DISQUS

GlamorousVandal · 6 months ago

I hear you on this, women need to get their shit together and be a fucking WOMAN. I'm tired of the same old excuse from female's that say - "I'm just doing what nigga's been doing since forever and then some.." I tell 'em all "bitch, you ain't no nigga, that's a pussy between your thighs and as a woman you should be stronger, and set examples." - but do they? no! for them it's always easier to whore themselves out in revenge, funny though a lot of them can't take the heat after being exposed as a whore, 9 out of 10 times the bitch will use the lame excuse "a man does it and he is not a whore" that's just the way life's cookie's crumble to bad some of ya have yet to grasp that thought..oh yeah that chick in the "porn still shot" does not look like Kelis at all though.

bria · 6 months ago

who the hell is Infrared?? If and I say IF (I mean people are still having friggin' Tupac sightings lol) that's true then yes it is for the best. wow...I wonder what made her go there?? women cheat for altogether different reasons then men-unless she's into tightening up her jump-off status. I posted their pending divorce, but I'll keep this new info over here. I hope it isn't true.

Phil · 6 months ago

Infrared was one of Ruff Ryders early acts you would hear on their compilation albums. I think he made it to a DMX album but that was it, lol. I heard about the tape, too, and was waiting for Kelis to come out and debunk it, but she never said a word about it, so...I guess she didn't give a fuck, which is no kind of mentality for a marriage. I'm not gonna side with Nas, necessarily either, who knows if he was doing his dirt too or not cuz Kelis retracted the inital allegations behind the divorce filing...probably because of the tape, lol. Maybe Nas said he would get over it and convinced her that things were moving forward and this cat started smashing women on the humble anyway out of bitterness. Who knows.

Phil · 6 months ago

Yo, you are so right man. People in general have to be a little more selective and deliberate in choosing their partners. I'm recently married, and I reflected on the women in my past and tried to imagine for a moment what it would have been like if I had gotten any of them pregnant before things fell apart and felt so damn LUCKY.

Jason "VerSe" Anderson · 6 months ago

I don't know about that screen cap man. Though it could be Kelis, that very much looks like a porn star who goes by the name of Gemini

BlogXilla · 6 months ago

its' possible. I should put alleged. because I haven't seen the actual sex tape but i do trust the source with my life, my blog password and everything else business related so idk.

D · 6 months ago

It is Gemini

ItsAmazin · 6 months ago

Xilla...
u are right to say that we don't know them. did she consent to the tape? i know you mentioned she was drunk...so maybe that impaired her judgment? I'm not taking up for her bcuz the situation is not cool at all, but i feel like you just went off on a tangent about women bcuz of your prior experience. I'm sorry bout that, but this ish happens every day. What I most agree w/ is that we all need to start protecting ourselves. we as ppl are stupid as hell when it comes to sex. i'm tired of seeing sistas on maury talkin bout they slept w/ 9 dudes, and don't know who the baby daddy is. That is TRIFE and disgusting. Same thing for my brothers too! The world is too crazy! Protect yourself ppl!

bria · 6 months ago

PLEASE put 'alleged' cuz I swear that heffa looks more like Eva Pigford (said LOOKS LIKE not it's actually her) than Kelis! Kelis eyes are smaller-the nose is off...that's not her lol

SaTownHoney · 6 months ago

Shole does! I thought she looks JUST like EVA!

JazzoRenee · 6 months ago

You ain't saying nothing but the WORD iLLa on this one...That's some F'ed up ish, if it's true. One a sidenote I'm glad u didn't have kid by ole girl too. LOL

-JazzoRenee

GTFOHWT · 6 months ago

that ain't no damn Kelis...cut it out.
that is def that porn chick.
come on now...i need to see the vid up with kelis in it then i will believe such things.


ps....i love this blog but that ain't no kelis babe

Divine · 6 months ago

Xilla, that does not look like Kelis. Rumor has it they both cheated but who cheated first, not that it matters now.

thejadednyer · 6 months ago

This is the rumor I heard, too, that they were both unfaithful so decided to just stop trying to be married. Smart move- if you ain't ready for monogamy why fake it?

Just too bad there is a baby involved now. That part makes me sad.

ItsAmazin · 6 months ago

i have another question. SHE is filing for divorce right? so HE probably did something too! According to other reports there was verbal abuse and infidelity on his end. i'm jut saying we gotta look at the whole story!

Dionne · 6 months ago

That is so NOT Kelis. Who knows what really happened, it's all speculation. I read somewhere else where "sources," said she got sick of his cheating ways and verbal abuse. So as I said before, pure speculation. In any case it's sad because she's seven months pregnant.

SaTownHoney · 6 months ago

Ya know...I feel like if everyone holds themselves accountable, things will improve 100%! Men need to step up and be leaders and treat womenas well as themselves with respect and love and sistas...oh man...we really need to respect and love ourselves and our brothas and RAISE OUR KIDS! Stop letting BET and every nigga you screwing raise and be around your kids! This means, read to them, take them to church/temple/whatever, give them some values to stand on! We don't even teach kids stuff as simple as manners and how to take pride in themselves. This plus SO much more is missing from the black community and the world in general. If we teach the kids, they can teach their kids therein improving the future generations! But first, we need to start respecting ourselves and valuing ourselves as people! If you don't love yourself, how are you gonna love anyone else. Great post Xilla! I am very passionate about things like this, especially when it comes to black families or families in general!

