http://blogxilla.disqus.com/enSun, 15 Nov 2009 01:40:33 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-23115934<p>assofjane &amp; true2me... {sings in falsetto voice} Did you know that your my hero?!</p>CallmemissjoySun, 15 Nov 2009 01:40:33 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-18345232<p>I'm happy being who I am; &amp; I don't care how society labels me. I'm happy just being me ; &amp; if that means I've slept with people and received gifts ; well damn. So be it. I don't open my legs to any and everyone; but I do live in the moment and do what I feel like I want to do. p.s : I love your blogs.</p>LOVELEESuccessSat, 03 Oct 2009 00:24:47 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17933151<p>You are welcome. I apologize for the tardiness of my response. I believe in being very discrete myself. That way people are not in my business. And if the woman is not intelligent it is a wrap. If she can't stimulate my mind nothing is happening. There is nothing wrong with getting it in. I just don't want everyone to know which woman I am touching. </p>BlacksandThu, 01 Oct 2009 11:07:01 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17920326<p>I’m all kinds of late on this blog, and I don’t comment a lot, but here’s my 2 cents. A whore is a whore. Will there always be a double standard, yep. Can a man be a whore.. of course. What someone does with their body is their business, but personally I wouldn’t date a whore nor would I want to be known as one. I think you can be sexually liberated, and not have sex with an entire town, village, city… whatever. When I know or come to the conclusion a man has been with a slew of random women, I think of the probability of how many of those chicks had std’s or just nasty, why would I want to run up behind that? I wouldn’t want to hold someone’s past against them, because most of us have done something socially taboo I’m sure, but if they are an active whore, id have to pass. Sex is meant to be an enjoyable experience, but just be wise about it.</p>GuestThu, 01 Oct 2009 04:46:57 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17905203<p>not so fast there missy.... Everyone know who Reggie Bush was and Ray J before the wack ass Kardashian chick.. If anything she benefited from them... however I do agree that there are both male and female whores... The thing is this... WOMEN ARE LABELED AS WHORES DUE TO THE DOUBLE STANDARD THAT THERE NANI IS SUPPOSED TO BE SACRED AND CHERISHED! MENS PEEN IS SUPPOSED BE SACRED AND NOT SHARE EITHER UNTIL MARRIAGE BY THE GOOD BOOK.. BUT THATS BEEN OUT OF THE WINDOW A LONG TIME AGO. I personally wouldnt wife a chick who's been through the whole hood... women are more proned to settle down with a man who's been promiscuous though because its an accetpted part of society that men sleep around. News flash! The Nani is no longer sacred... chicks are open like 7/11 now adays! and men are taking advantage. Also lets get something else straight people.... women love sex just as much as men so don't get it twisted...the persona that women don't is false.. men realize it and have taken away the pussy power...now no one has any morals... we f**ck who we want when we want...LOL</p>MistarealWed, 30 Sep 2009 22:05:15 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17885796<p>Oh u took it there huh! Lol.</p><p>Its very sad but its very true b/c I'm sure tht some guys will be a whore w/other men just so they could be fly or well off.</p><p>But wht wud the be without the slores both men and women lol. They make the good ppl a.k.a the freaks look like saints ;)<br>Its all a balance ;)</p>NessWed, 30 Sep 2009 15:55:06 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17885500<p>"There are men out there the f*ck for money, sneakers, nice clothes or gas money and a free meal so don't get it twisted Xilla lol".</p><p>yes and will do other men in exchange for these things in addition to women..SMH</p>RoyalWed, 30 Sep 2009 15:50:04 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17822901<p>This is an interesting point of view. I believe that there are women and men whores alike. One of the reasons that it is not acceptable for women is because we are supposed to be sacred. We are the mother's of the world and who wants to have a mother that is a whore? Not me! So if women would stay in her place instead of trying to compete with the men, this word could never be used to describe us. I choose to be a Queen, let a man be a man. If being nasty is the definition of a man, then You Go <br>Boy!!! LOL Good stuff Xilla</p>TishaRene'Wed, 30 Sep 2009 01:48:02 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17821410<p>I don't think it's right that women get the short end of the stick when it comes to them being sexually free.