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daisybunny — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 20:44:45 -0000

catching feelings period...never turns out how we would like...the ones that we love, dont love us. the ones that love us, we dont love. so *uck them all...and here's to us ;)

dang, i sound jaded. hmm

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BlogXilla — Fri, 26 Dec 2008 11:56:59 -0000

I don't think I wrote this for her to read... I wrote it more or so for me... And for my readers who tend to think i'm the ultimate catch... It's more so for me to not get big headed which I tend to do reading all the comments... And It's not like I ever said... you hurt me or you did this to me... Hell it's not even about one person... rather than a collection of people. I does this... lol I got this cuzzo

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Cuzzo — Fri, 26 Dec 2008 11:41:33 -0000

I haven't been in the blogosphere all that long buuuuut, isn't it a cardinal rule not to disclose your blog comings and goings?

I hate when people try to communicate to their so-called "loved one" via their blog. It's seems cowardly.

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Pebbles — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 13:05:00 -0000

awww =]

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SugarTits — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 10:25:08 -0000

I TAKES A FOOL TO LEARN THAT LOVE DON'T LOVE NOBODY!!!!

Sorry to hear bout your heartbreak. Go through the phases..... hurt, anger, sadness, rejection and come back renewed. We just began the Winter Solstice which may have something to do with your feelings as well.

I do want you to pull it together tho. You're a King and you are you're own man. You moved back up top to pursue YOUR dreams. Live your life. Enjoy the moment and appreciate the times you did share with her. Good-byes are signs of one's faith that more hello's are to come.

She may have just been your steak ums preparing you for your filet mingon...........

***CYBER HUG*****

You'll be aight!

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bre red — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 04:02:17 -0000

so ....i usually always come check da site out but why dis post really hit home fa me today...and after reading some comments i'm like wow. I think this..well i hope after readin this i can do better. Cuz as of now i think im totally fuckin up my relationship cuz i do have dat genuine dude. And i think its real fucked dat i find it so hard to submit and jus put my guard down. Cuz even tho sometimes us as females do it and dudes pose to be like 'harder' than us. That really pushes yall away...and das really somethin i dont want do..hmph..im mad u aint on yahoo lol

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BajanBeauty — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 22:42:54 -0000

Wow...Xilla this post is so timely...it sums up the way I've been feeling the last two days.

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POOHT2 — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 18:58:29 -0000

hey zilla i read your blog all the time and i must say i look forward to reading something new everyday it is the highlight of my day. This post touched me because i believe in true love. Being in love is truly the best feeling in the world and it hurts me to know that u have given up on the most amazing feeling in the world. True love is the hardest thing to find and i beg please dont give up on it i pray that when you finally meet that amazing person they make you forget about all the hurt and pain you have experienced because u deserve it

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Ness — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 17:53:17 -0000

So ur saying u don't want me as ur bm anymore? :( I'm hurt!....lol
I thght we were gonna get married!!! Now ur telling me it's not for u!!! was it something I did or said lmao!!

Nah..seriously....to each it's own. U never know whts in-store for u. U may feel like ur not looking & then mr right ends up in ur lap and he's everything u want him 2 be... just b/c some men can't keep their johnsons in their pants doesn't mean ALL men r like tht. If u ask me, women are bigger sluts than men (sorry ladies) but it's true lol.

Love is a beautiful thing once u understand it. And it comes in all forms!

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what? — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 17:53:02 -0000

OMG Xilla, someone broke YOUR heart? Forreal, or is this a guest post...i don't believe it!

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Haniplease — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 17:02:17 -0000

Tyra had a good show on this. a guy and girl made similar pledges as you have. do you think its healthy to deny yourself true love!? it sounds like your waiting for your ex to move closer so that you can "put a slippa on her"....since distance isn't making that a likely reality, might i suggest that you start working on healing and moving on? staying within arms reach isn't ideal if you two aren't planning on getting married....as much as it sucks you have to let that go in order to find that Bonita, bonita bonita..... you sound like someone that has a lot of love to give, and so much to offer yet you're inevitably cheating urself/futurebabymama, by not letting love and potential in.... that bachelor[ette] ish gets old.... TRUST ME!

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Rhea — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 15:20:12 -0000

There are more important things in life then being in love.

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Kee — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 13:10:33 -0000

I've been hurt twice in my relationship experiences and badly I must say but I refuse to not love fully...I don't' know any other way..I think if I could love a person half hearted I wouldn't want too it wouldn't be fair to myself yet alone that person...so until I come across a man who will love me just as strong as I him then I'll just keeping loving with no strong barriers up..there are some but not so much where I'm refusing to let anyone in..LOVE is a beautiful thing and I can't imagine my life without it even with all the pain.

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Haniplease — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 12:27:09 -0000

one day it won't end in pain. at least you've experienced love...i haven't [not the romantic] typa love and i'm curious, but i know that it's not even worth it for me... ME not uuuu! i'ma need UUUU to love so u can keep writing and i can live through ur blogs. oKAAAAY!?