EbonyLolita · 6 months ago

That isn't Kelis. Plus until I see the sextape she ain't fuck nobody. The only ppl that know the true story are Kelis/Nas/God. Nuff said. Once again, there's a child that will be born into a broken family. MoFo's always think a baby will fix shyt, it doesn't. If u have a 10% problem a baby will turn it into a 50% problem. Shewww good luck to all involved, especially the unborn :(

LexiBlue · 6 months ago

I can't agree whole heartedly with the post bc I don't know the particulars. But those screencaps don't look like Kelis at all.

BlogXilla · 6 months ago

Can y'all please read the whole article? It's clear who did and who did not. This post is not really about them. I say I don't know the particulars of their break up. This is about women putting babies on men. Now I did hear this story. But I heard they are boy whores.

bria · 6 months ago

Well just as females put kids on the m en...bold ass men put their lust child on women too. As for those who are married and the men are forced to pay child support for kids who aren't theirs...THAT'S THE FUC*ED UP COURT SYSTEM!! I'll NEVER understand how men are forced to pay for kids that aren't theirs just bcuz their married. but then again...didn't Guiliani move in (or attempt to move in) his mistress--into his and wife's crib??? so men are just as janky.

there are bad men and bad women...if we start paying attention to these RED flags before (instead of afterwards) indirectly procreating this shit wudn't be an issue.

HeadMistress · 6 months ago

@ "if we start paying attention to these RED flags before (instead of afterwards) indirectly procreating this shit wudn't be an issue."

Well said!

"When people show you who they are, believe them" - Maya Angelou

HeadMistress · 6 months ago

The men who end up in this situation are just as much at fault as the women...

We need to start examining more closely the character of the people we crawl into bed with. People are so thirsty for relationships and/or sex that they overlook the obvious and end up in situations that negatively affect the rest of their lives either with children they never wanted and can't care for, a "co-parent" they didn't want to be inextricably tied to forever or a disease they can't get rid of.

bogart4017 · 6 months ago

I don't know. It seems like an awful lot of people have an awful lot to say about an awful situation they know nothing about.

Sexy N Sassy · 6 months ago

What 1am said is so true thats its deep! SMH

Biggga · 6 months ago

And in most cases of women putting kids on a dude; the real loser is the child. Until women and men start making better decisions on who they decided to start their famlies with; this sad cycle will continue.

Fabs · 6 months ago

That's def. Kelis people, go back and look at a pic of her and check the nostrils! Remember she's laying down so you get the whole bigger view of her nostrils!

V · 6 months ago

Xilla,

Love you blog, but I think your statistics are just a bit off. 3 out of 5 would put it @ damn near 60% of men out there raising other guys kids and not knowing it. The number, according to Men's Health magazine is closer to 3.8%. However this still translates to over 1000000 guys out there providing support for kids that they have no obligation to. The article also goes on to elucidate on the fact that guys have no little to no recourse on the matter (it shows that one guy was forced to pay support by the courts even though it was proven that the child was not his). The URL is too long to post, but Google "Are you raising another man's child?" and it should be the first entry that pops up. Keep up the good work with the thoughtful topics.

HeadMistress · 6 months ago

WOW! WOW! WOW!

I just read that article and OMG!

I still believe people always give you an indication of who they really are but I feel really bad for the men in that article, some of these guys were clearly blindsided. Men and women can both exhibit some abhorrent behavior at times but when it comes to issues and questions of paternity men are clearly at a disadvantage - and it's a lose/lose situation for them cause if they go around demanding paternity tests at birth in an otherwise healthy relationship they risk damaging a relationship where things may be just fine

Qrazy · 6 months ago

awww hayle!
Well, I am speechless when it comes to this split...
but as far as guys not raising their own kids and women laying about the father, that is a whole different ball game.
Yes, they are some effed up people out here, both men and women. The man can ask for a paternity test before signing a birth certificate, so if he signed with out asking then that is on him, also if he chose to sleep with a trifling chick that is also on him.
As far as the women goes, I do not know any sane women out there that would get knocked up on purpose and want to raise a child solo just for a few bucks. Being a mother is not a part time duty, nor is it easy. So, a few bucks is not worth the hard work it is to raise a child solo...

Really? · 6 months ago

That i not Kelis that is a Eva from america's top model. Can we get the real video pics Xilla?

alot2say · 6 months ago

Awww, Poor Nas:(
I dont feel like a woman is necessarily a whore because she cheats on her man, and yes i know its cliche' but niggas do it all the time.Everybody cheats for different reasons.On the flip side, when a child is involved all that man vs. woman shit should go out the door.Alot of women feel like they cant come clean because they dont wanna take a chance on losin this nigga but they took that chance when they cheated.Now its time to be a woman and let the man know of other possibilities and if he is truly a man he will stick around for the results and father his child regardless.

Lani · 6 months ago

That's definately not Kelis. It's a pornstar named Jemini. That tape is on Bangbros.

Kelis is 7 months pregnant and filing for divorce and it's already been confirmend Nas was the cheater. It's funny how your faulting the woman and making Kelis out to be a ho when that's not the case. Anyway, they need to work it out for the sake of the kid though.

Lani · 6 months ago

& the fact that your insinuating that the baby isn't his is fucked up. You don't know Kelis or Nas or their marriage sitation to make those claims. Reporting gossip is one thing, but talking shit about people kids is crossing the line. Then your stats in that article are so far off lol

This is my first time checking this blog, but you posting fake pics and phoney stats isn't the best look homey.

alot2say · 4 months ago

I'm just now checkin this reply from years ago and u obviously didnt comprehend my statement correctly.I was speaking in general,not faulting anyone, just responding to a blog.Shees, who r u her bff or something?

Rayshawn · 2 months ago

thats a nice article.