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Re: Communication Is Key

sunshyne84 — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 01:11:39 -0000

I2I...

Re: Communication Is Key

HeadMistress — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 11:26:15 -0000

Yeah, my faith in the possibility of healthy relationships is being restored, slowly but surely, and by complete strangers no less :-)

None of us are (perfect) but its refreshing to read the thoughts of men who aren't afraid to express themselves...Xilla's situation really made me rethink my whole way of dealing with men/relationships...

The power of positive attitude/thought and having an open mind/heart is amazing, things are changing already

Glad to hear things are goin' well with you and your new friend!

Re: Communication Is Key

Ant_from_Chi — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 21:49:51 -0000

I ain't been nowhere. I just haven't posted anything. I been doing a lot of running around and just been reading the blogs.

I still have hope for relationships because I for one think we need to be in and have relationships and focus on making them as healthy as we can. I ain't even close to perfect, but I hae an idea of who i am and i try to represent that. I've been spending a lot of time with this new lady lately and things have been real nice.

And I am old skool Chi-Town. lol

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HeadMistress — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 20:48:51 -0000

Damn Ant - we've missed you!

Now that you're back and "taken" :-( we're gonna need you to report to the Cloning Center...forthwith!!! LOL

Sugar is right - a dying breed indeed, but you give us hope

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SugarTits — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 17:07:00 -0000

Thats alright. And you are the last of a dying breed. Many a man don't wanna hear that in this day and time. They think because of a couple of conversations and meals it's all G. Not always the case. I can honestly appreciate a man that doesn't jump off in every woman that he deals with. There has got to be a reason to have sex with someone other than to satisfy your carnal desires.

That's the old skool Chi-Town in ya. You know what it is.

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Ant_from_Chi — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 16:56:23 -0000

I know you know. And I hear you about how hard it is out here. Hell i'm out here too. I am a firm believer in how things feel to me and being able to spend time with someone before I sleep with them and get to know how they feel to me in different ways is important to me. You're right. New boo could be somebody special. She sure feels that way. I'm open to it though so it's cool.

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SugarTits — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 16:44:07 -0000

Of course I know that Ant_from_Chi........

I think it's cool that you and your lady friend were able to do share in that way. Lemme tell you folk, it's hard out here. I hafta tell 'em, it takes someone GROWN to sleep with you and not have sex. And when you do inhale the essence of another or look into their soul through their eyes you can feel their vibrations and energy. Maybe your nu nu could be the one..................

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Ant_from_Chi — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 16:27:06 -0000

Yeah it's o.k. but you know it's more to it than that.

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SugarTits — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 16:03:36 -0000

What's wrong with a happy ending?

lmao

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SugarTits — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 16:02:52 -0000

Is it okay if you smell cali kush and Tangueray?

=0P

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Ant_from_Chi — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 12:45:03 -0000

It's funny you touched onthis because I was having a conversation with the woman I have been dating for the last month. We were talking about one night last week when I invited her back to my place after hanging out that night and she thought I was trying to hit it, but all I really wanted to do was be close to her in a quiet place so that I could see what she "felt" like. I needed to touch her and see how she responded to my touch. I needed to smell her and allow her to smell me. I like to do this thing with a woman where we put our noses very close together and breath in the breath that the other exhales. I get a very keen sense of a person doing this. At any rate, she came over and we non verbally and non sexually communicated and it was dope. I am really digging this chick.

Anyway Sexy Ness, good post and happy New Year.