DISQUS

honeybrown · 8 months ago

say no to the long drive ur ass be done came up missing...

brran1 · 8 months ago

Knowing how I am, I'd probably dip and come back when things have calmed down. I'd only take being fussed at or yelled at for so long until I start doing the same thing

ShaunieLove · 8 months ago

I cant stand it when men stay cool..Makes me think they got something up their sleaves!

OxyGen · 8 months ago

I would absolutely hate if my SO walked out on me even though I try to walk away he always pulls me back...But if he did it, I would be so livid... It happened Sunday to be exact. I tried to walk out of the bathroom and he pulled me back... but when he walked out AND cut the light off, I wanted to kick him in the back of his knee caps... so being cool is always perfect.

EbonyLolita · 8 months ago

Good points :) Lemme find out you were paying attention in Conflict Resolution 101.

ubringmejoi · 8 months ago

good point, i gotta RT this so more men will get it!

Lady Jei · 8 months ago

I have just copied and pasted this entire article and sent it to him. Good Lawd. Come clean is the best way. Because trust, the evidence is overwhelming, and there is always a point to why I am pissed-the-hell off.

The best blog by far.

Lady Jei · 8 months ago

Amendment. I do NOT I repeat I do NOT, do the loud arguing and screaming. That is just not worth it at the end of the day. I am always calm. I do not allow a man to get me that riled up. Because 9 out of 10 times we can take that time to learn about what is making each other mad, come to a conclusion and learn from it and grow. I have never been the arguing type.

And besides it makes you look old to do all of that arguing.

Its_whateva · 8 months ago

well said!!! lol

Bitchiemood · 8 months ago

I LOVE YOU FOR THIS POST!!!!!!!!!

DaRuler · 8 months ago

i agree with the don't argue one 100%. it takes two people to argue and if you ain't sayin' nothing the argument ain't goin' nowhere. but i disagree with you xilla on the car drive... she could grab the wheel, throw it park while you driving.. then theres the cigarette lighter!

onebaddboo · 8 months ago

I'm not into arguing and drama (who really is now-a-days though) but I can't STAND for a man to walk out on me! I'm all for saying what you have to say (cus we both know we aren't going to come to an agreement) and then going our seperate ways for the time being.

DC_REALEST · 8 months ago

this post is 100 thousand trilllion on point!!

theFEMALE · 8 months ago

LMAO! at the Maury example.

im not the arguing, fighting kind of woman.
a nigga fuck up, and i have something better up my sleeve

SweeetPea · 8 months ago

It was all good until you said go for a long car ride.
No, no especially if ole girl is the one rolling. If mister wasn't following steps 1-car ride.... consider his face on the milk carton or in one hell of a car crash. You don't want an angry woman behind the wheel of a car. Not safe for the passengers or other drivers. Yet if she agreed to the car ride probably means she's somewhat calmed but speaking from experience could be a trap..lol.
Good points for sure.