Wow first date....head game....absolutely not....these broads be having the MUMPS down there and front like they don't know it way too much these days. Absolutely not.....you have to be a thirstmonster to go live like that the FIRST date.
Love-lee Ladie
· 11 months ago
MUMPS? what type of chick you be messing with? So question would you like for a chick to suck you off?
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
nah i feel you on this one. But would you smash on the first night?
KD
· 11 months ago
Truthfully I probably would mash on the first night. I bang with that plastic so atleast I'm secure....but as far as me giving or receiving on day 1 probably not her character would already be blemished and like shorty said below oral sex is almost NEVER used in conjunction with protection so the better nigga in me would pass. BUT.......she can lick that plastic though if she really on it but who does that? Really who does that?
Love-lee Ladie
· 11 months ago
If I like a dude i'm sucking him off first night. I'm sorry but I like it. I remember one time I was talking to this guy for a long time, but we could never hook up and when we finally did he was looking so good i decided to i was going to give him some. I wasn't going to make the first move so when he was parking his car i started lickin my lips and he leaned in and kiss me and we got it popping right in his car. I gave him head in the car invited him and and got it poppin!
great post xilla
Sugahflower
· 11 months ago
Yeah I'm with KD I dont know about first date but the first time we have sex maybe i'll go down on my man.
Love-lee Ladie
· 11 months ago
wait what is that on her leg?
Sugahflower
· 11 months ago
yeah I saw that too lol hey Xilla where do you find these pictures for real!! lol
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
LMAO that's man milk!! lol
Ness
· 11 months ago
But tht's a puma ad?...lol They keep it gangta lol
SweetT
· 11 months ago
WOW!! I see you still haven't changed Xilla, I been away for a minute but i'm back and this is what i'm greeted to anyway here we go. I have giving a dude head on the first date before but it really was a spur of the moment thing. I been talking to him for a while before we actually went out so i figured i might as well.
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
Sup Sweet T I missed you, where you been? It got dry without you
UMUSTNOTNO
· 11 months ago
FUCK THAT SHIT I AINT SUCKING SHIT PERIOD!
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
**side eye**
Belly
· 11 months ago
I got the same expression X
Mzhollywood
· 11 months ago
Smch
Rob
· 11 months ago
And you aint getting no dates! HA!
TheLovelyMsRedz
· 8 months ago
NEVER ever???? :-(
CallmeCrazy
· 11 months ago
I wont give a guy head but i'll let him eat me out lmao
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
See that's just stingy... but hey I'll let a chick suck me off but I won't eat her out.
Mzhollywood
· 11 months ago
I feel ya. I won't suck you off on the first date but you can eat me out. I might eventually lick you like a lollipop.
jsherylle
· 11 months ago
I don't date, I wish I could answer this but ummm, yeah no one takes me anywhere -
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
ynot? lol
thejadednyer
· 11 months ago
I'm not comfortable giving head on the first date. Not that I haven't slipped up once or twice (damn you, Jack Daniels. DAMN YOU!) but it's not my usual M.O.
but if we continue to see each other and it's going well many bjs are definitely in my dude's future :D
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
see that's what i'm saying... it's not a practice you do all the time... but if it's done go hard or go home.
Xan
· 8 months ago
(what she said!)
Aura
· 11 months ago
Y'all better watch out with that head on the first date stuff. Too much craziness for people to be so reckless.
Ness
· 11 months ago
Tht's wht I'm trying to say 4 real!
Like seriously!
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
yeah I can understand first date... but on the rare ocasion it goes down on the first date so it's okay to fuck and not suck? I feel like if you're going to go there then go all the way. And the first time you decide to have sex as well... especially the first time you all have sex.
Aura
· 11 months ago
Sorry to bust your bubble, but Oral sex a lot of times is unprotected. STDs anyone???
Deeny
· 11 months ago
That's what I'm sayin!!!
Mzhollywood
· 11 months ago
exactly
TheLovelyMsRedz
· 8 months ago
THANK YOU!
Ness
· 11 months ago
Well...well...well...very interesting!
I think the first few lines of ur post is very interesting b/c I feel that if the chemistry is right & I'm feeling u then there's potential for me to sleep w/ a guy. But there's no way I'm going down on him the first night. Wht's the point ( just protected my vagina from him but I'm gonna expose my mouth to him)....ummm nah!...lol.
