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thebaddest10 — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 01:19:40 -0000

i totally understand being upset with the friend...my cousin fucked my man(she doesn't know that i know) and I'm more upset with her because i thought i could atleast trust family because at the end of the day a man is still a man and weak when it comes too women....but trust and believe I'm planning my revenge and they both will feel my wrath!

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undressingHER — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 12:11:55 -0000

smh. nobody can f*ck your man. If she was able to fuck him, he wasn't committed to you in the first place, making him not YOURS.

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Oohkeekee — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 02:11:16 -0000

But it's different if that woman was ur best friend/close friend
If it was any other woman... i'd attack the guy first cuz he knows better... the ignorant female is not to blame.... but if ur my best friend and u kno more than anyone how i feel about someone... then you're sorry excuse for a person and a waste of oxygen

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Oohkeekee — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 02:09:35 -0000

Wow!
Let's See...

I learned this very lesson the hard way also! You Never... EVER... EVa Eva Eva EVa EVa Eva Let People Get 2 Close... Keep Everything On A Need 2 Kno Basis... It may be hard cuz us females like to "gush" to our so called friends... but what for? as long as you kno the truth then what does anyone else opinion matter? I like having a sense of mysteriousness about my personal business... it keeps the haters wondering.

P.S
I'd Beat that Hoe's Ass

A Nigga Can Be Replaced .... But I Thought U Were My Friend N I Trusted U... Bitch U Gonna Die!

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panamabeauty — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 21:14:06 -0000

i hate when women get mad at the WOMAN ..why?? he was YOUR MAN AND HE SHOULD BE THE ONE TO GET THE ASS WHIPPING DREAMS...

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HeadMistress — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 21:13:05 -0000

Every woman should be a little concerned about the daily contact our SO has with the opposite sex - truth is if your SO is untrustworthy it's more likely that he'll have an affair with a random broad than with one of your friends

As far as girls who are "capable of these things" go - they should never make it to the friends list

Everybody should do what works for them, but not all women are scandalous and treacherous, and I want it all - my man and my friends

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pufflady — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 16:42:05 -0000

I don't think anyone should have to worry about the daily contact that their signifigant other has with different sexes. But if you are aware that girlfriends are capable of these things and you don't take head. It's your fault if you don't protect yourself. (not u, just a broad statement)

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pufflady — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 16:39:12 -0000

Actually I don't have any friends. My husband is my friend and I associate with people. Trust has nothing to do with it. My mother said that it's not a good thing for women to bring their friends around. And I'm gonna listen to moms!

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sincity1 — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 15:30:41 -0000

Men need to stop using that excuse. You can do ANYTHING you set your mind to...including not fukking your girl's bf...

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sincity1 — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 15:21:12 -0000

Whew. Girl you are a true scorpio. we love deep and will do anything for you, but the minute you stab us in the back...that stinger comes out and we NEVER forget. We hate people that are unfaithful, thats the ultimate act of betrayal (although it;s ok for us..sometimes)lol. My inner scorpion would love to say get over it, it's not worth holding on to the baggage and anger. But the "true" me...knows you never will...BTW i'm married and i still don;t take my man around some of my girls.

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HeadMistress — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 13:36:17 -0000

Nevermind the fact that my little handful of friends don't make up a fraction of a fraction of a percent of the women he will come into contact with daily, weekly, monthly etc...

How the hell am I tryna keep ALL women away from him?

There's bitches at his job, bitches at the gym, bitches at the gas station, bitches at the park where he plays ball, bitches at his homeboy's house on fight night, bitches at Walgreens when he goes to buy shaving cream and condoms, bitches on line at Burger King - I mean seriously, that's a lot of damn "keep away" for one chick to handle alone...LMAO

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HeadMistress — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 13:22:08 -0000

@ "" Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned"

I Love IT! So True!!!

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TheDuchess — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 12:59:21 -0000

You must not trust your husband NOR those fake friends you have..

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TheDuchess — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 12:57:04 -0000

What you said Mistress is the BOTTOMLINE!!!

