DISQUS

lord · 3 months ago

As a man it's not always noticeable, i had a friend at work and we would go to lunch quite often. One day i saw a young lady that i wanted to talk to and she asked me why and proceeded to tell me why i shouldn't talk to her. Later she asked why i never came on to her and i told her the rules of being with me i.e no girlfriends just friends with benefits. She agreed but i could tell she wanted more and i was unwilling to give it to her. We are still cool but lunch is usually with someone else and long evil looks from her when i leave and come back.

Michelle Smith · 3 months ago

lmao @ long evil looks....yea thats why they say dont "shit where you sleep"...messing with people in the workplace is a bad idea because when someones feelings get hurt it just gets akward.

ImSoChi · 3 months ago

This is very relatable for me... always the friend never the girlfriend... LOL...

BeautyMarkThis · 3 months ago

I'm always trying to make people the "Friends" lol. I haven't really had that happen to me before or maybe I didn't care to notice.

gl0 · 3 months ago

LOVE THIS!
dammmn, preach! hahaha

Michelle Smith · 3 months ago

I just went through this not too long ago with a really good guy friend of mine whom I heart dearly. We used to talk all the time about all kinds of stuff and we were hanging out one night and he kissed me...talk about AKWARD. I hadn't really paid it any attention until then but I had to explain to him that we were just friends and that I didn't like him in that way. He said it was ok and he understood..but you could tell it wasn't gonna be ok. We barely talk now which makes me wonder if the only reason we were so tight is because he thought it would lead somewhere.

true2me · 3 months ago

some signs are obvious

They never take you anywhere...you only see them at certain times, they never make a pass at you...and of course they say "I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS"

bump all the rest of that

goodmusic · 3 months ago

Man In my younger days I have been put in the friend zone so many times its not even funny... I got so many female friends that are "just friends" I would have to hook them up with my homeboys Lol ...But it was my fault I had to learn how women think. See when they would first see me I can tell they are attracted to me but the problem comes when I wait to long to approach them. Most guys won't wait a couple of days or a week to really say approach them I would wait longer to kinda build a friendship with them and get to know what type of women she is but by that time its too late. Her attraction has died off and she ends up just like # 4 if girl starts telling you about other guys she likes. But Ive learned now I to say what my intentions are early on to create that attraction with women.

PinQD · 3 months ago

got one friend that I've known for years and had sexual contact with once or twice...it's kinda weird that I actually know he's just a friend ( can't even call it "friend-with-benefits" cuz there's not that much benefit ) but when I hear or see him with another ladyfriend of his, I get kinda jealous (?!)
and during periods that I have a boyfriend he'll be kinda against it
I know it's hella confusing, any tips/comments???

ps: I said once that I would like to marry a guy like him lolss