It's not happening. I need to know a little bit more info b4 I let someone in that "door" ;)
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
LMAO!!! it's the truth though isn't it?
Ness
· 11 months ago
It sure is!
b/c truth be told....guys aren't quick to go down on us so w/o knwing more info so why do females have the make the exception lol
Deeny
· 11 months ago
Sooooo true. Granted, a woman's cooch is more of an "internal" oragn a opposed to mans' external organ, so the hesitation is understood with all of our fluids and all.......but hey, the dick is not that welcoming either! lol it's ugly and pre-cum doesn't taste like pinapple juice neither! lol
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
Because I want it!! lol
Deeny
· 11 months ago
smh......ur the worst lol Shit, I can't front if i was a man i would want it too. lol
Ness
· 11 months ago
Some johnsons are pretty :) but at the same time...I have to factor in how many other chicks put their nasty ass mouths on his d*ck or how many times he f*cked raw b/c now I'm f*kn them raw too smch lol
Belly
· 11 months ago
Xilla, u be goin in on those pics.. Anywho, to answer ur question.. It depends on how I'm feelin and how bad I want her and how good she and her ***** lookin that night.
Breezy
· 11 months ago
LOL @ KD..that's too funny.. depending on the dude and if the situation is right..I'll licky licky but not sticky sticky. For some reason head seems to be the better option than going all the way..
Deeny
· 11 months ago
I know it sounds predictable but IT DEPENDS! lol I'm not knocking sex/head on the first date (it can be quite an experience if the two people are CRAZY attracted to eachother and have great conversation) but I think head should wait at least until u know for SURE that you will be seeing this person often/start dating.
One night stands---definately NO!!!....let's be real here people, how many of us "wrap it up" for head? use dental dams?......don't worry, i'll wait (c) Katt Williams......
Exactly......I'm sorry but mouth to genitals=ingestion of bodily fluids=possibility of contracting something (even though medically the chances of a virus/STD surviving in the mouth are very low) is a chance I'd rather take with someone who meant something more to me than a quick nut.....
native
· 11 months ago
I guess I'm on my prude shit and that's hard to believe because I'm not a prude dude. If you suck me off on the first night, who else do you suck off on the first night. I don't mind waiting for some bomb ass head, atleast i know your particular with your shit an not just giving it away!
HeadMistress
· 11 months ago
Exactly!!!
The shyt a guy/girl will do with/to you is the same shyt he/she has done with someone else or several someone elses...
people don't change their sexual m.o. and none of us are that effin special that one person will risk it all for you, so if they're willin to go raw it's not cause they "trust" you, it's cause they're effin careless as hell with their shyt....if they're willin to suck it/eat it on the first date it's cause they're just likely willing to suck/eat anydamnbody on the first date....IMO
SugarTits
· 11 months ago
FASHO......That's why you gotta keep your condoms near your bible as you say.
HeadMistress
· 11 months ago
Uh Uhhhhh, ABSOFUCKINLUTELY NOT!!!
Now I love givin head to the right dude, but you can never be that dude on the first date, even if we've been friends for a long long long time and are just now tryin at a relationship...you may get the p*ssy on the first date but definitely not head, even if I really want to thats an urge I'm gonna have to fight...
I would have to seriously question the good sense of a dude that was quick to eat on the first date or just too fast in general...
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
Really? Now I don't go tasting everybody. I've probably ate out like 15% of the chicks i've been with maybe... but you tellin me you never saw someone who you just said i'd suck the skin off their dck? (Pause no homo) really?
I mean I know chicks who have asked to just suck me off.... and let's say you've been talking to a dude for a month or so before you actually got to go out... it might not happen? Really?
HeadMistress
· 11 months ago
Of course, there are times when the urge/desire to do it is definitely there, first date HELL even at first glance sometimes...LOL, but good GD sense causes you to refrain...
Like Deeny said, who really uses condoms (the kind that matter - LATEX) or dental dams when they are giving head...
A month, nah - sorry, too soon, for head that is, you can get protected p*ssy but not head...
as for "chicks who have asked to just suck me off" - other than to say "Lucky You" idk, I'll withhold judgment on that one
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
See that's what i'm saying you're know you're going to do it... I mean I don't go down too often. I really don't but when I do I do it until my tongue hurts and sometimes that might be first smash... why hold back
HeadMistress
· 11 months ago
Yeah, but why does knowing "that you are going to do it" have to mean that it has to be on the first date?
