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Re: Can Too Many Lonely Nights Make You Crazy?

Michsi — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 21:14:44 -0000

Yea, I agree, a man goes through my shit, thats an automatic out.

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Michsi — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 21:12:59 -0000

Why the hell did she still fuck him once she felt like something was up? Ladies if you have a gut feeling just say something!!! Shit, and no man is worth going to jail for, you win some you lose some. If you can't trust your man, then there is no point in being with him. I would hate for a man to check my phone, and i don't need to check his, but if we together, and i suspect something imma speak up for myself, and not feel so sort of way, and still fuck him.

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Reptile214 — Mon, 31 Aug 2009 13:54:34 -0000

I show women the door for going through anything of mine, "phone, drawers, papers" those things don't concern you. I don't go through your shit, so don't go through mine.

It's an issue of respect. I respect your privacy, you respect mine. If you can't do that you gotta go.

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TheDuchess — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 21:41:26 -0000

Very Interesting comment

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nynikki — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 15:59:46 -0000

Haha, yeah you'd think. He admitted later that he was seeing other women (he was just neat about it) and I spazzed out on him for lying and then making me feel crazy about it.

Re: Can Too Many Lonely Nights Make You Crazy?

BlogXilla — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 00:20:49 -0000

lol great comment might have even sparked another blog.

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BlogXilla — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 00:19:28 -0000

Not finding anything is a great feeling though.... lol

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BlogXilla — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 00:18:19 -0000

You're so right. When someone wants to check your shit it's probably because they know they got shit in their phone! lol ha! nigga ran into you on the street and checked your phone Ha! You're a bawse though you let him see it himself. wild.

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BlogXilla — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 00:15:54 -0000

yuuup you're right. some times we search for a reason, but once we find something we hold on a bit stronger... i know mad women like that. times where i slipped up and really wasn't into the relationship they found out and held on tighter.... sometimes getting caught can cause a man to clean up his act too.

Re: Can Too Many Lonely Nights Make You Crazy?

BlogXilla — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 00:13:43 -0000

your work week is over? Well thats good. 365 24/7 for me. lol love it though.
glad the weekend is here though.

Re: Can Too Many Lonely Nights Make You Crazy?

molotovcoqtiz — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 23:46:16 -0000

I understand that, but that's not thinking far in advance to me... That's just knowing who I bed... lol If you're showing me suspect signs from that get-go that you may be on some stalker ish or insecurity stuff, I'll cut it or address it right then and there...

Otherwise, you just can't help it if you have that good-good and it drives your SO to want to check up on it...

I'm good sunshine, glad the work-week is over. How about you?

Re: Can Too Many Lonely Nights Make You Crazy?

thejadednyer — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 23:02:01 -0000

I would check (and have checked) because I'm nosy and I need confirmation to back up my suspicions before I just go off on someone. But chances are, if I'm all ready to go through a phone the relationship is already over... I just need a realer reason...

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Sofie23 — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 17:15:17 -0000

This guy I been dating on and off for 3 years who I think Im in love with always goes through my phone. I got dumped plenty of times by my ex everytime he went through my phone...I didnt bother to explain myself. He always came back running to me. Recently I havent seen him in 2 months and he saw me downtown with one of my girlfriends. He didnt have my new number and asked to see my phone so he can save his number and on the spot he checked, rummaged through my text messages, which is so obvious on a blackberry.
I dont check phones because thats not me. The truth comes out. I let him spend the night a couple of days ago and he came to my house drunk as hell. We had ridiculous SEX and it was mind blowing. I took the opportunity of going through his phone, which i never ever intended to do, anyways I found out he got a baby and is in multiple relationships. I didnt care what time it was, I just laughed it off and told him he can leave at 6 in the morning and woke him up.
Who knows, maybe I deserved it because although I kept him around, I didnt see no future with him at all, my feelings grew onto him. My text messages were just a lot of guys greeting me in the morning, begging to take me out and blah blah blah. Not no actual relationship with anybody.
So all in all...guys who check girls text are really insecure because they are doing dirt also

Re: Can Too Many Lonely Nights Make You Crazy?

nynikki — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 17:12:46 -0000

I snooped in a phone once out of sheer frustration. He wasn't my man, but he wanted me to believe I was the only one, but I couldn't shake that feeling ( I know, I know...I was young). He denied seeing other women which made me crazy.

