I agree! you got the shit down pack! expecially about telling the truth, nothing ends shit faster then a dude lying about something that is so obvious and its not even necessary..
BlogXilla
· 8 months ago
I know right, most time we don't even have to lie but we do... stupid mofos i stopped lying. doesn't make sense and if it don't make sense it dont make dollars
b says...
· 8 months ago
while i wont make a big deal out of the small things in life, it means so much more when my guy does. It should never be forced of guilted into appreciating.
b says...
· 8 months ago
small things - 1st kiss, 3 week anniversary, etc.....
BlogXilla
· 8 months ago
you're right it's up to the guy... if he does this the panties will come off!! lol
SW1
· 8 months ago
Amen to that!
me
· 8 months ago
CHUUUUUUUUCH
kingsmomma
· 8 months ago
I love this list. I agree whole heartedly and That myspace thing is more important than guys think it is and you guys just dismiss it. but yes we like the little things, we crave intimacy just like we crave the peen.
You need to write the sequel to letters to a young brother
BlogXilla
· 8 months ago
what's that?
Lili
· 8 months ago
I believe she's referring to Hill Harper's (actor, Obama's old classmate & friend) book. He has one for young women as well. Great guy.
kingsmomma
· 8 months ago
yep i am. Hill Harper got the mental, you've got the sexual. makes the man complete.
Shannon
· 8 months ago
damn xilla that last one brought a tear to my eye......damn!!!!!!
BlogXilla
· 8 months ago
was it that bad? lol glad i could help out. ready for the weekend shannon?
Breezy
· 8 months ago
lol you are so silly..i loved the sly little jokes in there. but this is a dope list.
(forwarding this to my male friends..)
BlogXilla
· 8 months ago
hahaha I try you know info and then a bit of humor.
Lili
· 8 months ago
Daaaaaaaaamit Xilla.
You need to make a trip to my neck of the woods.
BlogXilla
· 8 months ago
where is your neck of the woods?
Lili
· 8 months ago
lol MD/DC
nspirin
· 8 months ago
on point once again big homie, keep up the good work and i'll keep puttin the name out there
HeadMistress
· 8 months ago
Great List!!!
Love the "let your nuts hang" - I'm such an Alpha, but if he does it the right way, his taking the lead will have me all girly and submissive in no time :-D
lbelle
· 8 months ago
can we get married? I wish men would take this simple stuff seriously!
favorisntfair
· 8 months ago
I am in Heaven with the thought of a man doing all these things for me. This is such an accurate list. Xilla, do you have a brother? lol
NicoleC
· 8 months ago
i want to print this out and give it to every prospective dude to date...so true! why are you the only guy who gets it? just when i thought all hope was lost :)
SaTownHoney
· 8 months ago
mmmm mmmm mmmm
chicityrita
· 8 months ago
Hi everyone! It's my first post and I will like to say keep up the great job Xilla.
I'm thankful for this post because I was feeling unappreciated yesterday:(.
SW1
· 8 months ago
I like this list...
Website Editor
· 8 months ago
what's that ?. Some promotion stuff or what ?
SkyHarris
· 8 months ago
How do you figure all this stuff out???? You have to be like the PERFECT MAN! lol. Anywho, you're right because i am definitely locked down...and its because he does all of the above! Especially the "simple things" clause.
LuxxeKitty
· 8 months ago
"Remember she’s still a girl, no matter how much of an independent woman she claims to be, Girls are mushy, and they like to know that you’re paying attention."
So TRUE!....No matter how terrible the day was, just knowing that you are there listening and paying attention does some things. Good job Xilla. Great list. Accurate.
OooLaLa
· 8 months ago
What a great list. I'll be forwarding the link to many male friends.
Good job, Xilla!
yes
· 8 months ago
that chick on page 2 needs to lose that wig and chick on the last page coulda worn some new shoes
All Comments
You need to write the sequel to letters to a young brother
(forwarding this to my male friends..)
You need to make a trip to my neck of the woods.
keep up the good work and i'll keep puttin the name out there
Love the "let your nuts hang" - I'm such an Alpha, but if he does it the right way, his taking the lead will have me all girly and submissive in no time :-D
I'm thankful for this post because I was feeling unappreciated yesterday:(.
You have to be like the PERFECT MAN! lol.
Anywho, you're right because i am definitely locked down...and its because he does all of the above!
Especially the "simple things" clause.
So TRUE!....No matter how terrible the day was, just knowing that you are there listening and paying attention does some things. Good job Xilla. Great list. Accurate.
Good job, Xilla!