I agree w/that advice. You have nothing to lose & something to gain. U cant let the opportunity just slip out of ur hands, he might be the real deal so if your feeling him, and it seems as if the feelings mutual make the first move & ask him out or something. We live in a different day now & not all guys will do things first, so i say go for it & do what you feel is right :)
HeadMistress
· 4 months ago
Good advice Xilla but she needs to change her living situation ASAP!
Never a good idea to keep that kinda info a secret, not a good idea to even be in that situation to begin with, 'cause when (and I do mean WHEN, not if) he finds out he is gonna feel some kinda way about it - probably the same way she would feel if she found out he was livin with his baby mother and claimed there was "no sex".
Even when it's true no one in their right mind would believe it - esp when the person kept it from you
ALMiss
· 4 months ago
Cosign! I don't have to say anything because you said it all!
AGK
· 4 months ago
I'm so drooling over that picture! He looks so damn tasty! LOL Ok, now let me go read the text. Hahaha
Nixx_01
· 4 months ago
I agree with Xilla ask him out. I also agree with HeadMistress get your own place. Your baby daddy doesn't have to be your room mate also... its a little to convient for others to understand and will lead to constant drama. Give yourself space to have your own life without interference.
DaRuler
· 4 months ago
make sure you get room if he ain't got his own spot.
maymajesty
· 4 months ago
Yikes! Move out from your BD's place, or kick him out whichever applies here.
cute_cadem
· 4 months ago
Girl, go for it. This same thing is happening to me as we speak. An old friend found me on FB, and we texted, chatted and talked on the phone. We had never had sex, but when we finally did meet up, it was amazing...Needless to say, I do have a baby-daddy still living with me and he is def going to get the boot as soon as I get back to the crib. But my friend and I make sure we take the time and get up...we will be going on a cruise this Fall, and December will make our "anniversary" for rekindling our flame! Hell, this is what has helped me get my groove back from being in a dead end relationship with baby-daddy for all these years! LOL
Ness
· 3 months ago
I know I'm late lol..hahahahaha
But I agree with u Xilla, and I agree with DaRuler.
If I may be so bold to say, skip the date and got straight to the room. It can work out quite nice. Get a bottle, dim the lights in the hotel room, sit on the bed and play catch up. And you know that it will ultimately lead to the best sexual release ever.
I would prefer that over wasting money on food and drinks and being around a crowd of ppl when I could have him and him only in a room where we can be around one another practically all nite ;)
MisterO1201
· 3 months ago
That is terrible advice!! If you do that you will be setting yourself up to not be appreciated. Unless you are only in it for sex then that is a real dumb move. I understand you haven't had sex in 2 1/2 years but you shouldn't do that.
You act cheap he will treat you like he got you from a flee market. You shouldn't ask him on a date he should ask you! And the fact that you are asking about why not a date tells me you are not looking to be a booty call. why wait 2 1/2 years to be a booty call. And you may not believe this you are setting yourself up to be that.
Guys should hunt you should be the hunted. you can call me old fashion all you want but that is the only way we will appreciate you. Do what this guy tells you if you want and eventually you will regret it. Maybe not immediately but you will see.
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Never a good idea to keep that kinda info a secret, not a good idea to even be in that situation to begin with, 'cause when (and I do mean WHEN, not if) he finds out he is gonna feel some kinda way about it - probably the same way she would feel if she found out he was livin with his baby mother and claimed there was "no sex".
Even when it's true no one in their right mind would believe it - esp when the person kept it from you
He looks so damn tasty! LOL
Ok, now let me go read the text. Hahaha
But I agree with u Xilla, and I agree with DaRuler.
If I may be so bold to say, skip the date and got straight to the room. It can work out quite nice. Get a bottle, dim the lights in the hotel room, sit on the bed and play catch up. And you know that it will ultimately lead to the best sexual release ever.
I would prefer that over wasting money on food and drinks and being around a crowd of ppl when I could have him and him only in a room where we can be around one another practically all nite ;)
You act cheap he will treat you like he got you from a flee market. You shouldn't ask him on a date he should ask you! And the fact that you are asking about why not a date tells me you are not looking to be a booty call. why wait 2 1/2 years to be a booty call. And you may not believe this you are setting yourself up to be that.
Guys should hunt you should be the hunted. you can call me old fashion all you want but that is the only way we will appreciate you. Do what this guy tells you if you want and eventually you will regret it. Maybe not immediately but you will see.