I found nothing - he kept his phone clean. I had no proof, hated myself for snooping and was still stuck with that feeling.

In a word it was pointless. Also pointless: people who get the proof and do nothing with it.

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nicky — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 17:05:36 -0000

sure would

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bknychick86 — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 17:01:19 -0000

i did i really didnt like what i saw...and i still stayed with him since it was still early in the relationship and he told me that they were friends...HA...come to find out that he was messing with a plethora of other females trying to get money from them to support us(we was living together) and brought them to our house while i am at work!!!! i know now to always check the phone if you have that good gut feeling something is wrong....

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true2me — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 15:51:42 -0000

the ex who cheated on me started checking my phone..yes its bitchassness..I WASNT CHEATING ON HIM

Re: Can Too Many Lonely Nights Make You Crazy?

BlogXilla — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 15:41:02 -0000

People don't think that far in advance. lol They think imma find out if this b-word is cheating or not. Its like when kids eat too much candy or adults drink to much one more drink is always great until that hangover the next morning.

oh yeah how are you doing?

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HeadMistress — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 15:07:51 -0000

It’s hilarious that men get mad when you snoop and find proof to support your intuition and you’re ready to leave. But when you’re on your way out the door based solely on your intuition they always wanna know what proof you have that they’ve done wrong and how you just gonna up and end things based on a feeling…

I don’t snoop anymore, I used to when I was very young. I’m glad I did it when I did it because it taught me how to distinguish intuition from insecurity. I snooped when I had strong feelings that something wasn’t right and when the feelings weren’t so strong. It turned out that I was always right in the first case and usually wrong in the latter. Once I learned the difference, I learned to trust my instincts and walk away without needing “proof”

Re: Can Too Many Lonely Nights Make You Crazy?

molotovcoqtiz — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 14:23:02 -0000

I've been guilty of this is the past, as well as having an ex who was notorious for that stuff.

I can't speak for anyone except myself, when I was young and dating in the beginning, I thought it was cute for jealous behavior to be exhibited; "Awww, he loves/wants me that much that he doesn't want to share me" WRONG!

Don't ask/snoop about something that you aren't ready to deal with, it all comes down to trust in the end. If you haven't thoroughly courted & dated the person that you are with then there leaves much to be desired and known. It's all about being comfortable in the skin that you were blessed with and knowing to a degree the person that you are in bed with.

I can honestly say that while there may be things about my SO that I do not know, I've been around and interacted enough to know his mannerisms, I think there are few people who don't act on an intuition that they have, but it's all about the way you go about things.

Yes, lonely nights can make you crazy if you've revolved your life solely around 1 person and if you've put too much trust into someone that you do not know fully. I'm like most of the women on this board, if I have a hunch, I am going to ask flat out, but I don't have time for insecurities in this present time, his nor mines.

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Taiwan Brown — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 14:04:08 -0000

thats what I am saying...!

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Taiwan Brown — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 14:02:56 -0000

lol... can you explain a moms actions...

I've got pics of food "I bet you miss this good cooking" and stupid chain pictures text msgs... and also pictures of family...

I never had a woman look in my phone anyways... thats crazy to me...

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america23185 — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 13:50:48 -0000

AS A FEMALE. I AM DEF NOT CHECKING PHONES. IF YOU DONT TRUST HIM WHY BE WITH HIM. IF YOU HAVE TO CHECK YOUR MATES PHONE THEN OBV YOU DONT TRUST HIM AND YOU SHOULDNT BE WITH HIM. WHY STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP TO ALWAYS FEEL THAT YOU HAVE TO CHECK THERE PHONE.
NOT MY STYLE

Re: Can Too Many Lonely Nights Make You Crazy?

BeautyMarkThis — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 13:50:26 -0000

Question. How do you feel about your mate keeping naked pics of ex's etc on her phone, computer, or even real photographs( they still exist lol). AFTER you two are in a relationship?

I know many people who feel violated and that it should be removed.

Re: Can Too Many Lonely Nights Make You Crazy?

bowtiepimp — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 13:47:14 -0000

I have never looked through anyones phone before and i have had chicks go through mine and i told them they might find something they dont wanna see. But i really think not that many people would admit to looking throught their partners phone and then ending up looking stupid like the guy at that office who keeps hitting the "reply all" button on all his email replies.