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Rayshawn — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 12:32:31 -0000

thats a nice article.

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EbonyV — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 00:56:37 -0000

I'm just now checkin this reply from years ago and u obviously didnt comprehend my statement correctly.I was speaking in general,not faulting anyone, just responding to a blog.Shees, who r u her bff or something?

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Lani — Thu, 07 May 2009 21:40:35 -0000

& the fact that your insinuating that the baby isn't his is fucked up. You don't know Kelis or Nas or their marriage sitation to make those claims. Reporting gossip is one thing, but talking shit about people kids is crossing the line. Then your stats in that article are so far off lol

This is my first time checking this blog, but you posting fake pics and phoney stats isn't the best look homey.

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Lani — Thu, 07 May 2009 21:36:48 -0000

That's definately not Kelis. It's a pornstar named Jemini. That tape is on Bangbros.

Kelis is 7 months pregnant and filing for divorce and it's already been confirmend Nas was the cheater. It's funny how your faulting the woman and making Kelis out to be a ho when that's not the case. Anyway, they need to work it out for the sake of the kid though.

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EbonyV — Thu, 07 May 2009 01:00:48 -0000

Awww, Poor Nas:(
I dont feel like a woman is necessarily a whore because she cheats on her man, and yes i know its cliche' but niggas do it all the time.Everybody cheats for different reasons.On the flip side, when a child is involved all that man vs. woman shit should go out the door.Alot of women feel like they cant come clean because they dont wanna take a chance on losin this nigga but they took that chance when they cheated.Now its time to be a woman and let the man know of other possibilities and if he is truly a man he will stick around for the results and father his child regardless.

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Really? — Tue, 05 May 2009 20:42:24 -0000

That i not Kelis that is a Eva from america's top model. Can we get the real video pics Xilla?

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GlamorousVandal — Mon, 04 May 2009 03:19:59 -0000

I hear you on this, women need to get their shit together and be a fucking WOMAN. I'm tired of the same old excuse from female's that say - "I'm just doing what nigga's been doing since forever and then some.." I tell 'em all "bitch, you ain't no nigga, that's a pussy between your thighs and as a woman you should be stronger, and set examples." - but do they? no! for them it's always easier to whore themselves out in revenge, funny though a lot of them can't take the heat after being exposed as a whore, 9 out of 10 times the bitch will use the lame excuse "a man does it and he is not a whore" that's just the way life's cookie's crumble to bad some of ya have yet to grasp that thought..oh yeah that chick in the "porn still shot" does not look like Kelis at all though.

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Sat, 02 May 2009 17:59:28 -0000

It is Gemini

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Qrazy — Sat, 02 May 2009 14:55:22 -0000

awww hayle!
Well, I am speechless when it comes to this split...
but as far as guys not raising their own kids and women laying about the father, that is a whole different ball game.
Yes, they are some effed up people out here, both men and women. The man can ask for a paternity test before signing a birth certificate, so if he signed with out asking then that is on him, also if he chose to sleep with a trifling chick that is also on him.
As far as the women goes, I do not know any sane women out there that would get knocked up on purpose and want to raise a child solo just for a few bucks. Being a mother is not a part time duty, nor is it easy. So, a few bucks is not worth the hard work it is to raise a child solo...

Re: Kelis x Nas: Sex Tapes + Paternity Tests

HeadMistress — Fri, 01 May 2009 22:59:08 -0000

WOW! WOW! WOW!

I just read that article and OMG!

I still believe people always give you an indication of who they really are but I feel really bad for the men in that article, some of these guys were clearly blindsided. Men and women can both exhibit some abhorrent behavior at times but when it comes to issues and questions of paternity men are clearly at a disadvantage - and it's a lose/lose situation for them cause if they go around demanding paternity tests at birth in an otherwise healthy relationship they risk damaging a relationship where things may be just fine

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Fri, 01 May 2009 22:05:58 -0000

Xilla,

Love you blog, but I think your statistics are just a bit off. 3 out of 5 would put it @ damn near 60% of men out there raising other guys kids and not knowing it. The number, according to Men's Health magazine is closer to 3.8%. However this still translates to over 1000000 guys out there providing support for kids that they have no obligation to. The article also goes on to elucidate on the fact that guys have no little to no recourse on the matter (it shows that one guy was forced to pay support by the courts even though it was proven that the child was not his). The URL is too long to post, but Google "Are you raising another man's child?" and it should be the first entry that pops up. Keep up the good work with the thoughtful topics.

