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BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals: Blood Is Thicker Then Water

  • marie · 5 months ago
    you got problems posting this shit. incest? seriously?
  • toronto · 4 months ago
    lmao!
  • bogart4017 · 5 months ago
    Plenty of damn attractive women in the family but hell no! The sea is full of fish and my family comes froma very small pond. Thanks anyway.
  • lisa · 5 months ago
    daaaaaaaaamn. i don't have many relatives in my age range so i have never had that dilemma. i also don't date white people so it's safe to assume i am not related to the person i am attracted to. i guess i wouldn't be totally grossed out if it was distant cousins through marriage or adoption (someone else, not me). but those people on maury that are brother/ sister or father/daughter, that shit is revolting. i think socially forbidden mind sets should always be tested, but that shit is wrong. that's why when people have incestuous relationships result that in children, the kids come out retarded (literally). that's god telling you to cut that shit out
  • HeadMistress · 5 months ago
    No....

    No...N/A

    N/A...

    I think if the person is truly NOT a blood relative and you didn't grow up together as family members (like in your case) it's not that big of a deal so it might could work (yes, I said "it might could" LOL) but you have to be willing and able to withstand the constant defense and explanation of your "relationship" if you decide to make it public
  • Oohkeekee · 5 months ago
    It was 4th of july and we were at one of my mom's family member's barbecue... and there were a lot of ppl there and there was this guy and we'll can him [[DERRICK]]... Now [[DERRICK]] was like the sexiest brown complected dude i've ever seen... I was like 13/14 and I was flirting with him hard and I had went to find one of my aunts and ask the name of [[DERRICK]] and she said oh, Sadie baby, that's my son... why don't I introduce ya'll? Needless to say my eyes got big as hell becuase so many thoughts were running thru my mind about what I would do to him... I felt really awkward and dirty about it but at the same time like damn... if we weren't cousin bwoi! bwoi! LOL...
    But nah... I couldn't do it!
  • nynikki · 5 months ago
    That line in my family is deep-and no one crosses it, not even for non-blood "play cousins". And I wouldn't want to cross it - I came up with all my non-blood "cousins"- they're like brothers to me. It would have been really weird since we call the same people auntie and grandma. *shudders*
  • ALMiss · 5 months ago
    I experienced the same thing recently. A few months ago, I met this guy and he had it all!! So, I was talking to my mom one day and he texted me. Since his name is hella unusual, when I said it aloud, my mama bursted out laughing and said we were somewhat related. I was crushed!!! His parents said it was true too, but his dad encouraged him to "get on it!!" lol. We continued to talk and almost had a serious relationship but we broke it off about two months ago.

    If he were a distant BLOOD relative, I'd feel bad but we were/are related by marriage, and aren't even sure of that.
  • DaRuler · 5 months ago
    i have friends who have actually told me of fucking their "marriage cousins"... but til this day they deny that they're any kin. LMAO!
  • Janee · 5 months ago
    in my mind..people who are considered cousins by marriage are no relative of mine...we share no blood...only a common person...soooooo
  • SW1 · 5 months ago
    I don't care how far removed a family member they are... It is not happening. Blood is blood. Even with people i class as family (who are not blood) Just don't go there. But hey each to their own, i don't like to be judged and i try not to judge anyone in return. Hoooohummmmm
  • DaRuler · 5 months ago
    i've been in a situation like this where i was digging this girl until i found out she was my cousin thru marriage. after i found out though i was turned ALL THE WAY off. hmm.. what about in laws? do they count?
  • HeadMistress · 5 months ago
    LMAO @ "turned ALL THE WAY off."

    I think in-laws might be ok depending on the level of "in-lawdom" - I mean I know sisters who married guys who are brothers if that's the level of in-law you're talkin about......now if a wife is gettin it in with her husband's brother or father then, aside from the cheating aspect, that's clearly no bueno :-O
  • ALMiss · 5 months ago
    RIGHT! And it's something about sisters marrying brothers that just doesn't sit right with me, I can't get with that.


    Oh, and what about cousins of cousins??
  • DaRuler · 5 months ago
    yeah i'm wondering about that cousins of cousins too...but i think that's coo...
  • HeadMistress · 5 months ago
    See I think it's kind of cute sisters with brothers the only down side is if one of the couples break up the other couple is literally in the middle and it makes for very uncomfy family gatherings...I'm a clean breaks girl so when I'm done "I'm done" and I don't wanna see your ass at x-mas dinner...LOL

    Cousins of cousins, same thing, and then there's always the risk of the cousin you have in common taking the other cousins side if things go wrong...UGH...too much involved, I'd rather f*ck a stranger :-D
  • DaRuler · 5 months ago
    true... true...
  • DaRuler · 5 months ago
    yeah i was talking about the sister-in-law and the brother-in-law aspect of things...
  • Reptile214 · 5 months ago
    That's a hard line to cross, even with inlaws or cousins by marriage it just doesn't sit right with me. My cousins ex wife has some fine cousins ( that I eye fucked the whole wedding reception) but as far as stepping to I couldn't do it.
  • Dro · 5 months ago
    Thats some sick ass shit... Marvelous you nasty as hell for posting ( no even thinking about this shit).. Can you say incest.. But I cant blame you, you probably dont know any better.
  • Janee · 5 months ago
    I 'd be lying if i said i didnt...they were distant cousins maybe like 4th cousins but they are still blood and that shit is just not right...and my family is too close either it be 1st..2nd...or 6th cousins...we all grew up knowing of each other and such.. and i would never do it..cause the last thing i need is for these old bitties(aunts) to start telling the whole family about so and so child committing incest...and west indian bitties love a story.. my take on this whole this is to not even fucking go there...shit is nasty..
  • 404 · 5 months ago
    NO

    HELL NO

    NOPE

    Family off limits PERIOD.
  • Scatterbrainedt · 5 months ago
    Me personally, Neva eva... ughhh
    But in my family my mothers little brother had a child with my Dad's youngest sister.. And my Uncles married sisters.. I find the whole situation mighty unsettling.. But I try not to think about it.....
  • hazysin · 5 months ago
    im still fucking my "cuzin".