IgotMyOwn!!
· 11 months ago
I am not with it on the first date! But, maybe the later down the line-playing hard to get. I do have a lot of gay friends who pose as women so guys beware. That maybe a man who posing a woman ready to give head at the drop of a dime
BlogXilla
· 11 months ago
YOu just ruined my desire for head!!! thanks lol
Mzhollywood
· 11 months ago
lol that funny
HeadMistress
· 11 months ago
And let's not forget lil girl from the "When Giving Head Goes Wrong" video post a few weeks ago who had a bunch of dudes callin her a d*ck suckin bytch, cum guzzler and all sorts of other derog names....
Situations like hers can/may very well be a result of "sucking to soon"
black_barbi510
· 11 months ago
The first date? nah I'll pass. I need to feel comfortable with him. Im not putting a time frame in how long I would go before giving head, but it wont be the first night. As much as I love giving it, it just wont be that easy. And I dont want no man eating my pu$$y the first night either. I've had it done before and it made me question who else he does that too especially since he was married.
SaTownHoney
· 11 months ago
It's hard to say cause u never know how you're gonna feel about someone once you get to talking and hanging out, sometimes you can feel extra comfy on a 1st date or u can think you'll be cool with someone only to find out they're a total creep
HappyToBeNappy
· 11 months ago
It all depends on the dude, not how many times we've gone out or had sex. Most of the dudes that have been lucky enough to get me to give head has been the 1st time we had sex. It just depends on how he makes me feel. I don't care if it's date 1 or date 500 - you gotta have the right kind of swag to get me to give head. And if you do. . .you probably can get me to do damn near anything (sexually that is)
SaTownHoney
· 11 months ago
i agree!
Nigella Spice
· 11 months ago
I can honestly say that I may have contemplated on given head on the first date..but i have always been the one about image. So with that said I'm always came onto first with juicy lips on ms.kitt...just happens like that..But hell naw I'm not giving head...1) cause I don't like to be disappointed with a small wang and I would absoulutely hurt your feelings...same goes for getting sum..if your small ..your evicted from the property and charged with trespassing....
songwriterAP
· 11 months ago
For me it depends how i'm feeling bout that person if the connection is there and i feel compelled I'm sure one thing will lead to another...no problems here!
Chadillac
· 11 months ago
Definitely wait til im more comfy. If i have more bground info on her....she aint been with anyone in a while (or at all) and no red flags raise then id do it.
Only 2 out of x amount of girls ive hooked up with have ever got head. One is my g/f (aka wifey and she gets it on the regular) the other was some jump off. Yeah she orgasm'd and yeah she was hooked, but i didnt give her head anymore after that the way she was reacting to it turned me off lol
Anyways as far as ME getting head......im EXTREMELY unsure about it unless..as stated above...i just know the chick
lol @ the Obama post squeezing out 11 comments but a sex related topic flourishes with 57. Sigh....
xilla
· 11 months ago
This is a sex blog LOL for sexual intellectuals LOL more sexuals than intellectuals I guess LOL
Kee
· 11 months ago
Trippin because I'm just noticing the cum on chica's leg (LOL)
I love giving head an being a grown woman now (I didn't always enjoy) if I want to then I will and have no feelings of "awe damn I shouldn't have done that" to be honest I get just as much outta of it as my dude does whose getting it.
DomiMami
· 11 months ago
I personally have not sucked on the first date...but then again, I never gave head til after my first year of college. I cant say I knock anyone that does give head on the first date. Hell I'll let a mooma fooka lick the velvet stark off - on the first night. He wouldnt necessarily get a call back, but i wouldnt stop him, keepin it real. (Unless he was a yuckmouth)
I pose a question. What is the difference with breaking some off on the first night vs. waiting a while? Chances are your not using protection so if he/she is tainted, you still would be chewing on nastiness... What yall think about that?