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BlogXilla — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 12:23:47 -0000

love sucks!! It always end in pain!! I don't even like trying to catch feelings for someone anymore. I'm sick of being disappointed

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Haniplease — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 12:21:37 -0000

hi5 Necole! [ness she might be a contender for my futurebabymama! watch out thea now!]

i really feel like love broke up with me when i was a child. as soon as my mother showed me i was less than for being dark and fat and only decent since i had "good hair"i kinda knew that love had played me to the str8 leff! lol this inevitably hardened me at a young young young age. i ran through niggas taking and taking and tossing and i still do....u aren't that hardened person... its sooo not in u!

ness, i will never get married. NEVER! it ain' for me, and the statement is exactly like saying college ain for me. i told my parents that, they forced me to go to school and it was a hot ass mess. i was doing all kindsa monkeydoodlefoolishness and was right. while there are emotions attached to marriage, the only thing it does is legally bind ur duckets to his coins. a paper won't keep his d-i- in his pants, nor will it keep u from bangin ur boss in the small conference room. ...

being a writer and a sexual intellectual comes with its hang-ups... i've had many men assume i'd bang everything that looked at my boobs, and those tricks weren't my treats. a secure confident woman is within ur grasp. be patient son!

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Haniplease — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 11:59:35 -0000

It's the same way I've probably let go of or never gave a chance to countless number of genuine men just because I refuse to believe there are good ones out there based on hurts I've suffered...<--- THIS IS REALLY REAL!

i think i haven't let go and fallen all the way in love because i have this intense fear of what i just read ^. i don't want to lose control and have to think about someone all the time or be insecure, or hurt. the closest i came to real love was killed by the IDOCs and after i've built this intense wall.... sucks because i'm missing out on the opportunity to experience life with a partner and i'm learning now that the drugs, handbags, fancy parties, and wild sex, get old. FAST!

while u BUUUULLLshittin[in my best aunti NeNe voice] Xilla, you're gonna love. its in you as much as it isn't in me. you are a lover, not an empty humper. i get paid the lil' bucks to read people like the red eye and i'm never wrong.... what ur going through stinks, but it'll pass. you won't forget, but you'll love again because you're not satisfied with the bang'n'bounce. you couldn't write about sex as passionately as you do if that place was confortable...[yea i read u! u won't fight me! UUUH! ;P]

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HeadMistress — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 11:52:22 -0000

You're preachin to the choir homie, shyyyt you're preachin to the preacher :-D

It does SEEM to suck, that's why I gave up on it awhile ago, but understand giving up and blocking it also has its disadvantages...the desire to give and receive it NEVER goes away, like oxygen, food and water we need it, although we can survive physically without it, blocking it will cause you to die a little bit emotionally, and you'll miss it desperately when you see others around you that have it or seem to have it...you'll be protected but lonely, I'm not so sure protected is better.

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HeadMistress — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 11:19:19 -0000

CHU'CH!!!

You must let urself experience it, with the right person (thats key), its wonderful to be in love, even when it ends and you have to go through that hurt, once you heal and look back its rare that you feel it wasn't worth it..

"it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all"

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Wes — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 10:53:43 -0000

I'm a little naive when it comes to love being that I've never really been heartbroken (I've always done the heartbreaking!). Even though you might not "think" you were in love, you seem to be displaying all of the signs of a broken heart- At first you're hurt, which then turns into anger, then grief... Eventually you'll get over it. What I've noticed w/ you is that you might've been in love with the idea of love itself. Correct me if I'm wrong but it seems like you find love (or what appears to be) in all the WRONG places.

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NikkiBlanco — Sun, 21 Dec 2008 02:07:26 -0000

I feel you on this... Man, I been there. Here's a poem to make it better (not really) but hopefully make ya smile.

Trials of Love
Why is love treating me like a stepchild
And why does pain know my number by heart
Loneliness calls me by my nickname
And regret, (lets not even start)
Love won’t take me home to meet the parents
Pain already did
Right after lust took me to the bedroom
And asked if he could ‘hit’
When I said yes because love doesn’t notice me
And joy doesn’t know my name
I settled for getting to know orgasm personally
Love didn’t show up, but @ least I came!

janis nicole townsend (nikkiblanco)

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Necole Bitchie — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 23:14:31 -0000

wow you mofos are deep over here. Love has broken up with me a long time ago (hence not the other way around). Although my mind says I'll experience it again my heart is telling me I won't.

btw, Xilla if I've never told you, you are brilliant.

necole

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HeadMistress — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 20:09:31 -0000

I definitely do, it grabbed me by the face with "look at me, damnit" force...

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Isis — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 19:44:41 -0000

I did and I dont think It'll come back for a long time. But you can't! You're the Xilla!!! Xilla loves and is loved!!!

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Ness — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 18:49:23 -0000

U said "consider this my letter to break up with the "idea" of love".
You have 2 remember that love is an emotion just like anger, happiness and disappointment. Those feelings only arise when triggered (which is usually by someone close or a situation dear 2 us). So there's no way 4 u to break up w/ the idea of love (EVER). The reason why I say this is b/c emotions come and go as they please with no regards to how it makes us feel. Ppl say tht we can't control our emotions, but I don't believe tht b/c it's all about how u channel it.

And it's not fair to say "Marriage just ain’t for me, y’all" b/c it's not like saying "college isn't for me". Although ppl control whtever decisions they decide 2 make, marriage is often connected to an emotion such as love, joy, and happiness. Not deciding to go to college is a decision that doesn't involve deep emotion like love or happiness (it's more circumstance).

So I Ness, challenge you Xilla to retract your resignation on the "IDEA" of love! You have 2 b patient. But more importantly you have to be able to recognize your soul mate and receive her w/ an open heart & mind. If you give up the idea of love then u ultimately will leave your soul mate (the one intended for L.V a.k.a Xilla) without knowing her true capability to love b/c she'll have to settle for somethng tht wasn't created and molded for her the way that u are.