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BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals: Adding Flavor To Vanilla Sex

  • Streetz · 10 months ago
    I feel you on spicing things up, but taping to me is a no-no. I can't be THAT non-chalant about a sex tape of myself getting out and I don't know how a woman would deal! I mean I have taken pctures while having sex and looked at them with her afterwards, only to delete em (in front of her). That had a great effect as well.

    Having sex in wild places is one of the most adreniline pumping, heart pounding experiences you can have. Even if its as simple as in a car outside in a populated area... that rush can definitely add a spark to a dull relationship!

    Good ish Ms!
  • MissSexED · 10 months ago
    Thanks for the comment Streetz!

    I have a question. Does this mean you wont even make a video with your wife?
  • DomiMami · 10 months ago
    Lemme clue yall in:
    YOU DONT REALLY HAVE TO RECORD IT!!!!!
    They have a setting on the camera where you can hook that mickeyfickey up to your TV, and you point the camera at yourselves, and just watch yourselves on the TV. Its some nasty shit, and no one will ever have proof!!
    But damn that. Im married. My husband and I have enough nasty pictures and videos, we got our own damn porn collection. There is something nasty about looking back on those nasty moments like
    "Yeah I AM a nasty mutha fucka, I DID that shit"
    ....Thats Right
  • Ness · 10 months ago
    I agree that keeping things on the 'up & up' in a relationship is very important.

    BUT I'm not doing a tape!...lol..tht's not going down on my watch....Wht we can do is set it up to do a live feed on the tv as we're doing it but nothing records lol.

    I'll do pics also, but they need to be deleted ;)

    I like role playing & did it many times ;) Even had the rough stuff...but it's nothing better than goin hard or going home ;)
  • Buzzy · 10 months ago
    When I was married, we did everything....we made a sex tape, and actually kept it until the divorce, then we both agreed to destroy it....we did the public sex thing, on a college campus (don't ask me why).....and I think I've had more handcuffs than an entire police departement.
    Spicy is good, but it has to be the icing on top of an already solid cake, otherwise......
  • HeadMistress · 10 months ago
    Sex Tape: NO! But I like Ness' idea about the live feed tho', now that I would consider

    Role Play: YES and good example MissSexED - "Sexy Stranger" is my fave!!!

    BDSM: I'll pass, I can be submissve, restraints not needed...
  • Just Saying · 10 months ago
    I feel you on the more you're together the harder you have to try but DEFINETLY NO on the sex tape. There are too many ways that it can end up bad and when that does happen, the question everyone asks is why did .... do it? And honestly the surest way that it does not get exposed is if you don't make one period. I'm also not down for 3way but won't ever say never cuz u know. Besides that im down for trying anything... at least 1x.
  • TheLovelyMsRedz · 10 months ago
    What about if it's YOUR camera so that you can have total custody of the memory card and who can see it?

    Or, if you're worried about your children or cleaning lady finding your memory card, you can always just tape it on YOUR camera, watch it with your lover afterward, then delete it. That way you're in control of the video.

    The benefits by FAR outweigh the risks.
  • Lady Jei · 10 months ago
    I thought this was common sence in relationships. LOL!! I will be making a sex tape, that I will keep in my possession. And we are taking the role play to another level. We are going on vacation as two seperate individuals. I love it.

    When it comes to my sex life I will try just about anything once. He just mentioned going to the Grand Canyon and gettin it poppin in dem mountains. LOL!!!!
  • FanceeFoxx · 10 months ago
    I have never been able to get a man to do a movie with me. I think they're crazy or really trippin b/c they didn't want to do a movie. I can't for the life of me understand why- esp. since I look better than them.

    As a domme - I like to play that role and blindfold him and tie them up.Make him submitt a little bit. Its so much fun to me. But as for really freaky with the domme role - No! I just go for a lil playing around.

    Role play I think its cute. Right now I'm still fixed on playing Lil Kim and Biggie. Althought my guy is not so happy about playing Notouris BIG for me. Thats the problem with relationships too much jealousy just throw it all off.
  • TheLovelyMsRedz · 10 months ago
    I love these ideas. I'm not big on sex in public places. Maybe I'm just too shy.

    But if you really trust your mate, a hot idea is to lock yourself in your office, or bathroom stall in the middle of the day, and take a provocative picture of yourself with your camera phone and MMS it to your loved one while he's at work with a sexy message attached. Best believe it will turn him on, and he'll be thinking about how bad he's gonna tear it up for the rest of the day!

    Sometimes anticipation is the best way to spice up a boring sex life.