Chachamala
· 11 months ago
I’m all about prolonging the mystery as long as I can. It might be killing me, but ain’t nothing going down on the first date… or at least not a whole lot, LOL…. As for the first time we smash, I’m still waiting on head… for both of us. It gives me something to think about, to wonder about, to look forward to. When I get around to head, both giving and receiving, that ish will be explosive. He should definitely be looking forward to it, because I LOVE to do it, and I am AMAZING at it, especially when I’ve made myself wait…it will definitely change his life… and that’s me being modest. Isn’t that worth waiting for? All that aside, I’m also going to wait until I’m sure that he respects me enough to not talk shit about me. I don’t wanna go to jail, nah’m sayin’?
TheSweetestThang
· 11 months ago
Heavens NO.... Nope..Nada..
Lady Jei
· 11 months ago
I am sorry. Your not getting head until I have met a brother, uncle, hell the best friends. Pulling out the big guns too fast in a relationship is overkill. Nor is he getting any sex.
Hell it took me until 25 to even give it in the first place. But once I start, I'm going to be a problem. I told 'him' you opened up Pandora's box. Now meet me in Grand Central cause its on!!
Now, I might know within the first 30 seconds if I would, but to get it is going to take more that a $4 metrocard and a blow-pop.
HeadMistress
· 11 months ago
Thank You!!!
SugarTits
· 11 months ago
NO!
ON backwards!
In the words of our most beloved crack head............... HELL TO THA NAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HeadMistress
· 11 months ago
LOL! and Thank You Too!!!
I wish I could insert a pic, cause I have the perfect one to go with that "hell to the naw" LMAO!
The world would be a much happier place if woman and men would just embrace the head and love the head. Head is a very wonderful thing, Exp. if you are good at it. And me personally know when I meet someone, "Oh I will be slobbin' on that knob". And 9 times out of 10 I am still giving and recieving head from these men now 10 years later. Head on the first date could be a very good thing,. He knows he wants it and you know you do to...Point blank Just be real about it.
SweeetPea
· 11 months ago
Head on the first date...Hell naw! Never ever sex on the first date and that has to come first. If dude's worth it he'll wait.. Firstly on being *Exclusive-my man..... Secondly me being comfortable enough to place my mouth on his member.... if THEN.....all the head you want...I love pleasing my man once it's reciprociated.
BooKoo
· 11 months ago
I know I'm maaad late, but what if dude is famous?????? I know plenty of people who would.
Sasha
· 11 months ago
Even as a female, I agree so hard on this issue. Oral sex is the most control you'll ever have over a man. Although I don't really enjoy getting head, giving head is a must for every sexcapade. I love sucking dick, as long as he can fuck me good; 'cause if he can't another man gonna fuck me good, and I'm gonna suck him better. ;)
Tjloco
· 11 months ago
wow head on the first date!! thats some serious debate you abt to start with you and your date and maybe some serios reaction/violence!! I think it depends on the TYPE of gal u working with on first date, You might wanna wife her and then she def saying no or you think she gonna say no and dont even attempt and there might be someone you be trying to get on a date and she finally gives everything up!!viola JACKPOT!!!!!
ms. thicke
· 10 months ago
hell yeah! i'll suck it on the first day espacially if he fine as hell. we all grown up so i like doing grown up things.
Traycee
· 8 months ago
Absolutely positively NO WAY IN HELL am I giving head on the 1st date - unless I know the dude & am feeling him enough to give the good stuff! LOL Head 1st time we have sex - NAH........unless I already know the dude - which I have done ONCE in the past. :-D
Xan
· 8 months ago
personally, i believe female-to-male/male-to-male head should not be done period while just "dating"--it really can wait until you become someone's actual & exclusive girl-or-boyfriend. its way too easy to swallow a cocktail of STD's from someone!
i don't really face this problem cause i'm pomosexual with a primary focus on women, but the last time I was presented with the opportunity to suck a nigga's dick i went ahead and did it cause 1: i actually thought i liked this dude, 2: you shoulda seen his dick it was pretty, and 3: i got broke the hell off (so well, in fact, that i recall repeating the aforemention dicksucking).
now as far as female-to-female/male-to-female head, its generally safer to go down on a woman. especially if you're a man, you should feel very secure in knowing you'll be more than safe while eating out a woman--in order to catch a disease from her via cunnilingus, she'd have to actually have an orgasm. men are not very good at all when it comes to male-to-female head for some reason...
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great post xilla
but if we continue to see each other and it's going well many bjs are definitely in my dude's future :D
Like seriously!
