Insecure ppl will also put up with extra ish for fear of being alone. Does it really matter that he/she is LOOKING at someone else? Come on man..looking....and folks get bust cross their head for that and it is ridiculous. There will always be those smarter, funnier, prettier, more outgoing, abitious.......the list goes on and on.
I can only be the best me I can be..............take it or leave it.................i have spoken.................lol
just_passin_by
· 1 year ago
"The thing with stressing and being insecure is that it takes away your focus, and it drains you and your spirit"
Not only does this kind of behaviour drain the insecure person, it drains the people around him/her as well. It's nervewrecking when someone needs constant validation, attention, reassurance etc. to make them feel better. Hell, everybody has insecurities sometimes, but the people who are so insecure it takes over trheir lifes should really reflect upon themselves and heal themselves before they get involved in a relationship.
PUSSYCATFUN
· 1 year ago
I DON'T MIND IF DUDE CHECKS OUT OTHER WOMEN'S ASSES AS LONG AS IT'S NOT "RECKLESS EYEBALLING" SOMETIMES WHEN I SEE A CHICK WITH AN EXTRA LARGE ASS I EVEN POINT IT OUT TO HIM MYSELF!
THAT'S LIFE...IT'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT...THOSE ARE HIS EYES!
WHEN I HAD A LOT OF "SELFHATE" GOING ON IN MY LIFE I FELT SICK ALL THE TIME.....JUST PLAIN SICK.
THIS WENT ON FOR 2 OR 3 YEARS....UNTIL I FINALLY GOT A GRIP ON MYSELF AND GOT HELP WITH MY SELFESTEEM....BUT, THANK GOD I FINALLY GOT THROUGH THAT LIVING HELL I WAS IN.....IT'S WAS SO HARD I FOUND REFUGE IN A BOTTLE! JUST TO FORGET WHO I WAS IF ONLY FOR A LITTLE WHILE......NOT I'M VERY OUT SPOKEN....OUT GOING....AND DOING MY DAMN THANG...YA DIG! BUT, I'M STILL "WORK IN PROGRESS"
LuvChild
· 1 year ago
@ Just passin ' by "Hell, everybody has insecurities sometimes, but the people who are so insecure it takes over trheir lifes should really reflect upon themselves and heal themselves before they get involved in a relationship."
I know where you're coming from but their are those out their that just get lost in transition and they tend to take the ppl around them with them or the ppl around them stay away from them ... they just do not know how to have that self-reflection
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I can only be the best me I can be..............take it or leave it.................i have spoken.................lol
Not only does this kind of behaviour drain the insecure person, it drains the people around him/her as well.
It's nervewrecking when someone needs constant validation, attention, reassurance etc. to make them feel better.
Hell, everybody has insecurities sometimes, but the people who are so insecure it takes over trheir lifes should really reflect upon themselves and heal themselves before they get involved in a relationship.
THAT'S LIFE...IT'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT...THOSE ARE HIS EYES!
WHEN I HAD A LOT OF "SELFHATE" GOING ON IN MY LIFE I FELT SICK ALL THE TIME.....JUST PLAIN SICK.
THIS WENT ON FOR 2 OR 3 YEARS....UNTIL I FINALLY GOT A GRIP ON MYSELF AND GOT HELP WITH MY SELFESTEEM....BUT, THANK GOD I FINALLY GOT THROUGH THAT LIVING HELL I WAS IN.....IT'S WAS SO HARD I FOUND REFUGE IN A BOTTLE!
JUST TO FORGET WHO I WAS IF ONLY FOR A LITTLE WHILE......NOT I'M VERY OUT SPOKEN....OUT GOING....AND DOING MY DAMN THANG...YA DIG! BUT, I'M STILL "WORK IN PROGRESS"
I know where you're coming from but their are those out their that just get lost in transition and they tend to take the ppl around them with them or the ppl around them stay away from them ... they just do not know how to have that self-reflection