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Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

sibbymukobvu — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 12:05:01 -0000

what about if he is having axcuses of saying i am sorry and cakk you names and you find out that he is begging knees and balls to have his run away lover back.

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

R.O. — Sun, 10 May 2009 20:42:16 -0000

People don't exist. If I can't get in touch with someone, it means they not real. If they were real, they would be available. With email and all this shit and you still can't get in touch with someone it has nothing to do if they are busy or what not. Who cares? If they were real, they would be available. Once they go flatline, you know they are an illusion.

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

DomiMami — Tue, 05 May 2009 02:43:53 -0000

Maybe your sex was wack and they only way she could get rid of you was to fart on you. Thats a good damn Idea. LOL

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Truth — Sun, 03 May 2009 15:21:33 -0000

I'd rather text....

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Haniplease — Sat, 02 May 2009 11:03:19 -0000

they dont call back because they're a chi-town nigga and would rather get played by a light skinned chick! they get 'noyed when they realie you aren't the desperate darkie that won't pay for their life and beg! lol real talk!

p.s. i just had a guy go thru GREAT lengths to get my number then turns out he's all tooken and couldn't figure out how to balance both....ARRG! chi-town whas really DOWN!!?

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

Nicki — Fri, 01 May 2009 04:07:10 -0000

I can't stand talking on the phone!

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Juliard — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 23:23:18 -0000

Boyfriend/Girfriend's back in town or around in general!
YOU WERE ONLY TEMPORARY HONEY!

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Ness — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 22:02:43 -0000

It's probably the chase lol...

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mkrob.com — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 20:10:45 -0000

Because she farted on me after having sex.

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arriell — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 18:51:59 -0000

what about the men who r so thirsty to get your number and damn near walk 3 blocks to talk to u and then never call what the hell is that ? why approach me and damn near stalk me and then dont call after that .

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

HeadMistress — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 17:26:00 -0000

I don't take phone calls because I just HATE talking on the phone - period!

I'm a busy b*tch and everything takes twice as long when you're tryin to multitask while trapped holding a phone to your ear, bluetooth is not my friend and speaker don't work well either when you're on the move - the only two people who hold my attention on the phone are are my "daddy" (not the father...LOL) and my mother - so unless it's for the purpose of strategizing "quickly" or it's an emergency I'm like Lady Jei and you're better off with a text, email or BBIM

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

ALMiss — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 17:12:37 -0000

Damn I have too...recently. But oh well, I had a few others to occupy my time as well lol.

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BNADIVA — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 16:36:34 -0000

I don't take calls if we talk once and I feel like it was a therapy session, myself being the therapist. Men can get too deep too quick! I had a dude tell me all about his childhood, his dead mom, his siblings, his gma treats him bad and his pops in africa and how he takes care of all of them. Ummm you seem angry and clearly have issues...number deleted.

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

Danielle — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 16:03:10 -0000

If you call me wayyyy too much...I HATE HATE HATEE it when people blow up my fone...If you call 10 times in a row, dont think if you cal for a 11th time i'm going to answer..just leave me alone.I'll call you when i feel if i feel

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

Janee — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 15:48:03 -0000

I co-sign on this... Now a days your forced to give the number up or just be harrassed until you do..you cant even use the excuse that u dont have a cell phone , because who doesn't?...ahhh remember the days of writing down your number and having the option of giving them a fake cause they didnt have one?...damn,,,

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

tosweetheart — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 15:31:16 -0000

RE: "And fellas, if you call a lady 1 time and she doesn't pick up, or return your call in 2-5 min, move on. She's not feelin you. Shit is not that complicated."

I don't think not calling a Dude back in 2-5 minutes means you are not interested?? LOL It means... you have a life and you're not sitting by the phone waiting, and playing games (i.e. looking at the phone and not answering then calling back 2 min later.. LOL). I think if someone hasn't called back within 24 hours that's just rude.

Take the hint, and keep it movin

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

bogart4017 — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 15:30:33 -0000

Because you keep calling me and calling me and calling me and calling me. Listen up: call once. If you go to voice mail, leave a message and as soon as i am available i will call you back. Calling me and hanging up and calling again at 5 minute intervals is only gonna irk me. I should not go out for 4 hours on Saturday afternoon and come back to 27 missed calls--24 of them from you. And then to ask me where i've been? Please. I was a teenager when there was no cell phone, voice mail, inernet or text messaging so you KNOW i'm way more than three times seven. Get over yourself. This is why not only do i not call you anymore but i ignore your phone calls.

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IamJavone — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 15:05:58 -0000

Sadly I am a slave to my blackberry and in my world calling has become an emergency basis type of call. Meaning, if you don't text/email/BBIM me, we probably won't have much contact. I do NOT have time, to sit on the phone. Wasting my battery with you. The only people I actually call are family members who are older than 50, because they refuse to text, lol. So if you call me its to clarify what we are talking about via my BB. And a call is needed to clarify. Other than that, all communication must be done via a PDA.

I think for women if a man doesn't answer your call, he is just not that into you. Even if for 2 seconds to tell you he is busy and he'll call you right back. A man into you WILL pick up that phone.
And fellas, if you call a lady 1 time and she doesn't pick up, or return your call in 2-5 min, move on. She's not feelin you. Shit is not that complicated.

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

PhoenixNicole — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 14:41:52 -0000

Usually, it's because I get bored too quickly. If we're sitting on the phone and I can here a cricket a mile away, then I won't call answer again. If I'm gonna be wasting my anytime minutes/rollover minutes/free nights & weekends on you, then you need to be a good conversationalist. I'm not into that bullshxt "Sooo... what are you doing now?" Umm, the same damn thing I was doing 10 minutes ago when you asked!

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

OooLaLa — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 14:29:44 -0000

Yeah I think I have been too. Damn that's messed up. But I've moved on.

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Sexy N Sassy — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 13:43:38 -0000

You did sumthin wrong
You fell off
Your no longer relevent( I think u posted that already)
They are tried of the same ol same ol(your boring)

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

Ness — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 13:11:47 -0000

OR!!!!!

They do some out the blue ish like this one guy did.

It was a few wks b4 we spoke & whn he called me again....the first thing he said was..."so when are we gonna make magic happen"...I looked at my phone like WTF is wrong w/ him. I let him know that I never planned on sleeping w/ him & I'm not the one and he's trippin and said bye.

Needless to say, I deleted his # & he hasn't called me back (thank goodness).

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

Ness — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 13:09:15 -0000

Because they are annoying and don't know how to have a phone convo lol.

I hate when someone calls me & keep asking "wht's up", "how are you". When I answer those two questions, that doesn't mean to repeat the same dumb sh*t 40seconds later b/c I'm not gonna answer you and I'll probably say tht I have to go and hang up.

Another reason is that most ppl tend to have separate convos w/ someone else while they're on the phone with me. Or they want to sing or rap....the phone is not a demo session...I don't want to hear that ish.....and on that note I'm haning up.

Cell phones make it VERY easy to hang up on someone and say you lost service or your bars were low lmao!!!!!!!

Re: 5 Reasons They Won’t Take Your Calls

Jamie8706 — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 12:16:58 -0000

Always bringing something up you don't want to talk about at the moment or you getting to clinging to quick

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Kiwi — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 11:55:13 -0000

They either getting on my nerves or they are just useless to me. They convos are whack, they only want one thing (that I am not supplying), or I erased their number because I have no use for it.

I had a problem of giving dudes my number I knew I wasnt interested in (because they play that call my phone trick and they have your number) and I just never answer the phone because I didnt want them to have my # in the first place. So hopefully I just want them to just take the hint and realize I am not interested...