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Ness — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 13:08:05 -0000

You are soooo right!!!

I'm a firm believer that when you want something you have to speak it into existence and it will happen. I've done that across the board with things in my life like a career/job, and a place to live.....

That's why ppl have to be careful what they day & what they do b/c it will happen.

I hate nick names upon first meeting someone....lol....if u have a nick name then cool, I'll find out eventually & I might start calling you by it, but until then, if your mama named you Joseph then don't introduce yourself as J-Money....lol.

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Blacksand — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 09:35:24 -0000

Good morning beautiful, I am glad you enjoyed the words of wisdom. The truth is the truth. Have a good day!!

Tranquila (take it easy)

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Blacksand — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 09:30:32 -0000

Thank you Ms. Lili, I appreciate your input. And yes, I am in the DC area..lol! Have a good day! (SMILE)

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DaRuler — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 04:02:04 -0000

chuuch!

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ink — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 02:27:56 -0000

aww

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Haniplease — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:11:32 -0000

AND ANOTHA THANG, i sent you the recipe u asked for, i'm a master at having RELATIONSHIPS , start posting about that more...... ideas: how to keep an inviting home[tips on where to find candles/how to cleanetc], recipes, massage techniques, low-budget lovin, mind sex, great dates, these are corny wacky examples, but i agree with somebody that said they came here for the relationship AND sex advice... maybe you could start a dating service on here? hook up people that want to DATE and not just hump.... ur quite the intelligent one. you'll figure it out.....

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Haniplease — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:06:48 -0000

my number is 708-253-XXXX and i'ma virgo! i stay wesside o' da go!

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Haniplease — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:04:46 -0000

i was afraid to type lmbphao because head mighta called me a childish inbred stoppidlyfroonish something but dayum if the i wish i coulda went dutch thing didn't make me chuckle....

what you said is true. when i slowed down. started doing things on a much more grownup scale things happened. i said, i want a long conversation with a man, i want to speak with congressmen and women and have my whiteboy paint my toes and read corny poetry...i litterally started asking for everything i wanted and things just started changing. while i still wish this could come at the hands of a brotha, i'm excited about the experiences and the turn that my dating life has taken....

p.s. ness u still my babymama fa the whole nickname thing. i HATE when guys go, "my name lil'durrel, gottiboy, poostank, GFo's, etc" nigga what yo mama brand u? i REFUSE to honor the wonky nicknames. its sooooo hs or something! hehehe :p

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Haniplease — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 23:56:36 -0000

^ sums up my sentiments exactly.. go head ebony... you never mention names, but whomever you deal with will most likely have friends that frequent this site and or mention that you run this site...any deso female won't want to be blasted online, and accordingly its easier to just avoid intimate interactions.....the opposite can be assumed also. some ho's might want the fam of having possibly tamed the xilla and so they get into conquer mode..... i'm experiencing the same problem in chi.... most black guys don't do what the whiteboys do eagerly and they know that ill blog about them being whack in detail so they just look or made comments or lust after me.... find somebody unassuming and low'key. it helps if they aren't as into the internet as you are...that way they'll miss whatever story you write/be too busy with their own b-i to focus on what u might "do" to them....

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MsLady.. — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 23:49:36 -0000

There is Something so Incredibly Sexy about this Declaration Xilla. You can't deny the Fact that U get women off with the descriptive words used in these blogs. You Give such a Visual experience... Its so Good in Most cases that it leaves a Girl wondering...Me Wondering. In fact its Not the Player Piece I would be worried about..It would more so Be...Will I be able to Satisfy this Dude-Since he's so Dope and Experienced?? Face it the ManXilla is Intimidating! How would you feel if Roles were reversed...? Would you understand or would this perception follow???

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Ness — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 21:26:27 -0000

Hey now....there are other ppl who commented that felt the same way I did lmao!!!!!

R u saying that u didn't find the ending of the post kinda funny. Not in the sense of laughing at him but laughing at what was said.....lol....

:) I'm glad I can bring u back from being "mia"...lol

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Ness — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 21:23:25 -0000

WOW!!!!!!!!!!

I am soooooooo loving the ending:

Watch your Thoughts, they become words.
Watch your words, they become actions
Watch your actions, they become habits.
Watch your Habits, they become character.
Watch your Character, for it becomes your Destiny

These words hit home.....I copied and pasted it to my computer.

