentality & really use your talents to better your life (and not just rapping) everyone is good at something just manifest that. Women are the essence of love and right now that is lacking in relationships, right now couples are breaking up because of the economy, job loss & stress, but if there is unconditional love & respect there you truly can make it through the storm.

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

Who Dat — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 09:18:55 -0000

To be honest you sound like you take pride in having the traits of a MAN. Thats a problem, too many black women act like men, and then they wonder why black men cheat. No straight man wants to be with a man. A man is naturally dominant therefore if he isnt in that position he will eventually search to be in that position- its natural, so more than likely he will cheat on your dominant ass with a woman more submissive. Black women can learn a lot from white women and foreign women who still understand what it means to be a woman. So next time you want to be a "bitch" close our eyes and imagine being 45 years old lonely, unattractive and yearning for a companion. While the guy you were so proud of being a bitch to is banging some late 20-somethng year old chick laughing at your bitter ass. Get it together.

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theceoffice — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:47:26 -0000

wow

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Moon — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:24:07 -0000

This is a good one! I am guilty of acting this way but I def blame it on being young. I was just out of high school dealing with a guy I had known since grade school. He wanted to get serious and I was not having it and would not return phone calls when he would call too much or say little smart ish (not too bad).
However as I got older/mature I realized dude never grew out of his bitchness!
A decade later he will not let me live down things I said when I was 15-18.
We NEVER had sex because after we finaly got hot and heavy at age 24 he sat up in the bed, put his head down and said.."you don't want me in there".
AAAAGHH! I got up, put my clothes on and left! Im 30 now and just last year he asked a relative to tell me to call him. HELL NAW! He is a lifetime Bitchboy!

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

candyangel23 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:17:36 -0000

my bad but thx for understanding XILLA u d man

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themavenreport — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 12:37:50 -0000

If a dude is a bitch on the inside, it's gonna come out one way or another. The bitch in him can only be suppressed so long and that's who he really is.

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SassyScorpio — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 12:16:24 -0000

OKAAAAY....tell em way you mad girl. I agree 100%.

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hazysin — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 12:05:21 -0000

Sassy!!!!....girl let me tell u. I have been screaming role reversal for years. especially the eighties baby. These boys dont even want to begin to accept the responsibility of being a man.

My boyfriend and i are going through it right now because as he says, i have an "aggressive" personality. Someone has to have the backbone in this situation. I feel that if his mother hadn't coddled him for 25 fucking years i would have to talk to him/treat him like hes my 2nd son.

Xilla, sure we as women we do things to bring the pussy out of a guy but truth...if he was a MAN, the would be no pussy. If he were a MAN and took care of responsibilities as a MAN, he would not have any issues. This top his a special part of me because any male who has accepted role his ROLE as a man...doesnt have any bitch in him. I would haven't have to wear the pants...if my MALE wasn't so comfortable in a skirt!!!!!

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

SassyScorpio — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 09:43:17 -0000

Okay so I may be a little guilty but I tell men upfront I AM A BITCH, if you can't handle my smart ass comments and my sarcastic, fuck it mentality then you may not wanna stick around. I don't take too much serious and so that is why I come off the way I do. It seems like we as women are getting stronger and men seem to become weaker. Kinda like role reversal. It may come from a lack of father figures and being raised by only their mothers but men ya'll need to get tougher skin.

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SassyScorpio — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 09:36:28 -0000

Xilla, you better not go out and get Becky....you too fine for that.

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tokisa — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 08:19:48 -0000

lol at staying under his armpits? Maybe if you was up under him 23 hours out the day ? dang I need some space lol!! really a tad bit insecure too funny

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Oohkeekee — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:17:10 -0000

Don't you hate that and you had such high hopes... lol
... And thanx Xilla I took your advice on how to take sexy pictures lol... I'll send u tha bigger versions... J/K Lol

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

LeilaCaboverdiana — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:10:59 -0000

Ooooh Xilla, you hit a sore spot. Just endied things with someone who was a bit to needy for my taste and he won't stop blowing up my phone even though I've been completely honest with him. I've tried everything! Being cold and harsh to being understanding and friendly but he keeps blowing up my phone with calls and text messages. I'm just ignoring him right now, I already have a child that needs all my attention, not looking for another one!

