1.What do you do when you want someone even though you know you shouldn’t even have that thought in your head? In my case I usually end up meeting someone 10 xs better and I forget about the lil crush. If I cant get them out of my head then I talk to them until something happens and im reminded why I need to leave them alone.
2.why do people ask questions that can’t be answered in 140 characters? I hate that about twiiter. Some ppl just keep typing like it means nothing and end up using multiple posts to get their point across.
Im gonna leave the other questions to your sexual intellectuals :)
OooLaLa
· 8 months ago
Q. What do you do when you want someone even though you know you shouldn’t even have that thought in your head? A. You avoid that person like the plague ... until the desire fades away. Well at least that's what I do, but it doesn't always work. If you give it time, that person will eventually either say or do something stupid that will be a turn off.
Q. Have you ever had sex so damn good, that it spoils all your sex for the next 3 years? A. YES. YES. YES. It's been over two years now, and I still can't forget it. I'm with a great guy now, but I still think about the sex with this dude from way back (shame).
Denise
· 8 months ago
It is a shame isn't it ... I have a son and a fine husband now but all I seem to think about when I am hot and bothered is this fine ass J Holiday looking brother I used to mess with.
I want to stop! But damn the sex was the BOMB!
MsLady..
· 8 months ago
I agree with your First Answer. Avoiding them at all Cost and Keeping to strictly Business is tough, but its the Best thing to Do.
babydoll
· 8 months ago
Have you ever had sex so damn good, that it spoils all your sex for the next 3 years?
Yep, that is why I haven't been able to orgasm without him and it's been 2.5 years. wtf....but whats so crazy, i will reluctantly give them up if i never have to deal with him again, which is insane. hopefully this summer that will all change *crosses fingers, toes and eyes*
Breezy
· 8 months ago
What do you do when you want someone even though you know you shouldn’t even have that thought in your head?
We always want whats bad for us..and if you finally get it, it turns out not to be what you expected. Just let it go which is A LOT easier said than done, but it'll probably work out to be better that way. In regards to people being in your life to test you, maybe there is something you see in that particular person that is drawing you to them..that quality could probably be found in someone else..ya digg. In that same situation now..but the teasing and temptation is a Bitch, so it got to the point where you just gotta move on
streetz
· 8 months ago
1) You gotta use the art of evasion. It all depends on the reason why you shouldnt hit her off. I have constant conflicts between my morals andn desires... the only way is to have a meeting with u ur desire, and morals, and your intelligence, and figure out the best course of action. lolol.
2) Ive had some great sex, but none thats ruined it for me afterwards.. I wonderif I have the same effect? hmmmm
3) I love it when women don't know who I am.. it makes it easier to make a true first impression.. other than what they "know" about you, feel me?
MsLady..
· 8 months ago
What do you do when you want someone even though you know you shouldn’t even have that thought in your head? 1. Breakdown the real reason you want them, Think long and hard about it. 2. Weigh the value of Having them or Possibly Losing them...Because of your advances. 3. Brush that Shit Off!!! and...Let that shit Breathe!
EbonyLolita
· 8 months ago
Listen if you meet some1 that you can genuinely connect with, DO it. I don't believe in shitting where you eat so be careful at work. People may by into the Xilla effect if that is all you give them in person. Strip away all that and you'll have a better chance of connecting with someone on a level higher then the physical. Good luck ;)
Xillie D Xilliams
· 8 months ago
I'm sorry but that's bull shit. People act like Xilla and me are two different people like Xilla is an alien or something. Xilla is me I'm not too much different what is different is what people think Xilla is. When I show someone a good time and can't even get a girl to call me every once in a while because they want to play a game of oh I'm not going to call him bc he got tons of girls. No they think that's the case when the truth is they want to play a game. Instead of being real and say why should he be the only one putting effort into it. Let me call him ad check up on him. Make sure he is ok. Smch!
EbonyLolita
· 8 months ago
I said what I needed to say. LMAO @ the name Xillie D Williams
Allie Wellington
· 8 months ago
In the past I have given in to the person that I should have avoided. That left me with the problem listed in the second question so now if I am faced with someone I shouldn't deal with I avoid them. It's not usually worth it.
Website Editor
· 8 months ago
that last paragraph was some how immoral and unethical ....
BlogXilla
· 8 months ago
this guy is not connected or associated with this website whatsoever. but thanks for sharing your opinion.
bogart4017
· 8 months ago
Simply this: Play out the ultimate sexual fantasy in my brain and then when is over totally forget about that person. Keep all conversation professional and distance at least two black man's arms length. Case closed.
All Comments
2.why do people ask questions that can’t be answered in 140 characters? I hate that about twiiter. Some ppl just keep typing like it means nothing and end up using multiple posts to get their point across.
Im gonna leave the other questions to your sexual intellectuals :)
A. You avoid that person like the plague ... until the desire fades away. Well at least that's what I do, but it doesn't always work. If you give it time, that person will eventually either say or do something stupid that will be a turn off.
Q. Have you ever had sex so damn good, that it spoils all your sex for the next 3 years?
A. YES. YES. YES. It's been over two years now, and I still can't forget it. I'm with a great guy now, but I still think about the sex with this dude from way back (shame).
I want to stop! But damn the sex was the BOMB!
Yep, that is why I haven't been able to orgasm without him and it's been 2.5 years. wtf....but whats so crazy, i will reluctantly give them up if i never have to deal with him again, which is insane. hopefully this summer that will all change *crosses fingers, toes and eyes*
We always want whats bad for us..and if you finally get it, it turns out not to be what you expected. Just let it go which is A LOT easier said than done, but it'll probably work out to be better that way.
In regards to people being in your life to test you, maybe there is something you see in that particular person that is drawing you to them..that quality could probably be found in someone else..ya digg. In that same situation now..but the teasing and temptation is a Bitch, so it got to the point where you just gotta move on
2) Ive had some great sex, but none thats ruined it for me afterwards.. I wonderif I have the same effect? hmmmm
3) I love it when women don't know who I am.. it makes it easier to make a true first impression.. other than what they "know" about you, feel me?
1. Breakdown the real reason you want them, Think long and hard about it.
2. Weigh the value of Having them or Possibly Losing them...Because of your advances.
3. Brush that Shit Off!!! and...Let that shit Breathe!