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Re: Head On The First Date

TheLovelyMsRedz — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 16:21:36 -0000

THANK YOU!

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TheLovelyMsRedz — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 16:19:29 -0000

NEVER ever???? :-(

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Xan — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 16:05:04 -0000

(what she said!)

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Xan — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 16:02:15 -0000

personally, i believe female-to-male/male-to-male head should not be done period while just "dating"--it really can wait until you become someone's actual & exclusive girl-or-boyfriend. its way too easy to swallow a cocktail of STD's from someone!

i don't really face this problem cause i'm pomosexual with a primary focus on women, but the last time I was presented with the opportunity to suck a nigga's dick i went ahead and did it cause 1: i actually thought i liked this dude, 2: you shoulda seen his dick it was pretty, and 3: i got broke the hell off (so well, in fact, that i recall repeating the aforemention dicksucking).

now as far as female-to-female/male-to-female head, its generally safer to go down on a woman. especially if you're a man, you should feel very secure in knowing you'll be more than safe while eating out a woman--in order to catch a disease from her via cunnilingus, she'd have to actually have an orgasm. men are not very good at all when it comes to male-to-female head for some reason...

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Traycee — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 15:57:34 -0000

Absolutely positively NO WAY IN HELL am I giving head on the 1st date - unless I know the dude & am feeling him enough to give the good stuff! LOL Head 1st time we have sex - NAH........unless I already know the dude - which I have done ONCE in the past. :-D

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ms. thicke — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 18:30:41 -0000

hell yeah! i'll suck it on the first day espacially if he fine as hell. we all grown up so i like doing grown up things.

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SugarTits — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 19:56:15 -0000

Send it 2 me. Cagedbeauty07@yahoo.com. I like 2 laugh HeadMistress.

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Tjloco — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 00:09:38 -0000

wow head on the first date!! thats some serious debate you abt to start with you and your date and maybe some serios reaction/violence!! I think it depends on the TYPE of gal u working with on first date, You might wanna wife her and then she def saying no or you think she gonna say no and dont even attempt and there might be someone you be trying to get on a date and she finally gives everything up!!viola JACKPOT!!!!!

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Sasha — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 21:45:00 -0000

Even as a female, I agree so hard on this issue. Oral sex is the most control you'll ever have over a man. Although I don't really enjoy getting head, giving head is a must for every sexcapade. I love sucking dick, as long as he can fuck me good; 'cause if he can't another man gonna fuck me good, and I'm gonna suck him better. ;)

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BooKoo — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 17:37:22 -0000

I know I'm maaad late, but what if dude is famous?????? I know plenty of people who would.

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HeadMistress — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 19:33:30 -0000

LOL! and Thank You Too!!!

I wish I could insert a pic, cause I have the perfect one to go with that "hell to the naw" LMAO!

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HeadMistress — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 19:31:53 -0000

Thank You!!!

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SweeetPea — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 16:21:50 -0000

Head on the first date...Hell naw! Never ever sex on the first date and that has to come first. If dude's worth it he'll wait.. Firstly on being *Exclusive-my man..... Secondly me being comfortable enough to place my mouth on his member.... if THEN.....all the head you want...I love pleasing my man once it's reciprociated.

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Lorilea — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 15:02:12 -0000

The world would be a much happier place if woman and men would just embrace the head and love the head. Head is a very wonderful thing, Exp. if you are good at it. And me personally know when I meet someone, "Oh I will be slobbin' on that knob". And 9 times out of 10 I am still giving and recieving head from these men now 10 years later. Head on the first date could be a very good thing,. He knows he wants it and you know you do to...Point blank Just be real about it.

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Kee — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 12:26:21 -0000

Trippin because I'm just noticing the cum on chica's leg (LOL)

I love giving head an being a grown woman now (I didn't always enjoy) if I want to then I will and have no feelings of "awe damn I shouldn't have done that" to be honest I get just as much outta of it as my dude does whose getting it.

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SugarTits — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 10:56:26 -0000

NO!

ON backwards!

In the words of our most beloved crack head...............
HELL TO THA NAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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SugarTits — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 10:53:31 -0000

FASHO......That's why you gotta keep your condoms near your bible as you say.

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KD — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 10:02:40 -0000

Truthfully I probably would mash on the first night. I bang with that plastic so atleast I'm secure....but as far as me giving or receiving on day 1 probably not her character would already be blemished and like shorty said below oral sex is almost NEVER used in conjunction with protection so the better nigga in me would pass. BUT.......she can lick that plastic though if she really on it but who does that? Really who does that?

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IamJavone — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 07:11:31 -0000

I am sorry. Your not getting head until I have met a brother, uncle, hell the best friends. Pulling out the big guns too fast in a relationship is overkill. Nor is he getting any sex.

Hell it took me until 25 to even give it in the first place. But once I start, I'm going to be a problem. I told 'him' you opened up Pandora's box. Now meet me in Grand Central cause its on!!

Now, I might know within the first 30 seconds if I would, but to get it is going to take more that a $4 metrocard and a blow-pop.

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TheSweetestThang — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 02:15:51 -0000

Heavens NO....
Nope..Nada..

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Chachamala — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 02:01:52 -0000

I’m all about prolonging the mystery as long as I can. It might be killing me, but ain’t nothing going down on the first date… or at least not a whole lot, LOL…. As for the first time we smash, I’m still waiting on head… for both of us. It gives me something to think about, to wonder about, to look forward to. When I get around to head, both giving and receiving, that ish will be explosive. He should definitely be looking forward to it, because I LOVE to do it, and I am AMAZING at it, especially when I’ve made myself wait…it will definitely change his life… and that’s me being modest. Isn’t that worth waiting for? All that aside, I’m also going to wait until I’m sure that he respects me enough to not talk shit about me. I don’t wanna go to jail, nah’m sayin’?

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DomiMami — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 23:31:12 -0000

I personally have not sucked on the first date...but then again, I never gave head til after my first year of college. I cant say I knock anyone that does give head on the first date. Hell I'll let a mooma fooka lick the velvet stark off - on the first night. He wouldnt necessarily get a call back, but i wouldnt stop him, keepin it real. (Unless he was a yuckmouth)

I pose a question. What is the difference with breaking some off on the first night vs. waiting a while?
Chances are your not using protection so if he/she is tainted, you still would be chewing on nastiness...
What yall think about that?

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xilla — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 21:50:18 -0000

This is a sex blog LOL for sexual intellectuals LOL more sexuals than intellectuals I guess LOL

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Chadillac — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 21:43:35 -0000

Definitely wait til im more comfy. If i have more bground info on her....she aint been with anyone in a while (or at all) and no red flags raise then id do it.

Only 2 out of x amount of girls ive hooked up with have ever got head. One is my g/f (aka wifey and she gets it on the regular) the other was some jump off. Yeah she orgasm'd and yeah she was hooked, but i didnt give her head anymore after that the way she was reacting to it turned me off lol

Anyways as far as ME getting head......im EXTREMELY unsure about it unless..as stated above...i just know the chick

lol @ the Obama post squeezing out 11 comments but a sex related topic flourishes with 57. Sigh....

Re: Head On The First Date

Rob — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 20:58:41 -0000

And you aint getting no dates! HA!