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BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals: How I Got To The BET Awards (Personal Entry)

  • Brothers' Blog · 5 months ago
    Man congrats on your success. It's always great to hear a success story of another brother that had to grind to get to where he is. It's nothing but motivational for what I'm trying to do as well. And I'm sure you're still far from your pennicle so keep up the hard work.
  • BlogXilla · 5 months ago
    Appreciate that my brother. You'll be okay the key to success is to never give up.
  • MarvelousMo · 5 months ago
    Go Xilla!!!
  • BlogXilla · 5 months ago
    Thanks Marvelous!
  • Ttime · 5 months ago
    Great story. I'm sure it inspired someone the same way TI inspired you. I saw your tweet the other day about changing up your blog a bit to cover more than just sex. I think it is a good idea. Don't do anything too drastic, too soon. But, I think you have reached a level of success that can allow you to experiment.
  • BlogXilla · 5 months ago
    Yeah we're not changing the content just the way we frame the content.. you've been riding with me for a minute too... lol since the bossip thing if i remember correctly. It's been a wild ride hasn't it! lol
  • GoogleMeBabe · 5 months ago
    Great blog! I remember when I was following you on myspace. I accidentally ran across your blog, now your doing big things! Thats a good look, congrats! :-)
  • BlogXilla · 5 months ago
    Thanks babes... The myspace days were popping. I wish I still had them here with me.. I remember i would post a blog and it would be 50 comments by the time i pressed publish and then click homepage. Those were the days.. way more people but it's less personal now.
  • Onetta · 5 months ago
    Such an inspiring story! I wish you the best in all your future endeavors!
  • Nixx_01 · 5 months ago
    Congratulations Xilla. This isn't it for you this is merely a milestone. Stay on the grind. :-)
  • ThoneyGsweet · 5 months ago
    this is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO inspiring! my blog ain' really hittin on much, but reading this i'm sooo ready to just grind even harder! cosign the TI part. sometihng about that lil man just feels BIG, like he's sooo focussed and driven.
    i can't wait to see what's next for u....i know this is just the beginning! keep it up and thanks for keepin it REAL. i seriously have been going thru some ill hardships and knowing ur whole story just MAYUN came rite ON TIME!

    p.s. thanks for adding the twitter sign in thing. now i can get back to commenting! wooohooo!
  • Slimcity · 5 months ago
    Whats good Xilla reading this post was truly a blessing to me...And it couldn't have came at a better time then today cause i was at the point of giving up..but reading your story inspired me greatly. I have been following your work for a while now and you always seem to amaze me every single time. continue to do what you do and you are a living testimony at least to me you are....
  • EnolaTRaven · 5 months ago
    Gotta piggy back on this one... I've been a fan of u and Necole B for a while - I want to thank u both for sharing your story of determination, trials and triumph.

    This is confimration - do you, love you, f*** the haters.
  • Bitchiemood · 5 months ago
    awww GO HEAD XILLA!!! lol Very inspirational post! all u hataz better respect his hustle...its now official!
  • goodmusic · 5 months ago
    Man great Inspirational story Xilla, I actually read about Necole's sucess story on her blog and big ups to both of yall.
  • ALMiss · 5 months ago
    Congrats Xilla!! It's so good to hear of a person doing big things to better themselves. Stuff like this motivates me to keep going on. I'm proud of you...keep up the good work! :)
  • DamnNearPerfect · 5 months ago
    I remember those long 45 days... I would check in daily to see if there was a new post or comment on how you were doing lol... It's great to see a black man to stay so dedicated to what he wanted to do. It's hard to find that... Congrats on the success and I can only hope that this time next year the site is 10x bigger than what it is now
  • BlogXilla · 5 months ago
    those were the worst days... lol I was so stressed. Thought about yall daily. I had my friend read my the messages daily.
  • Allin1 · 5 months ago
    Congrats!! I love the blog I usually dont comment but I check your blog everyday :-)
  • Micki B · 5 months ago
    Congratulations! Trust you worked hard for it. :-)
  • bahiyahfromphilly · 5 months ago
    i remeber reading your blog i dont remeber if it was a year ago or has it really been that long. u were asking for donation because you weregoing through alot in your life i even remeber u talking about your cousin it was a blog. you were quite that big and you were trying to support your daughter. i dont remeber what it was titled. and i remeber wanting to help you so bad. but now look at you your blog is so popular and everyone knows you. i have been reading you blog for a long time i never really comment but i just want to sau congradualions and i am very prod of you because you are living proof that if you stick with something even through the bad times things will look up eventually KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND GOOD LUCK IN THE FUTURE.
  • BlogXilla · 5 months ago
    You know i only got one donation for like 50 cent! lol turns out i didn't need it though. I was alright. I got good friends and a GOOD support system. Been a long wild ride.
  • Kbizzle · 5 months ago
    Congrats on your success, Xilla! It is so inspiring to see someone who came up from all types of seemingly impossible circumstances and do great things. I wish you the best.
  • Sabiri · 5 months ago
    Thats an incredible story blogxilla. All the best. Love your Cinderella series... personal fave!!!
  • Shay Gore · 5 months ago
    I had to comment on this one here. I loved your personal entry. It's quite an inspiration to see how far you've gone in a year. You determination is remarkable and I know you'll continue to grow. Your story is a reminder to those who swear that they can't do it, that they CAN as long as they don't give up. You're right by saying you carved your own lane, because I've never seen a site like yours!
    Congratulations on where you've made it to, and many blessings on where you're going to go!
  • DJ Genius · 5 months ago
    Crongrats Xilla. You're hard work has payed off.

    Keep doing your thing.
  • Sexyma078 · 5 months ago
    did you and your cousin patch things up...i hope so life is too short....and he is probaly PROUND HIMSELF
  • Dominique Laws · 5 months ago
    that's awesome, great achievement! I'm so glad i found the site thru a friend tweeting bout it
  • iolastar · 5 months ago
    Wow, wow, wow what a difference a year makes. I soooo needed this message like right now. I told myself that I have to grind this year because I want my life to be significantly different next year. I was recently laid off from my job, but I am so blessed that I am. I am putting my new found time into my new young adult novel and other creative projects. I even blog a little more than before!

    Thanks for sharing your personal story, you never know who's listening.