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Ness — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 21:19:43 -0000

Lol....I don't know what made me (LMAO) but sitting at my desk reading the whole story, the ending really made me LMAO literally :)

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Ness — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 21:18:48 -0000

Lol....it just sounded funny......

I didn't mean it to sound mean lol.

But yeah....all he has to do is what you said :)

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chanel — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 20:15:50 -0000

you must be a very confident sexual being and give off a sex vibe. even though i'm sure you don't only talk about sex with women, if things feel very sexual up front we usually think you dont want anything more than sex. And instead of getting it in with a jerk, you might as well get down with someone thats nice. You are probally very attentive and charming also, those traits are basically like pre-foreplay for us. hey i'm single ... you live near boston?... lol i kid i kid... not really ....

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Lili — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 18:15:06 -0000

Hmm...very well stated. You wouldn't happen to be in the DC area, would you? LOL j/p

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taut_7 — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 18:08:52 -0000

dude you are hilarious.

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Kiwi — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 16:27:41 -0000

LMAO at your last comment. Well I know its hard Xilla but yeah if they chicks you are dating know about your blog...they are automatically going to assume things about you...sexually.

Maybe you need to mix your blog more with relationship advice now so chicks wont think your mind is one-track. But the right one will come and appreciate you one day. Xilla are you sure you are approaching and associating yourself with the right females? Lets be real...if you messing with RATS and trash then you have to expect that.

Trust and believe there are so many "single" women...of good quality for you to choose from ( that 10:1 ratio) so the odds are in your favor. Just be geniune with what you do. And try this: Next time you date a girl you are really feeling, even if she knows about your blog, try your damnest not to have sex with her or hit on her sexually...but make it a mental and emotional connection so that she will know that you are more than Xilla the sexual deviant! LOL

Good Luck

-Kiwi

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Blacksand — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 15:33:50 -0000

It's not really that different Ms. Sexy N Sassy. Men want Love just as much as you do we just don't verbalize it that often. This is a good blog Xilla. You should be serious like this more often man. I understand where you are coming from. It is not cool to be used for sex. I didn't like it when it was done to me therefore I don't do that to women. I was never a player. I could've been one but I wanted /want quality not quantity. I always treated the women I was with the way I would want someone to treat my sister or my mother.

In this life everything we do makes full circle. You will find her. The key is not to look for her. Take this time to improve upon yourself. Do not attempt to kick it to women. All you have to do is be yourself. Use your real name. Keep Xilla in the man box and introduce your true self to women. After the conversation is done let her know you enjoyed her company and keep it moving. Before you know it she will be right in front of you and you will be ready to receieve her.

What your last lady did was wrong man. It happened, all you can do is learn from it. Let go and let God, keep it moving. Forgive her and know that all women are not that way. You will find your rib. All good things in time my friend.

Patience is the key my friend. She wll be therre when you least expect her to.

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Sweet T — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 15:33:15 -0000

hmm i sat here 4 the past hour and wondered y you were laughin. The only thing i came up with is that you must have fukked xilla!!!! just because i've been mia for a while don't think i don't see what goes on around here.

so how was it? LMAO

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Sexy N Sassy — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 14:22:33 -0000

That's different for a change,usually its the men who just wants sex.

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SW1 — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 14:07:42 -0000

Amen to that. You need to do more relationship stuff, that is lacking of late. It was one of the things that drew me to your site in 1st place. Even if it's to do with your present situation and your troubles finding yourself a lady.

Nothing comes before it's time. Don't rush it, when you do you get the wrong person for you. It's a lesson i have had to learn the hard way.

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HeadMistress — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 13:51:56 -0000

Ok, Ness you had me dyin laughing over here for a minute... :-D

I was like "compassionate much?" LMAO!!!

Good advice tho and assuming there are his type of women out there who don't know who/what Blogxilla is, he can try to keep, not change, just keep the blog under wraps until she gets to know him...

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Guest — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 13:42:55 -0000

Aww...Xilla this is a nice one. You'll find her or maybe she'll find you...all in due time

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HeadMistress — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 13:42:10 -0000

Wow! I never heard it put like that, but I think I kinda understand....

It sounds like I feel when I buy a lottery ticket or a scratch off and don't win...ca' get my dollar back?