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Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Phoenix06 — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 10:12:28 -0000

That why i wrote what I wrote. I think Self-Analyzation is just natural. but i'm realizin that its just me. Anything i do the next time I'm wondering how to do it better. I mean i'm lookin at the other person to see body language and subtle cues. Now if I'm bored or I realize its a fail then i'm trying to wrap this up. Yeah we need a blog on How women fail on the first date...Can You go from being a Potential to bein a Smash in one date?

Funny tho when you look at some reality shows I hear my boys saying why the F*ck did he do that or say that...and i'm like Shyt you b doin the same thing...lol.

Sometimes its easier to point out the flaws in other than to see them in yourself.

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

sunshyne84 — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 00:28:59 -0000

I guess I'm the only one that wants to know about the ex. lol I just need to know she is definitely out of the picture. Especially if it's a baby mama......

What I don't like about texting is when guy's use it trying to get to know you before the date has even been made. I'm gonna need u to learn how to hit dial. I don't want to text you a whole conversation!

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

IamJavone — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 23:11:56 -0000

That would be the difference between a woman, and a girl. Again, another blog entirely.

Girls who are dating these boys who allow this will continue to do so, because that is all they both know.

As a grown women of a certain stature, if you don't come correct, I will pay my own check, check his ass, and drive off on the 3rd lane of the West Side Highway.

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

IamJavone — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 23:06:57 -0000

I would be so inclined to find out why you would reduce a woman to "the pussy". But by looking at your choice of words ("tridash", "pulling em back"), maybe I don't, lol.

That's the other part of the problem and another blog entirely.

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

IamJavone — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 23:03:09 -0000

Kudos to eSPECial!!! Very nice blog post.

My current beau took me to get ice cream on our first date. And we sat by the water and talked. The best date of my life. And I did give him a kiss as I walked to the train station. Our first kiss.

But for me by the first time I have a first date we have talked for quite a while so I already know there will be a second, third, etc.

High 5 eSPECial!!!

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Jeff J. — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 21:53:42 -0000

Now if he would've took you to WAWA or Waffle house, then that would be ideal. Wendys and Mc Ds is sooo 1990

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Janee — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 17:58:19 -0000

We never messed around at all before...and this was his brilliant idea of the perfect first date..go figure! I swear this is the type of shit these Bmore men are on. They are all about Mc D's and Wendys

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Jeff J. — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 14:42:18 -0000

You have to be jokin! Mickey Dees?! Did yall ever mess around b4 this? Dude was hella comfy to take you to the golden arches

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

babydoll — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:53:02 -0000

LOL, my body language was horrible too, that should of been another hint. He had has arm around me and i had my legs crossed away from him with one arm folded on my lap, like a barrier...Obviously I was not feeling dude at all....I just needed that meal!! lol

Pre date though, we talked on the phone fomr MONTHS and you just never really get a feel for someone until u hang out with them, vibe wasn't there...oh well NEXT! ......well your cute....let me stop lol

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Janee — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:33:24 -0000

I agree with everything!! I remember the time a dude had begged me to go out with him. When i did he couldnt wait to touch my me..straight turn off, then on top of that he took me to mcdonalds for "dinner" and couldnt even afford to buy me a meal...long story short..i bought my OWN meal and sat there with him while he watched me eat, and had the nerve to ask for me to leave a lil for him! I swear this generation is a mess!

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Ness — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:38:12 -0000

Exactly...I self analyze and work based on that.
I also make it a point to ask all my ex's wht problems they had w/ me so that I can fix it for myself and the next person.

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Ness — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:29:37 -0000

yeah...u can get get turned down 100 times depending on how u look at it.

How many times did Ms SexEd turn home boy down b4 she actually went out w/ him....then he f*cked up and he got turned down several more times after she told him how he messed up. Tht's a lot of times.

You take that and add about 50 more females and the same situation he went thru w/ Ms Sex Ed and he's gonna get turned down 100 times :)

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:22:12 -0000

why are single dudes dating in the first place?

when i was single - i NEVER dated...
catch and release...

it was "movies back at the crib"
or..."i'll cook for you....at the crib"

only take a woman out if you sense she is potentially a real prospect...
but if it's about the a** - i pity the fool that is breakin' bread to be on some 1 date, 2 dates, 3 dates, 4...

take.it.back.to.the.crib...

and if you can't close on that level - come rock with us down in phila for a month...we still offer our course - 1st two weeks free...

- L

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

EbonyLolita — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:13:43 -0000

Co-sign on the entire thing. Brothers please tek notes :)

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Breezy — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:57:43 -0000

i wanna send this post to aaaallllll my males friends. some dudes just dont and will never get it.
i remember when my ex and i went out to eat once, dude surely ordered ribs AND proceeded to lick his fingers. ugh.. thats slightly acceptable when we're @ the crib but in public?!? and he spilled sauce on his shirt.. that relationship was dooomed.

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

SaTownHoney — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 18:39:50 -0000

AGREED! I had one guy who kept staring in my face and saying "you so damn pretty" thanx but no thanx...you're giving me the willies! That same guy ended up becoming obsessed with me and having to be threatened by my dad! smh

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

MissSexED — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 16:47:41 -0000

I'll make it concern you! & it won't be foul ;-)

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

radio the rahim — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 16:40:03 -0000

how about this whole article is a big DISREGARD if the first date is at my house.

LOL

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Jeff J. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 16:33:07 -0000

Why does this post concern me? Hopefully its not somethin foul, lol!

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

MissSexED — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 16:23:40 -0000

Next time I take a pic period I'm going to put @streetztalk on it

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Jeff J. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:53:45 -0000

If sense was common everyone would have it my dude. That's whats sad, lol

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

native — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:52:24 -0000

streetz dont put the pussy on a pedestal. i concur with most rules but they are common sense. all im saying is don't put the pussy on a pedestal, if cats aint getting call backs for dates they are tridash. Bad chics are settling for wack dudes, so if your not pulling em back, your trash!!!!!!!! TRASH I TELL YOU

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Jeff J. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:13:01 -0000

Dont act like in both cases that dude aint tryin to hit! lolol

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Jeff J. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:11:39 -0000

LOL @ u sure your not a model. Tell dude the 70s esque compliments can go ---> way!

CONFESSION I am a mirror whore. Not so much to appreciate my countenance, but I always want to make sure I'm on point. I can get caught up, you know how people look around like "Oh shyt was I staring @ myself?" hahahahaha! I'm exagerrating but I don't do it in front of people like that, unless we cool, lolol jk.

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Jeff J. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:08:45 -0000

So if I see a twitpic from you spying on dates I'd like a captiont hat reads:

"Yes @streetztalk I took the picture! So?!!"

lolol