DISQUS

BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals: Dear Lindsay Lohan

  • missvalerie · 3 months ago
    What did she steel? Not that it matters...lol.. An by the way...you shouldnt hate anyone..it feels better to not hate anyone then it does to hate someone...she'll get hers regardless if you waste your feelings hating her or not!
  • nynikki · 3 months ago
    I've hated 2 exes for their callous attitudes during the breakups. One broke up with me on Valentine's Day (found out later he cheated on me that day). I was ready to cut him. It took a while to get past it but I did and was better for it. It helped that he sincerely apologized later and seemed genuinely remorseful (or maybe he just didn't want to get shanked, lol).

    The other broke up with me right before my birthday with a shrug and an f.u. (basically) after almost a yr together. I'm still working on not hating his ass...came *this close* to trekking to his hood to set his car on fire. It's a slow process. ;-)
  • hissweetestdream · 3 months ago
    Your being mad is just giving them what they wanted in some sick way. You not being able to get over it and reacting every time you think about the situation is still you thinking about them. Maybe that's what she wanted. Her actions made her unforgettable.
  • TheDuchess · 3 months ago
    I agree!

    Hate is too strong of a word to use loosely..
  • true2me · 3 months ago
    i forgive too easily I guess. My last bf doesn't. I forgive him for cheating on me for a year and a half..but he stil has not gotten over the fact that I lied about being w another dude while we were broken up *sigh*. He blames me for the reason why he will never trust another woman again...REMEMBER THO..this FOOL cheated on me with another women for a YEAR AND A HALF..but he doesn't trust me cause I lied about what I did while we were broken up.

    I dont stay mad at people very long and am very forgiving. I may not ever get over something which will cause me to leave you alone..but if I run into you..I'll spit on you if you on fire
  • PhoenixNicole · 3 months ago
    I used to hold a grudge against my ex, but, now that I think about it, if the incident had not happened, I wouldn't have met the person I'm with now. After realizing this, I learned not to hold grudges (or at least, not a lot lol) because sometimes, positive things can come from it.
  • rockland · 3 months ago
    I loathed my ex for about two years and even more the second year. She hung out with these gay bois who would constantly tell her that they saw me in the gay club or with a guy. She reamed me out, put me through hell and would even show up at bars where I was to see who I was with. At first I was pissed, but my new girlfriend threatened to cut her, so I just started ignoring it. Come to find out, these cats didnt even know who I was and she ended up haveing to apologize. I don't hate her now, but she can't find a man to save her life. She still calls me and gets jealous when she sees me and wifey out. HA!
  • Quick · 3 months ago
    i used to hate my ex, but i realized it was consuming me and taking up to much of my energy. the best thing to do is to forgive and move on-
  • ALMiss · 3 months ago
    I try my best not to just flat out HATE anyone, because that's a very strong feeling. But I will say there are some people who I just dislike with every bone in my body! I don't like to admit it, but I am one to hold grudges too...especially when you've done something terribly wrong. I will forgive, but I doubt if I could EVER forget!