I don't think that you can speak for all women when you say that you don't need a fuck buddy anymore and you are past that. We as mature women know very quickly which guy goes in what category. If I'm holding out with one guy, it's easier for me to do so if I'm fuckin somebody else! My fuck buddies end up being those ones who show me in the beginning that they aren't about shit, so I just fuck em and move on with my life. I know I can call them when I need some D - and I can't sleep with this new guy that I want to make my man...
SaTownHoney
· 9 months ago
I agree with ole boy, the same rules don't apply to everyone. Each couple is different. Me being with certain peeps in my past, things didn't work out, but I've been married for 6 years now and our relationship started out as "kicking it/fuck buddies"! Well, not fuck buddies, but we had sex on our second date and it was a casual no strings attached type of fun relationship. I'm sure had he been someone different, it wouldn't have worked that way. You just have to feel out and judge the vibe from each individual you're dealing with. Don't put all men or all women into a lump category to be judged all the same.
TRJ
· 9 months ago
it is all about how both parties in the situation feel. i dont agree with shawty b/c she is generalizing about how all females feel. if i meet a new girl and we chilling and sex comes up in the conversation off the bucks she should let me know what it is if we just fu(king or we going to be friends or whatever level we trying to take this relationship. it sounds like she saying that in order for a dude to be given the right to have sex he gotta take her out or to the movies or something which is false. all relationships dont start with sex however the relationships that do start with sex is hard to continue w/o sex. i see it as an understanding if a female and i are just having sex why should i take her out? speaking for me 9 times out of ten if we going out and getting to know each other personally then that means we finna get together or something i would not spend money on fu(k buddy simply b/c we re not going to have a good time or we gonna end up have sex which i really didnt have to pay for. cant put a price on the nookie.
yes
· 9 months ago
I think that's what she was tryin to say.
If the dude doesnt want to take you out then 9 times out of 10 that means he aint tryin to date u and just wants to have sex. Since she is not into that then that lets her know that that guy isnt worth dealing with.
No you dont have to take a girl anywhere if u just tryin to get in her panties. I think that's the main misconception a lot of guys have which leads to lyin and false hopes. U just gotta know what to say. You gotta learn what type of chick u dealing with and act accordingly.
HeadMistress
· 9 months ago
Ok, this video is a classic case of a woman NOT LISTENING, and why is she putting her hand over his mouth - why invite him to discuss if you're just gonna cut him off and try to shut him up when he doesn't agree???
And uh, generalize much??? While what she is saying has some truth too it and probably more often than most will admit, I would have to agree with dude, it depends on the people involved, their maturity level and also what they are looking for at that moment in their life
I understand a woman feeling like she is not built for casual sex but how about just relaxing a little on the "relationship hunt" and the "rules" of what he should be doing, have standards - YES - but there are some things you can just let flow and see where it takes you - some of us are so focused on gettin a man or gettin married that we jump straight to planning a wedding and planning a life with a dude before he even finishes introducing himself...
rain
· 9 months ago
I agreed with the girl on most of her points but it was very frustrating to watch. She never let the guy get two words in and when she did she'd cut him off. I already got the female's point of view but never really got to get his full take on things. If she is going to do more of these type of video's she has got to let the other person get their view out there, even if she does not agree. She's right though dude's are not really trying to date women anymore.
ClassyandSassy
· 9 months ago
Read Steve Harvey's book...it puts all of this in perspective
mkrob.com
· 9 months ago
Towards the end of the video the girl said " it's not like I need a man", well if you are one of those chicks who don't "need" a man, then just be by yourself because a dude who hears that from you will just want sex from you anyway because he feels that's all he can do for you because you don't really "need" him anyway!!!
Shai
· 9 months ago
I agree with dude 100 %. Men and women ARE alike and instead of comparing where you're at now (sayin you are past havin a fuck buddy) then put it into perspective. Some women thas all they want in that part of their lives. OR they want that from one dude cus they have no other type of chemistry with them. I dont think its a guy issue or a girl issue. Theres some guys i only want sex from, some guys i only want dates from, and some guys that i can do anything with cause they have my utmost respect.
I dont think theres something wrong with a guy who wants to cut to the chase and get the cooch cus thats what he came for, if he has the leverage to get it more power to him, and if he doesnt call you after sucks to be you. Just like any woman has the right to go out on a date with a dude that she has no interest in just to get a free night or afternoon out of it, free dinner, free movie, (hmm, i wanna peep that new flick but i dont feel like paying, lemme text that clown from the other night back). If you dont call after, sucks to be him.
BUT a grown Man and Woman know when they've met someone that they have a connection with. Then it ain't about spendin and it aint about pussy. Its bout good old fashioned chemistry. Then dick, pussy, and cash and good times flow indiscriminately without anyone feeling like they have to barter.
"J"anonymous
· 8 months ago
Im in a special situation now because im in the military and Im getting ready to go overseas to Japan. So how can I get it poppin if Im not gonna be around long enough to build anything? It has to be #uck buddy for me from here on out. No matter how much we may be kicking it until I leave. Im gonna be gone for two years. Its a odd situation, kind of. Im a "Lets go out" type though, but with situation in mind. It is what it is.
All Comments
If the dude doesnt want to take you out then 9 times out of 10 that means he aint tryin to date u and just wants to have sex. Since she is not into that then that lets her know that that guy isnt worth dealing with.
No you dont have to take a girl anywhere if u just tryin to get in her panties. I think that's the main misconception a lot of guys have which leads to lyin and false hopes. U just gotta know what to say. You gotta learn what type of chick u dealing with and act accordingly.
And uh, generalize much??? While what she is saying has some truth too it and probably more often than most will admit, I would have to agree with dude, it depends on the people involved, their maturity level and also what they are looking for at that moment in their life
I understand a woman feeling like she is not built for casual sex but how about just relaxing a little on the "relationship hunt" and the "rules" of what he should be doing, have standards - YES - but there are some things you can just let flow and see where it takes you - some of us are so focused on gettin a man or gettin married that we jump straight to planning a wedding and planning a life with a dude before he even finishes introducing himself...
I dont think theres something wrong with a guy who wants to cut to the chase and get the cooch cus thats what he came for, if he has the leverage to get it more power to him, and if he doesnt call you after sucks to be you.
Just like any woman has the right to go out on a date with a dude that she has no interest in just to get a free night or afternoon out of it, free dinner, free movie, (hmm, i wanna peep that new flick but i dont feel like paying, lemme text that clown from the other night back). If you dont call after, sucks to be him.
BUT a grown Man and Woman know when they've met someone that they have a connection with. Then it ain't about spendin and it aint about pussy. Its bout good old fashioned chemistry. Then dick, pussy, and cash and good times flow indiscriminately without anyone feeling like they have to barter.