DISQUS

shebaddd · 5 months ago

i guess my problem is that im too shy to ask for what i want...
guess thats why i've never experienced an orgasm-i know that sucks
guess i gotta break out of that shy sh*t lol

TheWiz · 5 months ago

You should never cheat urself. . . .Closed mouths don't get fed

musicalnote · 5 months ago

i think to have an amazing orgasim you got to hold on to it has tight as u can, and as its rushing down, and forcing its way out u hold on just a little tighter then you let go and splashhhhhh!!! waterfalls lol

ALMiss · 5 months ago

I kinda have a problem with asking for it too. I think that comes from my everyday life tho, because sometimes I have a problem with even asking for simple things. That's about the only shy thing about me too...gotta work on it!

TheDuchess · 5 months ago

I agree one million percent! I ask, I play with myself, & DO ME!!! I have sex for me and I KNOW in turn my man is going to enjoy it cause of how into it I am..

kepop · 5 months ago

I love it when my man asks me to do something...."Baby can please suck my dick."....I get extra wet every time...yummy!

DaRuler · 5 months ago

LOL @ “No!” Damn! Can I punch you in the mouth and you call me Chris Brown, how about that?!?

Andrea · 5 months ago

that was hella funny

MissBeasley · 5 months ago

Yes it was LOL

MissBeasley · 5 months ago

Great post! Hella funny too. I agree with everything you said except for sticking to what you are good at/no backflips, somersaults, etc. I do agree that it's not necessary to try every position in the kama sutra, but experimenting is excellent!

Just turning your body sideways while your man stays in the normal missionary position makes such a big difference. He will be even deeper inside you, he can play with the booty and the clit and maybe suck a toe if he is so inclined. If that won't make you cum then you may need to learn your body by yourself first.

Also, fellas if you stay close to your womans body while doing the do she will be more likely to climax. The clit is key! That constant friction will drive her crazy...just make sure you're gentle -it's sensitive. Fingers work too!

OakCliffChick · 5 months ago

Great post Xilla! But my thing is, I'm 26 and I just cummed for the first time last year! Guess who had the magic fingers, ME! I had my partners telling me about these wonderful penises that never got me there. It was crazy the first time, cause I felt this rising feeling in my chest, and BAM! *shakes head* Sorry about that.... I digress. I want to experience that in the midst of bumping and grinding, but maybe my mental is off. I guess that what I need to work on.

arlingtondude · 5 months ago

Oak Cliff Chick, stop worrying about it and just enjoy it. It will happen for you. Even better, play with yourself while he's beating it up......He will enjoy it (i know) and so will you

bknychick86 · 5 months ago

thank u for that advice. I understand where and what you are coming from. When i want to hit that peak, i want it either doggy style or missionary. But i be asking for it and i dont like hearing "no" for an answer. I like to domineer and to be a slave as well depending on what position i am in.

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kingsmomma · 5 months ago

I agreed with everything, actually reminded me of an article I wrote but I hit the breaks and i mean skidmark bout to be an accident type breaks when you said "have you ever rolled over an empty magnum wrapper"

What THEE hell?

But i definitely don't think anyone should be afraid to askfor anything, like you said the act of sex is rather intrusive so If I'm going to let yuo penetrate my walls and spaces, I should be able to say put it there and there, then lick it here.


and i definitely agree about initiating round two. Chances are our orgasmic schedules aren't insync so i will probably be left hanging...but not for long

mspeechhez · 5 months ago

Yes this post was on point. I always ask, always say yes, always put in my 90% mental/10% physical. He always makes it rain, squirt & shake. I never cheat myself. My motto is use it properly or loose it quick!

TenderNC · 5 months ago

I am married with four kids .. Sex is great....My husband and i love each other and are very much so attracted to each other, plus my husband can beat it up (BEAT,BEAT,BEAT) LMAO! Anywho...I decided once i were getting married that i would be my husband biggest freak, becuz i don't want him to go no where. so whenever he wants it he can get and the same fo me. I think that is the best way to have a organism is to be in love and the best comes with your husband....