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Fabs — Fri, 01 May 2009 18:54:55 -0000

That's def. Kelis people, go back and look at a pic of her and check the nostrils! Remember she's laying down so you get the whole bigger view of her nostrils!

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Biggga — Fri, 01 May 2009 16:25:55 -0000

And in most cases of women putting kids on a dude; the real loser is the child. Until women and men start making better decisions on who they decided to start their famlies with; this sad cycle will continue.

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Sexy N Sassy — Fri, 01 May 2009 16:18:51 -0000

What 1am said is so true thats its deep! SMH

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HeadMistress — Fri, 01 May 2009 16:08:26 -0000

The men who end up in this situation are just as much at fault as the women...

We need to start examining more closely the character of the people we crawl into bed with. People are so thirsty for relationships and/or sex that they overlook the obvious and end up in situations that negatively affect the rest of their lives either with children they never wanted and can't care for, a "co-parent" they didn't want to be inextricably tied to forever or a disease they can't get rid of.

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HeadMistress — Fri, 01 May 2009 16:02:23 -0000

@ "if we start paying attention to these RED flags before (instead of afterwards) indirectly procreating this shit wudn't be an issue."

Well said!

"When people show you who they are, believe them" - Maya Angelou

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bogart4017 — Fri, 01 May 2009 15:28:07 -0000

I don't know. It seems like an awful lot of people have an awful lot to say about an awful situation they know nothing about.

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bria — Fri, 01 May 2009 15:24:06 -0000

Well just as females put kids on the m en...bold ass men put their lust child on women too. As for those who are married and the men are forced to pay child support for kids who aren't theirs...THAT'S THE FUC*ED UP COURT SYSTEM!! I'll NEVER understand how men are forced to pay for kids that aren't theirs just bcuz their married. but then again...didn't Guiliani move in (or attempt to move in) his mistress--into his and wife's crib??? so men are just as janky.

there are bad men and bad women...if we start paying attention to these RED flags before (instead of afterwards) indirectly procreating this shit wudn't be an issue.

Re: Kelis x Nas: Sex Tapes + Paternity Tests

BlogXilla — Fri, 01 May 2009 15:05:32 -0000

Can y'all please read the whole article? It's clear who did and who did not. This post is not really about them. I say I don't know the particulars of their break up. This is about women putting babies on men. Now I did hear this story. But I heard they are boy whores.

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LexiBlue — Fri, 01 May 2009 14:58:04 -0000

I can't agree whole heartedly with the post bc I don't know the particulars. But those screencaps don't look like Kelis at all.

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EbonyLolita — Fri, 01 May 2009 14:57:19 -0000

That isn't Kelis. Plus until I see the sextape she ain't fuck nobody. The only ppl that know the true story are Kelis/Nas/God. Nuff said. Once again, there's a child that will be born into a broken family. MoFo's always think a baby will fix shyt, it doesn't. If u have a 10% problem a baby will turn it into a 50% problem. Shewww good luck to all involved, especially the unborn :(

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SaTownHoney — Fri, 01 May 2009 14:54:43 -0000

Shole does! I thought she looks JUST like EVA!

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SaTownHoney — Fri, 01 May 2009 14:52:27 -0000

Ya know...I feel like if everyone holds themselves accountable, things will improve 100%! Men need to step up and be leaders and treat womenas well as themselves with respect and love and sistas...oh man...we really need to respect and love ourselves and our brothas and RAISE OUR KIDS! Stop letting BET and every nigga you screwing raise and be around your kids! This means, read to them, take them to church/temple/whatever, give them some values to stand on! We don't even teach kids stuff as simple as manners and how to take pride in themselves. This plus SO much more is missing from the black community and the world in general. If we teach the kids, they can teach their kids therein improving the future generations! But first, we need to start respecting ourselves and valuing ourselves as people! If you don't love yourself, how are you gonna love anyone else. Great post Xilla! I am very passionate about things like this, especially when it comes to black families or families in general!

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thejadednyer — Fri, 01 May 2009 14:42:40 -0000

This is the rumor I heard, too, that they were both unfaithful so decided to just stop trying to be married. Smart move- if you ain't ready for monogamy why fake it?

Just too bad there is a baby involved now. That part makes me sad.

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Dionne — Fri, 01 May 2009 14:40:50 -0000

That is so NOT Kelis. Who knows what really happened, it's all speculation. I read somewhere else where "sources," said she got sick of his cheating ways and verbal abuse. So as I said before, pure speculation. In any case it's sad because she's seven months pregnant.