But it's funny nonetheless. Men can act like needy children! But to be honest, we women tend do things like that to when men ignore us.

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lisa — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:05:13 -0000

but i can't lie, in my rookie days, i was a "bitch ass". does bitchassness have an acceptable age limit?

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lisa — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:03:25 -0000

i hope it isn't me. i try to only surround myself with positivity. every time i get a little upset with my man, i try to step back and ask myself if i am jumping to conclusions, being unreasonable, etc. this has been after a LOT of b.s.ing on my part in the past, but i hope that i'm not like that anymore. i am a busy woman with a lot on my "to do" list and i try not to waste anybody's time. i refuse to belittle a man because i don't want to go through the "break up talk" and treat him badly just so i don't have to do the dirty work. that's selfish. i treat my man with respect, do all the freaky things he wants (and some that he doesn't know he wants, cuz i learned some new shit on xilla), be supportive, and have a good dinner on the table when he comes home. ever since i stepped up on that kinda game, i haven't had any "bitchassness"

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EbonyLolita — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:01:46 -0000

Hmmmm..... OK I didn't see where u were initially going w/ that. I see clearly now the rain is gone.

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MsDiva — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:08:29 -0000

but when a woman is crazy...she just plain crazy!

exactly...no one can make you crazy...so i can't cosign on us chicks making ya'll go mad. ya'll just crazy...lol

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

BlogXilla — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:52:00 -0000

yeah i found myself getting like that with one chick.. but i know my mouth... i can't joke around. I'm the person who says shit like that's why your father was a.... when you're dad died yesterday. So I try not to play like that because i know my mouth it's no holds barred and I know i don't want to be that person who verbally abuses a chick. Or put my hands on them so i stay away from conflict and try to amp up the sweet talk. But now i've learned hey I need to dump this bird before i end up in the can for a 3-9

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

BlogXilla — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:48:58 -0000

lol yeah you're right no MAN should be as bitch made as i described but it's sarcasm you feel me. And some people are just a little sensitive about certain subjects and it begin to be a domino effect. One thing leads to another and next thing you know you're sleeping wit Que from making the band.

And no you're not the only one who notices Paris Hilton has no ass and just a long back!

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

BlogXilla — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:46:29 -0000

So you didn't get the point of the blog... i'm not trying to say accept a man who is a bitch by no means no... I was using both extremes to display that sometimes the shit could be the bitch!

And you're going to sit here and tell me someone can't get under your skin? Really?Someone can't provoke you to react in a way... now at the end of the day I fully believe it's up to the person to react but c'mon people do things for a reaction and sometimes we have to look at our behavior and say hey maybe it's something i can do to make this situation better.

You're with this person because you like them right? Because you want to be with them? Well shouldn't we at least try to treat them how they want to be treated...

I'm just saying we all need to look at ourself and say hey what am i doing wrong and am i doing anything wrong or is this person just mentally deranged. I am in no way condoning bitchassness.

All I am saying is that some chicks make men go crazy and act the way they act.

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

BlogXilla — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:42:04 -0000

I was with a chick like this... first time i was busy she started to flip... i was really just busy but her ways made me start dogging her more. it's crazy complicated. but you know that's how the cookie crumbles. and Ooh Kee Kee that picture... very sexy small but very sexy. lol

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

BlogXilla — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:40:34 -0000

yep that's the alternative, but you shouldn't be with a panzie ass dude either, you'll find the right mix just give someone a chance they might turn out to be that dude.

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

BlogXilla — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:39:37 -0000

thanks lady

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BlogXilla — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:39:17 -0000

pause