    We have had a physical relationship for about 4 years now. about 2 years ago while i was at my younger brother house, i called him(cuzin) to come pick me up. Because i am adopted i dont deal with my biological family frequently but when cuz walked in the door his jaw dropped, my younger brother is his favorite little cuzin. I dont know how i didnt know since him and baby bro could have been twin if not for a height difference.

    i thought about ending it a few time but then i say fuck i, im not tryna make no babies with him or settle down, hell our relationship is primarily ORAL anyway. When he gets on my nerves or i dont feel like dealing with him i go into this spiel about how wrong we are anyway and "end" it.
    I
  • doug · 5 months ago
    Me and cousin grew up close enough and it always bugged me how when we hung out she would get mad when i spoke to other women. She later told me that she had a crush on me but i thought, our grandmothers grew up together, our mothers grew up together and call themselves sisters. Hell people who grew up with them think they are sisters. So i didn't do it as much as i wanted to with her beautiful self. It still makes family bbq's feel funny and we were in our teens when this happened.
  • N3SSBABY19 · 5 months ago
    N0W WITH MY FAMILY...MY UNCLES WAS WHORING IT AROUND BACK IN THE DAY...WITH PLENTY OF FEMALES
    SO I HAVE HUNDREDS PROBABLY THOUSANDS SHIT MILLIONS OF COUSINS A BITCH DONT EVEN KNOW ABOUT
    LOL
    N0W WEN I WAS IN HIGHSCHOOL IT WAS THIS GIRL I DIDNT REALLY LIKE
    SHE WAS A HOE BASICALLY AND I DIDNT LIKE THAT SHE CHILLED AROUND MY BOYFRIEND AT THE TIME
    COME TO FIND OUT THAT CHICK IS MY COUSIN FRM MY UNCLE
    SO ME AND THE GIRL GOT COOL AFTA SHE TOLD MY MOTHER AND AUNTS THAT I DIDNT LIKE HER...AND SAID SHE WAS A HOE(WHICH SHE WAS BY THE WAY)
    S0 I G0 TO HER BL0CK AND THIS WAS IN THA BRONX AND SHE SAY WAIT THERE'S MY BROTHER UR COUSIN YOU WANNA MEET HIM
    IM LIKE YEA I WANNA MEET MY COUNSIN
    IM THINKIN THIS LIL NIGGA GONNA BE WILD UGLY
    LMAO
    DONT KNOW WHY I WAS THINKIN THAT
    BUT HERE WALK UP THIS TALL 15 YEAR OLD BOY(I WAS 17 AT THA TIME) HALF BLACK AND PR WITH SOME LONG PRETTY HAIR
    AT THAT MOMENT I HATED MY UNCLE FOR EVEN MAKIN THIS NIGGA
    I WANTED HIM BUT I COULDNT CUZ HIS AZZ WAS BLOOD
    LONG STORY I KNOW BUT TO END IT
    ME AND HIM GOT REAL CLOSE...TELL EACH OTHA EVERYTHING GO TO HIS HOUSE AND JUS LAY DOWN AND TALK ABOUT NIGGAS AND BITCHS TOGETHER
    BUT DAMN HOW BACK THEN I WANTED HIS LIL AZZ
    AND IM 19 NOW....NOT SOO LONG AGO
  • Tiffany · 4 months ago
    this happened to my uncle. he met this chick at a club and was feeling her or whatever and then he saw her ass at one of our lil family get togethers and turned out she was his cousin. talk about awkward!
  • kiwi · 4 months ago
    I am going to say this. Chris Tucker is my cousin. I am not joking or lying. We are BLOOD cousin(third gen). I had the hugest crush on him when he was in his Smokey days. I mean big crush and my young self wanted to do some thangs with him...until my dad told me in 10th grade when he went to one of our distant family members funerals that we were related.

    I was so mad because even though I know more than likely we wouldn't cross paths like that...but it was the principle. Dang though I wish we were closer family wise because I am broke though.
  • Nique · 4 months ago
    My cousin's cousin and I are a day apart and when we were about 16 or so whe all spent the Christmas holiday together @ my cousin's father's house...she had a boyfriend and it was just me (kinda fat @ the time) and her male cousin to keep each other company...we always liked each other, so one night we just did it....it was good for teenage sex I guess...lol, after that when we would see each other we'd always smile @ each other....recently we saw each other after years of not talking, we're both 27, it was pretty awkard, but I don't regret sleeping with my cousin's cousin...lol
  • Smith · 4 months ago
    Yea. Slept with my cousin by marriage. Slept with my real cousin for years, (she hates me now though, but i didn't tell you to give it up). Slept with my aunt's best friend's daughter (play cousin). Went to Jamaica for a funeral, and turns out my dad's neice was staring me down until she found out who I was (shit I look just like my pops). I mean, now, I would never do anything like that, but we were young. I just act like it didn't happen.