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Re: Do’s & Don’ts Of An Office Romance

tj — Mon, 04 May 2009 14:03:55 -0000

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Re: Do’s & Don’ts Of An Office Romance

nubian — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 00:16:28 -0000

On point. I would not do the office fling thing, but I did do a guy a couple of months after he left the job after working closely with him for 8 years. Funny thing is, we still kicking it, 3 years later. :-)

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SaTownHoney — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 17:52:21 -0000

i can relate!

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SaTownHoney — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 17:51:45 -0000

I've been down this road and it was HOT and great! Just follow the rules an don't look for anything longterm. I think I'm just turned on by screwing at work lol. My husband and I did it on a conference room table the first time we did it and it was amazing!

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bogart4017 — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 14:48:08 -0000

We started as an office romance and have been married 22 yrs. No secrets here. Like the home-girl said--do your damn work. Save the chit-chat for lunch and breaks. All the screwing and necking can wait til after 5. Keep nozey nigras outcha beezwax...they can't do shit but make a good situation bad. Finally keep all titles (manager, craft,etc) in the company building. They don't mean jack past the front door.

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Michelle — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 09:34:55 -0000

I have been banging a co-worker for a couple of weeks and I think that tis is working out fine we sneak and fck when the office is empty. This works for me because he has a woman and I know that he does not want anything more than gooo sex and I am at a point in my life where that works for me. And he is 12yrs older than me and he gives me the business.

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BlogXilla — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 07:57:32 -0000

exactly this nigga coming around here like calling people gov't names out!!!

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IamJavone — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 07:44:10 -0000

Who is Lamar? LOL!

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IamJavone — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 07:42:26 -0000

I got one, how about doing your damn job and never mind the nigga in the next cubicle.

Re: Do’s & Don’ts Of An Office Romance

MsLady.. — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 23:24:57 -0000

Don't believe the Hype!
Date outside the office...!Don't get caught up, just hold your ground and stay focused regardless of the Temptation. Everyone needs some balance and if you are working with your lover and spending time out with your lover it has a tendency to drain the Fuk out of you...We all need to breathe Right?? Agree or Disagree???

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bria — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 18:44:50 -0000

HeadMistress-I couldn't agree with you more. My boy decided to undertake an office romance, he and his girl exchanged words via text-manager asked what's wrong...she showed the text and now he's fighting fucking sexual harrassment. Gf didn't bother to put the conversation in context. It's an mess waiting to happen

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HeadMistress — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 18:28:54 -0000

Don't shyt where you eat

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undressingHER — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 18:25:12 -0000

I've failed to have sex with a girl I worked with........until after I left that job. Now that I work for myself, I guess that probably won't happen. I do know that there is NO shortage of women at a hospital. Maybe I need to become a doctor.

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Jeff J. — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 18:15:30 -0000

I would say make that a covert situation unless yall been goin out for years.. you dont know how corporate america can tear down a relationship. Its unreal

Re: Do’s & Don’ts Of An Office Romance

Muhammad the Harlem Sk8rboi — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 16:38:53 -0000

This is a pretty complete list Lamar. I personally would NEVER (and I sincerely mean NEVER) get involved in a romantic relationship on the job. First of all I hate being in an office all day. I'm still very active, and I need space to spread my wings. That's why I prefer working as a teacher & pharmacy technician. Also, I hate offices because rumors seem to fly quicker in smaller spaces & they have a more severe impact. Romantic involvement with a fellow employee is a no-no in my book simply b/c that romance would affect my work (most likely negatively), and I could never count out the possibility of the romance going wrong. I now have to see this person again & again knowing well that I either despise her or the converse. I'll pass!

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black_barbi510 — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 15:24:58 -0000

I agree dont do it! I had an office romance and of course it didn't work out. It was real awkward afterwards for us and our friends as well. They didn't know who they should talk to or what...it was just a real crazy situation.

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babydoll — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 15:20:16 -0000

oops, i was more on the fling thing, not the relationship thing. Relationship at work-never. I don't wanna see a ninja all day everyday. Still want that fling though!!!

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babydoll — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 15:18:09 -0000

I want to have an office fling pretty bad, but only if i knew he was a temp and would b leaving in a couple months. But it would be cool to have sexual chemistry with a co-worker than get to bizness somewhere.....And I would b the perfect fling, cuz i don't get caught up emotionally and i can hold a secret like no other......ahh, we all can dream can't we?

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thoneygsweet — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 14:14:50 -0000

i AGREE! just don't do an office romance. rarely does it ever end ok and like uall said, the after gossip is annoying and awkward

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BlogXilla — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 13:07:25 -0000

Good one... i hate that and that's one of the big problems of an office romance is after it's ovr its awkward

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texasbelle86 — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 12:56:46 -0000

DONT-be immature and talk sh*t about ur ex-lover to other peeps @ the work place if things dont work out.