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How To Give Good Head

Started by BlogXilla · 8 months ago

We declared that a man can’t ask for head, but women everywhere want to know what makes head good. So I’ve come up with a few tips to describe good head. If you want to know how to give good head or just want to know if your head game is up to par then [...] ... Continue reading »

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  • HeadMistress

    8 months ago

    Xilla, I'm fairly new here...have seen more than a few blogs about giving head but never any male opinion on "Bland Jobs" (half blow / half hand)?

    during the viewing of the occasional porno I've observed this "act"

    personally, if I'm going to suck it, it means I really want to, therefore I'm gonna suck the whole thing, not just the head, not just half of it, but I'm not a guy so I can't say it doesn't feel good, but it looks damn annoying tho.....
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  • Navy Wifey

    8 months ago

    one move i do that my husband loves is when i take him all the way in my mouth until his head touches the back of my throat and then contract my throat muscles....i do that when my mouth gets tired.
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  • hmk

    8 months ago

    An important part of giving good head, is to really enjoy giving head. I have spoken to a couple of my male friends and they will tell me that they can't stand a female that just does it because she knows her man wants it. I agree fully on this statement. I 100% LOVE giving head! I consider myself a "headologist." A man can tell if you really enjoy it. Now, just because I say I love it so, doesn't mean everyone is getting the business. I do it for only the special man in life. But he can get whenever he wants it. I enjoy doing the little things to entice him, the taste of his manhood in my mouth, and most importantly the enjoyment and pleasure he gets from it. Ladies, ladies, ladies... please make sure when you giving head, that you are doing it to please your man, not because you feel you have to. It will make all the difference in the world.
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  • Ess

    8 months ago

    Interesting.
    Although some men may disagree on the teeth. IF the female knows what she is doing she will make you tingle with the teeth.

    My tip? There is no better teacher than a porno. For real.
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  • BlogXilla

    8 months ago

    Teeth can be good? Really? Wow I need to check that one out!!
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  • Ess

    8 months ago

    Yes it can be. Maybe you should.
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  • rekah

    8 months ago

    hey xilla it has been a while i see u have not changed at all.....how have u been
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  • BlogXilla

    8 months ago

    Nope nothing has changed!! I'm still trying to supply what the readers want.
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  • Xilla's Bust it Baby

    8 months ago

    The balls are very important and VERY delicate. The complaint that men share about other women is that they man handle the balls.NO NO NO NO NO They are fragile and should be treated as such.

    Now, the sucking should be done one at a time initially. You put the left one in, ever so slowly and gently and as you are coming off of that one slide over to the right one, same practice. *All the while remember to stroke the manmeat, if you have done a great job thus far it will be extremely wet from your saliva* Once you hear his moans then you place both in you mouth, NEVER using your hands. When both are in your mouth you'll feel him palm the back of your head like a basketball.

    Then you go back up get back on the pole, while enjoying the flavor of your partner reach down, cup the sack, gently pull them up to the shaft, as you are going up and down and all around lick on them as you go down..they love it. You can also come off the meat completely and kiss them, sweet and tenderly.

    Yes, the entire package is important and if you really want to know the best way to give head...ask the person that you are giving it to. Some like this some like that, be mindful that everyone is diffferent and you have to listen to your partners desires.
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  • BlogXilla

    8 months ago

    wow!! Thats a great guide on how to lick balls... Imma forward this to my shorty and see if she knows how to do this!! Who are you by the way? I didn't know i had a bust it baby!
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  • Xilla's Bust it Baby

    8 months ago

    You quit me Xilla????????? Lmao
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  • szzy

    8 months ago

    You should be writing how to book on sex not Karrine Steffans
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  • NJoiMe

    8 months ago

    well hello there xilla. i see you haven't stopped giving us good advice. thanks for the tips.

    ps. you're right about keeping it wet, and even a little sloppy wet. ya'll do like that a whole lot ;-)
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  • BlogXilla

    8 months ago

    Yea I love sloppy BJ's love it!!
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  • LOR

    8 months ago

    I have to add to the "twisty move" that you MUST MUST do. You grip the dick and as your going up and down, twist a little concentrating on the under side of the dick with your tongue.
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  • BlogXilla

    8 months ago

    The twisty is the truth!! What kind of reaction do you get whne you do that?
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  • LOR

    8 months ago

    A complete EXPLOSION in my mouth of course:) Toe curlin', Oh SH*T sayin', Studderin', and I, I, I, I, I'm b bbbouuutttt toooo WOW!!!! I love love love it.
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  • Killa

    8 months ago

    Dang...when you write it all out like that it looks like alot of work...lol. You other list was alot shorter.

    Oh...try a small ice cube or altoid in your mouth...it creates an great sensation.
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  • BlogXilla

    8 months ago

    The Altoid is great!! and ICE I love that... I use ice when I eat out from time to time.. have you ever had ice in you during sex?
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  • Killa

    8 months ago

    Yes Sur!!
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  • MissV_shortHair_dontCare

    2 months ago

    also winterfresh, or icebreakers gum.
    the winterfresh will make him shake and shiver like whoa!!!!

