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Sexy N Sassy — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 14:40:42 -0000

I dont know why these hoes do that. I mean like they have alot of nerve to even go there. Usually hoes only get recognize for being hoes. Thats something you could never live down, in my book. So I dont see why, when they get with a particular man they get this way. But no matter how much they try to change,they will always have hoe tendacies. Thats why you cant make a hoe into a house wife.

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HeadMistress — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 12:29:42 -0000

@ "That is a statement of personal opinion just as me saying i was rejecting a societal role."

Yeah, I am a person and that is my opinion... :-D

@ " For you to agree that a double standard does exist but then say what YOU dont have the desire to be sound judgmental to me."

Being judgmental within reason is not a bad thing.

Based on my upbringing, being a ho is not respectable or appealing (in a man or a woman) to me and I choose not to be that and YES, that is a form of judgment...its called personal judgment

Am I on a crusade to persecute those that choose to be hoes...NO, hence, my personal judgment is "within reason" as it only affects me and how I live my life

Every woman alive has faced some form of double standard, I'm sure most have chosen one DS or another to challenge and assert ourselves against...again personal choice and judgment dictates which DS we choose to conquer...

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hazysin — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 11:27:40 -0000

@ headmistress...There is a double standard but as far as I'm concerned it can stay forever because I have no desire to be like any man that sleeps around with random chicks..

That is a statement of personal opinion just as me saying i was rejecting a societal role. For you to agree that a double standard does exist but then say what YOU dont have the desire to be sound judgmental to me.

Being the only female with 10 brothers (including a twin) exposed me to that same double standard on a constant and daily basis until i was at a point where i could assert myself......

Oh but i can completely agree with you about the change thing though

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The Undresser — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 10:55:16 -0000

lmao. If this entry isnt the truth, I don't know what is. Although, I'm never the "right guy"......I'm the dude that beat it up before u got to her......thankfully.

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sunshyne84 — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 00:28:45 -0000

exactly

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sunshyne84 — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 00:26:41 -0000

at the end of the day everybody just wants to be loved

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onewayweezy — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 23:34:54 -0000

FIRST OF ALL (yes i needed to caps it) you shouldn't be DATING a jumpoff in the first place, well at least not knowingly.

I too hate when chicks try to get brand new when they link up with a dude outside the circle she was just being passed around in. Most times the dude already knows you're a jump so its all the more stressful that shes tryna act like a virgin when you get the one-on-one

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Ness — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 19:37:52 -0000

Oh okay....lol....

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IamJavone — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 19:27:11 -0000

You know what is so ironic about this. I have become the opposite. Now that I have found someone, I have become a stone cold freak. I got the Kama Sutra in the drawer by the bed, and once a week we must perfect a position. We got the video camera right by the bed. (I got the remote).
He is like, looking at me just walking down the street I won't so much as go near a penis. But behind closed doors, I become Vanessa Del Rio reincarnate.
He told me when we first met his fellas thought "she look like the 'don't mess my hair up, and get that thang away from me'" type. When it has become the complete opposite.

Be careful what you wish for.....lmao!!!

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mkrob.com — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 17:50:01 -0000

Ludacris says it best...

Cant turn a ho into a housewife
Hos dont act right
Theres hos on a mission, an hoes on a crackpipe
Hey ho how ya doin, where ya been?
Prolly doin ho stuff cuz there you ho again
Its a ho wide world, that we livin in
feline, feminine, fantastical, women
Not all, just some
You ho who you are
Theres hoes in tha room, theres hoes in tha car
theres hoes on stage, theres hoes by tha bar
hos by near, an hos by far
Ho! (But can i getta ride?!)
NO! (Cmon, nigga why?!)
Cuz youz a HO!!!

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TRJ — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 17:46:59 -0000

but you only got one life why not have fun before its too late and you married with 2 kids. i know for me all the sex im having right now is just so if and when i get married my wife could have the best stress reliever, so why she it be different for a woman to do the same?

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TRJ — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 17:41:57 -0000

but the thing about that is when the opposite sex tells you about their "adventurous" sex life it makes you wonder if this relationship yall are about to try going to fall down because either this is how she gets it in or whats going to happen when she see the next fly young dude? if a girl or a dude had sex wit A, B, and C when he or she gets to D what do you think they are going to do better yet how would you feel if you are D. nevertheless if the feelings are true between the two people then just as you said the past sex life would have to be accepted. i guess its all about both parties and their feelings.