</p><p>I like to think of myself as being sexually free. I have had my fair share of partners and I may shave one or two men that I have been with of the final list but at the end of the day, I know I'm true to my sexuality.</p><p>I agree, that men and women can be whores and I don't feel like any of the celeb women u listed are whores ;) There are both male and female whores out there.</p><p>The male whores are the ones who sleep with one woman then try to sleep with her friend, and another friend and another friend and maybe even a cousin our auntie lol. <br>There are men out there the f*ck for money, sneakers, nice clothes or gas money and a free meal so don't get it twisted Xilla lol.</p><p></p>NessWed, 30 Sep 2009 00:51:03 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17813675<p>I disagree with your theory that a man cannot be a whore because women and society give him a pass. There are plenty of men who fall victim to their whoring ways. Most don't realize the damage they've done to their reputation because they can't see past all the random ass they're plowing through.</p><p>Some guys get a glimpse, i.e., the men falsely accused of rape after engaging in a train at Hofstra. After the news broke all I could think was, "Hopefully they've learned it's OK to say 'no thanks' to the easy lay".</p>nynikkiTue, 29 Sep 2009 21:21:54 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17813589<p>stuff like this make me glad I'm still a virgin at the age of 25......... definitely don't regret waiting this long!</p>V_DeliciousTue, 29 Sep 2009 21:19:50 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17808862<p>More like a Wet ass and a Bus Pass.</p>MichsiTue, 29 Sep 2009 19:56:33 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17808837<p>Yeah, I don't understand it either. I personally got tired hearing women say men aint shit, when they go and sice these dogs up. They give them attention, they chase the men, and if they men chase them they fall for it... me personally I can't understand why people in DC are thinking that oh well, he looks fine. I had to tell my cousin who is 16 about herself, messing with some boy and not using a condom. I damn near choked her ass out, while calling her stupid and lame....I was a bit angry, it actually worked.</p><p>But yes Royal, there is so much you have consider these days. Blacks are using crazy drugs, just like whites, crack, all that shit, and they are just as careless when they are under the influence. I don't know I guess people will never learn, but my rule is this, we have to get tested together, and pick up our results together. Even that isn't accurate if they went and did something the day before getting tested. But its a start.</p>MichsiTue, 29 Sep 2009 19:55:51 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17796162<p>I'm a District of Columbia resident and native and I wholeheartedly agree with this entire post.....promiscuous men are NOT my cup of tea. Folk can be attracted to your partner and or you etc without getting any, and to me self discipline, self control along with mongamy is a huge turn on, esp once a mofo is grown. esp over 35.......you crazy as hell IMO phcuking around randomly in this area and must have a death wish!<br>Not to mention that DL behaviors, followed IV drug use s, are the leading causes for all this HIV in DC according to the CDC...ya'll can have that sh*t. I been chillin hard=abstaining for a long minute LOL will continue to do so until I meet something like THE ONE.</p><p>Not understanding how observing a promiscuous persons actions,behaviors, and patterns is suppose to validate the observer tho, ones self esteem is never based on the actions of others, its called SELF esteem which is about the actions, attitudes, beliefs treatment of and toward self. True valiation never comes from another human being but a much higher source.</p>RoyalTue, 29 Sep 2009 16:26:33 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17794343<p>I don't agree... Never wanted to date someone if I knew someone they used to sleep with/ wifed up, etc...</p><p>Life is too short and the world is too big to be sleeping with the same people!!!