    ** and it can benefit the female who doesnt really care for the pre-taste**

    try it out /\ it helps
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  • QueenB.D

    8 months ago

    lol yer LOR its all about the twister!
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  • Shespeakz

    8 months ago

    For the ladies with gag reflex...try wrapping a fruit roll-up around his member and sucking it off gently..its enjoyable to him and tastes good to you.
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  • BlogXilla

    8 months ago

    WOW I never had that either!! ITs a lot of stuff I need to have a lady try on me... I saw a porn though where a chick sucked this dude off with gum in her mouth she had to stop the sex because it got sticky! how does the fruit roll up work with the stickyness?
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  • Xilla's #1 Internet Wifey

    8 months ago

    Hahahaha I can give a pretty good bj w/ gum in my mouth. I did it to this guy a few times (and things never got sticky) It's a totally different world once my mouth takes over.
    He got off big time when I finished sucking his dick swalled his nutt and then popped a bubble w/ my gum and flashed my cute sexy smile. ;)

    Damn..those memories get me going...mmm...
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  • Xilla's #1 Internet Wifey

    8 months ago

    WOW!!! I guess that means I'm good and my head game is up to par !!! ;) U hit the nail right on the head baby (literally) lol.
    I guess that's why I have trophies on display and nick names that suit my fabulous head game! ;)

    U can't put a price tag on amazing head!! ;)
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  • BlogXilla

    8 months ago

    Wow I have a internet wifey and bust it baby!! this is getting better by the moment! I need to experience some of this for real What makes ur head worth a trophy?
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  • Xilla's #1 Internet Wifey

    8 months ago

    lol....wifey supersedes bust it baby lol (all jokes) lol.

    I guess you would have to ask the guys who bought me the trophies, medals and gave the nicknames.

    From my angle, it's a complete pkg. From my lips, to my tongue to the stamina of my jaw to all the wonderful things that happen inside the world of my mouth once it touches the johnson.

    And I LOVE it and the guy feels it. It's not a regular "I'm gonna do it b/c u want it". I'm doing it b/c I LOVE the tast from beginning to end! And when u luv it the way I love it, u can't breathe on a man d*ck w/o him about to nutt.
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  • Mandii Nichole

    8 months ago

    Teeth ~ Can be a major plus if she's careful enough. But I wouldn't trust a novice with that one.
    Lubrication ~ Edible lubes - like Wet & Good Head - come in extra handy.
    Lip Action ~ Instead of the general "open wide" entry, slide the peen into your mouth keeping your lips together & stopping just beneath the head, ease it back out with a smidge of suction and repeat.
    Head & Shaft ~ Kiss the head like you would kiss his lips. The varied sensations of lick, suck, kiss will drive him wild. And ahh, the vein...Flatten your tongue the way you would to lick an ice cream cone and, starting at the base of the peen, slowly but firmly lick your way to the top in one motion. He'll love you for it. (well his peen will, anyway)
    Balls ~ This one varies a lot from man to man. Some don't like it no matter how gentle she is while others actually like it rough. But generally, nice & easy is the way to go. The balls have about the same level of sensitivity as a woman's clit before she is fully aroused, so tread lightly. This is another area where gentle sucks licks & kisses will have him seeing stars.
    Visual & Sound Effects ~ Honeslty, I don't care too much for slurping sounds, but most guys absolutely love them. The vibrations from a long, deep moan will send the peen to a happy place every time. Speaking of good vibes...try placing a mini vibrator at the base of his peen, above the balls. Or take it up a notch and get a vibrating tongue ring (the pierced kind).

    Okay, I'll stop there. This is one of my favorite subjects and I could go on & on =]
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  • DC_REALEST

    8 months ago

    might i add...
    2 HANDS IS GREAT
    BOTH BALLS IN MOUTH
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  • kIM

    8 months ago

    tHANKS FOR THE TIPS! I HAVE MOST OF THEM DOWN BUT SOME WERE KNEW TO ME. ... APPRECINATE YA!
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  • BigSexy

    8 months ago

    I will be using these tips tonight! Thanks.
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  • SINFULLY CHOCOLATE

    8 months ago

    I FIND THAT MOST MEN ENJOY IF A WOMAN IS REALLY INTO GIVING HIM HEAD I THINK THAT TURNS THEM ON THE MOST OR ATLEAST THE ONES I DEAL WITH. BECAUSE U CAN HAVE THE BEST TECHNIQUE IN THE WORLD BUT IF U AIN'T INTO IT, THEN U MIGHT AS WELL NOT DO IT.
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  • Nish

    7 months ago

    Hey, me (nisha) and Thea want to leave a tip on ball sucking...never, ever do it!!!!! LOL
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  • lilmama

    7 months ago

    I enjoy giving head to my man. i had to tell him i wanted him to grab my hair like they do in the flicks. That shit turns me on!!
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  • Deb

    5 months ago

    With ball licking, you should treat it like a kiss. Full lip action and a little tongue is crazy.
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  • krys

    3 months ago

    iI personally like to swivel my head when I do it. I pretend it si one of those rocket pops you know the popcicles. anyhow I can honestly say I have made every guy i have done it to moan so i think there is something to the head swivle.
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