I think the first few lines of ur post is very interesting b/c I feel that if the chemistry is right & I'm feeling u then there's potential for me to sleep w/ a guy. But there's no way I'm going down on him the first night. Wht's the point ( just protected my vagina from him but I'm gonna expose my mouth to him)....ummm nah!...lol.
It's not happening. I need to know a little bit more info b4 I let someone in that "door"
;)
b/c truth be told....guys aren't quick to go down on us so w/o knwing more info so why do females have the make the exception lol
depending on the dude and if the situation is right..I'll licky licky but not sticky sticky. For some reason head seems to be the better option than going all the way..
One night stands---definately NO!!!....let's be real here people, how many of us "wrap it up" for head? use dental dams?......don't worry, i'll wait (c) Katt Williams......
Exactly......I'm sorry but mouth to genitals=ingestion of bodily fluids=possibility of contracting something (even though medically the chances of a virus/STD surviving in the mouth are very low) is a chance I'd rather take with someone who meant something more to me than a quick nut.....
The shyt a guy/girl will do with/to you is the same shyt he/she has done with someone else or several someone elses...
people don't change their sexual m.o. and none of us are that effin special that one person will risk it all for you, so if they're willin to go raw it's not cause they "trust" you, it's cause they're effin careless as hell with their shyt....if they're willin to suck it/eat it on the first date it's cause they're just likely willing to suck/eat anydamnbody on the first date....IMO
Now I love givin head to the right dude, but you can never be that dude on the first date, even if we've been friends for a long long long time and are just now tryin at a relationship...you may get the p*ssy on the first date but definitely not head, even if I really want to thats an urge I'm gonna have to fight...
I would have to seriously question the good sense of a dude that was quick to eat on the first date or just too fast in general...
I mean I know chicks who have asked to just suck me off.... and let's say you've been talking to a dude for a month or so before you actually got to go out... it might not happen? Really?
Like Deeny said, who really uses condoms (the kind that matter - LATEX) or dental dams when they are giving head...
A month, nah - sorry, too soon, for head that is, you can get protected p*ssy but not head...
as for "chicks who have asked to just suck me off" - other than to say "Lucky You" idk, I'll withhold judgment on that one
Situations like hers can/may very well be a result of "sucking to soon"
Only 2 out of x amount of girls ive hooked up with have ever got head. One is my g/f (aka wifey and she gets it on the regular) the other was some jump off. Yeah she orgasm'd and yeah she was hooked, but i didnt give her head anymore after that the way she was reacting to it turned me off lol
Anyways as far as ME getting head......im EXTREMELY unsure about it unless..as stated above...i just know the chick
lol @ the Obama post squeezing out 11 comments but a sex related topic flourishes with 57. Sigh....
I love giving head an being a grown woman now (I didn't always enjoy) if I want to then I will and have no feelings of "awe damn I shouldn't have done that" to be honest I get just as much outta of it as my dude does whose getting it.
I pose a question. What is the difference with breaking some off on the first night vs. waiting a while?
Chances are your not using protection so if he/she is tainted, you still would be chewing on nastiness...
What yall think about that?
Nope..Nada..
Hell it took me until 25 to even give it in the first place. But once I start, I'm going to be a problem. I told 'him' you opened up Pandora's box. Now meet me in Grand Central cause its on!!
Now, I might know within the first 30 seconds if I would, but to get it is going to take more that a $4 metrocard and a blow-pop.
ON backwards!
In the words of our most beloved crack head...............
HELL TO THA NAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wish I could insert a pic, cause I have the perfect one to go with that "hell to the naw" LMAO!
i don't really face this problem cause i'm pomosexual with a primary focus on women, but the last time I was presented with the opportunity to suck a nigga's dick i went ahead and did it cause 1: i actually thought i liked this dude, 2: you shoulda seen his dick it was pretty, and 3: i got broke the hell off (so well, in fact, that i recall repeating the aforemention dicksucking).
now as far as female-to-female/male-to-female head, its generally safer to go down on a woman. especially if you're a man, you should feel very secure in knowing you'll be more than safe while eating out a woman--in order to catch a disease from her via cunnilingus, she'd have to actually have an orgasm. men are not very good at all when it comes to male-to-female head for some reason...