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molotovcoqtiz — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 12:04:06 -0000

You hit the nail on the head Headmisstress, it experience that leads us to recogize the signs in the next situation. I am quite surprised that this has actually happened to a whole lot more of us ladies that I previously thought.

We all need a ride or die chick/friend.
I say life is too short to let hate consume you, I've held a grudge for those, only to see them years later and see that they weren't even worried about me, to quote The Great Buddha: " Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned"

And as far as mother's and Nana's, that's the truth.
A person will always tell you about themselves through their behavior, it's just up to you whether you choose to notice it.

On a side note: It takes two to tango, I couldn't allow him to slide because they're both just as wrong, but situations like these make you appreciate when you do find a sincere person, whether they're a girlfriend or a mate.

The best revenge is to Live well...

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smiley — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 16:40:40 -0000

But what if it was someone that you loved, trusted and were thinking about marrying. When all those emotions are put into play, he wasn't just a random dude, he meant something to you. And not to mention the amount of years and growth you and this friend went through. Now add the betrayal. Dignity and pride are great but that pain is also something that you can't ignore. I think it's less about fighting over a guy and fighting to understand how people could be so fucked up. Imagine yourself in that position. And believe or not, it could happen to ANYONE, no matter how great, pretty, or intelligent. Shit happens and it hurts.

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pufflady — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 16:19:12 -0000

Wow, I appreciate your honesty.

I am married. My mother always told me to never bring woman around my husband. Her past experiences have helped her to guard me.
I would just take it as a lesson learned that no, you cannot trust anyone and never bring your friends around your men.

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true2me — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:18:00 -0000

oh and naw...its the men fault..being all fine with their good sex game and big peen...your girl shouldn't brag about how good his stuff is..otherwise..he wouldnt get stepped to..he shouldn't give the out bomb dickity (TRADEMARKED) ...he needs to be wack in bed that way..none of this would happen

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true2me — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:16:12 -0000

umm why would you go to jail over two VD infected losers..I say dont do shyt..just walk away...

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true2me — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:15:33 -0000

lol..u stooopid lmao

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HeadMistress — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 15:07:13 -0000

People need to be more careful when choosing their friends. I've never been through this nonsense and while it seems like good advice on the surface I reject that whole "don't tell/bring your man around your friends" bullshyt

Who has the time to lead two seperate personal lives?

I hate to generalize and say men can't be trusted but since it's in their "nature" to want to concur random pussy...weeelllll, they can't be trusted :-D

However, If you choose to befriend chicks who stay embroiled in unnecessary drama and/or flirt with and fuck around with their other friends/sisters/cousins/strangers boyfriends, hell if she cheats on her own man, then yeah that chick is quite likely to make a move on yours or fail to resist if he makes a move on her

Check a chick's character before you call her your friend and these situations are easily avoided - this applies to family members too, just cause she's your cousin don't mean the bitch is trustworthy

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HeadMistress — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 14:52:54 -0000

I agree 100%

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nynikki — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 14:34:19 -0000

Thankfully I've never had to deal with this *knock on wood*, but if I ever found myself in this situation both parties would get their walking papers. Both are guilty equally because they crossed the same line together.

I'm lucky to have known my girls for so long; they're like sisters. And most men can tell from watching us interact that his shit would be put on blast with a quickness if he ever tried that mess. Surround yourself with positive women and you won't have to worry about this kind of nonsense.

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Justina Ma — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 13:49:21 -0000

the funny thing is... guys get over stuff like this & hold on to friendships & women hold grudges 4ever N don't tlak to their BFF. like xilla said.... men are weak by nature... how many u know gone pass up sex w/ a new chick that WANTS it from him. hummm

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Kee — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 13:39:19 -0000

CTFU I hate to admit it but you have a point...still doesn't make it excusable on the dude's part either. Friendships with BFF should home more weight though....so sad that we as woman have to ever experience something so hurtful. Recovering from this has been a painful and hurtful journey but I've learned a lot from it. As Alicia Keys's song goes "Lesson Learned"