</p>onebaddbooTue, 29 Sep 2009 16:03:27 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17794067<p>Thats what i'm talking about ma, men will do as much as a woman will put up with. I like tool acad only because women need to see this, and get a clue sometimes. </p>MichsiTue, 29 Sep 2009 15:58:40 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17793114<p>Yeah, its true, and some girls will take a player, the really naive ones, for what reason i have no clue. The throught that he probably ran through a rack of broads is not that appealing to me, then to think who the girls probably let him, and then who those guys hit.... Call me Paranoid, but i'm straight with staying healthy.</p><p> Which is why i will say again, I don't date. I don't feel like it anymore. Seems like its too risky with all these rates, and new dieseases coming out. </p>MichsiTue, 29 Sep 2009 15:41:27 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17792067<p>Thanks Blacksand! I swear nobody never knows who i'm dealing with. I never bring anyone home, or around my friends, and half the time they never make it past 2 weeks, once their open thier mouth and all they can talk about it sex, and can't hold a conversation about anything else. If i was looking for a "No Strings" they would know it.</p><p>If you want to keep your business on the low, then be good at it. No need to tell everybody who you been with, or gossip to your friends about it. I'm just a big fan of not putting my sex life business out there, or dealing with anybody who kisses and tells. <br>I'm no angel, but I wouldn't consider myself a whore. But i have had relationships, and it involved sex nobody is perfect. </p>MichsiTue, 29 Sep 2009 15:22:50 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17790770<p>Thank you very much!!! That is exactly what I'm trying to say with this blog. A man can't truly be a whore because chicks dig the man whore. They will make a player their boo in a minute while a man will only give a whore hard divk and bubble gum. </p>BlogXillaTue, 29 Sep 2009 15:00:39 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17789026<p>welllllll done ladies!!!<br>the WOMEN have spoken.<br>i agree whole-heartedly agree with MsStylistik <br>::::let the church say AMEN::::</p>ambernetashaTue, 29 Sep 2009 14:41:47 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17788232<p>Being that I am in the same vicinity, I hear you loud and clear Ms. Mimz. I also see your point regarding putting brothers on blast. As a matter of fact, I agree with everything you wrote.</p><p>It is not cool to share oneself with every woman you come in contact with. Discretion is the better part of valor. I prefer quality over quantity. Be easy... </p>BlacksandTue, 29 Sep 2009 14:34:00 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17787385<p>This is a good question. The oldest profession is one of equal opportunity. The term can be used to describe a male or a female. The proper definition reads as such: <br>1 : a woman who engages in sexual acts for money : prostitute; also : a promiscuous or immoral woman<br>2 : a male who engages in sexual acts for money<br>3 : a venal or unscrupulous person</p><p>There you have it ladies and gentlemen. The term is applicable to both sexes. May whoever reads this journey be a peaceful one.</p><p> </p>BlacksandTue, 29 Sep 2009 14:25:34 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17784334<p>This reminds me of that TOOL ACADEMY SHOW. He had a nerve to say that his girl didn't deserve him..WTF..DUDE. YOU CHEAT ON HER, DONT SPEND TIME W HER, LIE TO HER ...but she dont deserve YOU. This is the mentality we have allowed men to have. He sincerely thought that she should be grateful when he was a peice of shyt..I HATE EVERYTHING. LIke I said..NO MAN WILL DICTATE MY WORTH (Nor hating ass woman) </p>true2meTue, 29 Sep 2009 13:29:47 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17784056<p>[enter the Voice of Reason...]</p><p>Technically speaking, a "whore" is synonymous to "prostitute", "harlot" etc...so if there's no exchange of payment in an envelope for services rendered in which a monetary amount was previously agreed upon (i.e. "$30 for a blow job") then all that other shit can just be classified as "dating" or "marriage" LOL! </p>XanTue, 29 Sep 2009 13:23:04 -0000http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/09/29/a-man-can-never-be-a-whre-only-women-are-whres/#comment-17782821<p>"....but when I think of a whore I think of a women who lets a man fuck her. Meaning she isn't getting near as much out of it as he is...except a sore coochie."</p><p>AMEN! </p>MichsiTue, 29 Sep 2009 12:57:47 -0000