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TRJ — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 17:30:27 -0000

i have met a couple females like this. when i ask the same question to them (in better choice of words of course) i get answers like "you make me feel special". so i have came to the conclusion that it is us men who make them change their ways. i say this because if the tables are turned and i am the hoe its like i know when i want to just sleep with a female, that means no feelings are involved and everything we do together is only for me i dont care about her feelings and she dont make me feel anything other than when im cumming. however if i run into that one woman who makes me feel like "that nigga" and i aint even touch her yet then ima stop bullsh!tting. another reason is b/c when you have sex for the first couple times you will have some type of feelings for them people but once you make sex a habit it will not have a intimate sensation anymore but when you find that person who gives you that intimate sensation w/o any sex you will have a change of heart

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Isis — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 17:13:11 -0000

LMFAO. . . .She is not my friend shes a chick that latched on to me in high school and like a bad memory I can't shake her ass

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Ness — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:55:17 -0000

Maybe the men who try to get with ho's aren't cut out to be with ho's.

It takes a certain type of man I guess.....

Maybe ya'll r in the "nice guys finish last group" therefore the ho's recognize the 'good' in ya'll and decide to fall back on her ho-ish tendancies. Maybe u should start to portray a "ain't sh*t" nucca attitude then she'll continue her ho'ish ways and u'll get the skin s*cked off ur d*ck and she'll do spins and flips on it until u need a 5hr energy drink. :) lol

lol.

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Ness — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:51:38 -0000

Then there was something that made her be that way. Maybe her parents were there for her, but she decided to break free from their chains and their over protecting ways and she became the ultimate slut bunny.

I don't believe that ppl wake up and say...the sun is out, the birds are chirping, I think today is the perfect day for me to start my journey on becoming a ho". Something had to trigger something. Whether she got treated bad by some ain't sh*t dudes, or she just wants to get money and not have to work....it has to start from something.

As 4 ur friend...she's an umpalumpa. How can she get mad b/c someone is calling her what she is especially if she agrees that she's ho....lol... (singing ludacris's......u a hoooooooooo...ho...u a hoooooo....hooo ....u a hoooo...hooo...I said that u a hooo) lol...that's wht u should tell her to reference lol.

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Isis — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:43:52 -0000

I'm just trying to understand. My goddaughters mother is like that its confusing yet sad. After spending so much time "ho hopping" (her term not mine) she is trying to settle down but her past follows her. No matter how hard she tries to change she was what she was and when i asked her she had no logical reason or any reason at all for why she did what she did. All she says is I did it. her name rings bells around the city and some of the dudes have never seen her face just know her name and story.

You can't cummunicate with a person who doesnt know why they did what they did.

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BlogXilla — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:41:40 -0000

I think it's more or less that We have to wait, it's possible to build a relationship with sex in a timely fashion... I think women put a time frame on when to give it up. You can go along and do what you do and still not sleep around... This whole spiritual vow of celibacy and other things is crazy. Plus men are selfish and stingy... so we want what we want when we want it...

at the end of the day as long as the women is being true to her self it's not an issue.

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BlogXilla — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:38:05 -0000

I don't think it's about being a ho that's not the problem the problem is why you wanna stop being a ho!! We got with her because she was a ho...

and yes most women who are looose were molested or raped or just had a terrible relationship with their fathers... or they get it from they momma...

it runs in the blood.

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Ness — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:37:15 -0000

I am Ness and I agree and approve this message! :)

And I agree with " I have no desire to be like any man that sleeps around with random chicks...better yet that man is just as undesireable to a decent woman as a ho is to a decent man"

But like u said. Change has to come from within & it has to be done for the right reasons 4 it to be effective.

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BlogXilla — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:36:13 -0000

Maybe it's just me but i don't want an amateur I want a woman whose been around the block a few times...

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BlogXilla — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:28:38 -0000

I don't think it's about acting ho-ish I think it's more men wanting sex... and a man most likely isn't going to wife someone who's been around the block in the first place... but that doesn't mean we will treat them like shit either. We will still be nice to them still take them out and hell we might even get them a thing or two... we just want to have sex and i'll wait for a good women, but i'll be damn if i wait for a hoe.. makes no sense.

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BlogXilla — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:26:17 -0000

Yeah man I feel you, happens to me too. I think it's just the in thing for women to say... because i hear it all too often...

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BlogXilla — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:24:40 -0000

Yep you sure do, a hoe can be spotted a mile away... or not even a hoe just a loose chick... GOT EM!!!

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Shine — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:21:30 -0000

@ isis i gotta disagree with ty. and agree that communication is key. yu really dont know how many people's mothers, and great wives that you amy look up to was smuts back in the day. especially with all that free love in the 60's. that wasn't just white folks, it was black folks too.

now with that said. you have to know who you're dealing with and offer more to the equation. like real talk get cerebal with it. why were u a ho. were u the type who just loved tasting the football teams cum, cus I mean that's the pill no one is trying to swallow.

but its all relative. how many is too many, which is another post that was written. some women say 10 is too many. you better believe alot of women have over 10 partners and they are married, in love and great wives. some dudes might say she was a ho. others might say its poor judgment.

but the communication is needed, it makes u understand the person and the situations rather than just the acts