Boyfriend/Girfriend's back in town or around in general! YOU WERE ONLY TEMPORARY HONEY!
arriell
· 7 months ago
what about the men who r so thirsty to get your number and damn near walk 3 blocks to talk to u and then never call what the hell is that ? why approach me and damn near stalk me and then dont call after that .
Ness
· 7 months ago
It's probably the chase lol...
bogart4017
· 7 months ago
Because you keep calling me and calling me and calling me and calling me. Listen up: call once. If you go to voice mail, leave a message and as soon as i am available i will call you back. Calling me and hanging up and calling again at 5 minute intervals is only gonna irk me. I should not go out for 4 hours on Saturday afternoon and come back to 27 missed calls--24 of them from you. And then to ask me where i've been? Please. I was a teenager when there was no cell phone, voice mail, inernet or text messaging so you KNOW i'm way more than three times seven. Get over yourself. This is why not only do i not call you anymore but i ignore your phone calls.
tosweetheart
· 7 months ago
RE: "And fellas, if you call a lady 1 time and she doesn't pick up, or return your call in 2-5 min, move on. She's not feelin you. Shit is not that complicated."
I don't think not calling a Dude back in 2-5 minutes means you are not interested?? LOL It means... you have a life and you're not sitting by the phone waiting, and playing games (i.e. looking at the phone and not answering then calling back 2 min later.. LOL). I think if someone hasn't called back within 24 hours that's just rude.
Take the hint, and keep it movin
Danielle
· 7 months ago
If you call me wayyyy too much...I HATE HATE HATEE it when people blow up my fone...If you call 10 times in a row, dont think if you cal for a 11th time i'm going to answer..just leave me alone.I'll call you when i feel if i feel
Lady Jei
· 7 months ago
Sadly I am a slave to my blackberry and in my world calling has become an emergency basis type of call. Meaning, if you don't text/email/BBIM me, we probably won't have much contact. I do NOT have time, to sit on the phone. Wasting my battery with you. The only people I actually call are family members who are older than 50, because they refuse to text, lol. So if you call me its to clarify what we are talking about via my BB. And a call is needed to clarify. Other than that, all communication must be done via a PDA.
I think for women if a man doesn't answer your call, he is just not that into you. Even if for 2 seconds to tell you he is busy and he'll call you right back. A man into you WILL pick up that phone. And fellas, if you call a lady 1 time and she doesn't pick up, or return your call in 2-5 min, move on. She's not feelin you. Shit is not that complicated.
Ness
· 7 months ago
Because they are annoying and don't know how to have a phone convo lol.
I hate when someone calls me & keep asking "wht's up", "how are you". When I answer those two questions, that doesn't mean to repeat the same dumb sh*t 40seconds later b/c I'm not gonna answer you and I'll probably say tht I have to go and hang up.
Another reason is that most ppl tend to have separate convos w/ someone else while they're on the phone with me. Or they want to sing or rap....the phone is not a demo session...I don't want to hear that ish.....and on that note I'm haning up.
Cell phones make it VERY easy to hang up on someone and say you lost service or your bars were low lmao!!!!!!!
Sexy N Sassy
· 7 months ago
You did sumthin wrong You fell off Your no longer relevent( I think u posted that already) They are tried of the same ol same ol(your boring)
Kiwi
· 7 months ago
They either getting on my nerves or they are just useless to me. They convos are whack, they only want one thing (that I am not supplying), or I erased their number because I have no use for it.
I had a problem of giving dudes my number I knew I wasnt interested in (because they play that call my phone trick and they have your number) and I just never answer the phone because I didnt want them to have my # in the first place. So hopefully I just want them to just take the hint and realize I am not interested...
Janee
· 7 months ago
I co-sign on this... Now a days your forced to give the number up or just be harrassed until you do..you cant even use the excuse that u dont have a cell phone , because who doesn't?...ahhh remember the days of writing down your number and having the option of giving them a fake cause they didnt have one?...damn,,,
Ps8612
· 7 months ago
Because I am no longer interested! Your craziness has been exposed in the first couple of conversations and after some reflection/evaluation...you've just got too many issues/baggage that I am COMPLETELY unwilling to deal with!
BlogXilla
· 7 months ago
yea tht's pretty muvh how it goes! lol
pkat
· 7 months ago
You're sex is wack...
EveWrites
· 7 months ago
Option C came along and you have been demoted. (Assumes you realize you were never Option A to begin with.)
Quianah
· 7 months ago
Damn I think I've been replaced before. lol!
honeyberry
· 7 months ago
lol girl it happens to the best of us!
OooLaLa
· 7 months ago
Yeah I think I have been too. Damn that's messed up. But I've moved on.
ALMiss
· 7 months ago
Damn I have too...recently. But oh well, I had a few others to occupy my time as well lol.
Jamie8706
· 7 months ago
Always bringing something up you don't want to talk about at the moment or you getting to clinging to quick
Ness
· 7 months ago
OR!!!!!
They do some out the blue ish like this one guy did.
It was a few wks b4 we spoke & whn he called me again....the first thing he said was..."so when are we gonna make magic happen"...I looked at my phone like WTF is wrong w/ him. I let him know that I never planned on sleeping w/ him & I'm not the one and he's trippin and said bye.
Needless to say, I deleted his # & he hasn't called me back (thank goodness).
PhoenixNicole
· 7 months ago
Usually, it's because I get bored too quickly. If we're sitting on the phone and I can here a cricket a mile away, then I won't call answer again. If I'm gonna be wasting my anytime minutes/rollover minutes/free nights & weekends on you, then you need to be a good conversationalist. I'm not into that bullshxt "Sooo... what are you doing now?" Umm, the same damn thing I was doing 10 minutes ago when you asked!
BNADIVA
· 7 months ago
I don't take calls if we talk once and I feel like it was a therapy session, myself being the therapist. Men can get too deep too quick! I had a dude tell me all about his childhood, his dead mom, his siblings, his gma treats him bad and his pops in africa and how he takes care of all of them. Ummm you seem angry and clearly have issues...number deleted.
HeadMistress
· 7 months ago
I don't take phone calls because I just HATE talking on the phone - period!
I'm a busy b*tch and everything takes twice as long when you're tryin to multitask while trapped holding a phone to your ear, bluetooth is not my friend and speaker don't work well either when you're on the move - the only two people who hold my attention on the phone are are my "daddy" (not the father...LOL) and my mother - so unless it's for the purpose of strategizing "quickly" or it's an emergency I'm like Lady Jei and you're better off with a text, email or BBIM
mkrob.com
· 7 months ago
Because she farted on me after having sex.
DomiMami
· 7 months ago
Maybe your sex was wack and they only way she could get rid of you was to fart on you. Thats a good damn Idea. LOL
Nicki
· 7 months ago
I can't stand talking on the phone!
MzVirgo
· 7 months ago
Because the conversation was boring before we exchanged numbers. Because he said something weird. Because the first conversation we had on the phone was boring. Because he was an emotional slut (revealing way too much about himself) Because he has baggage. Because the baby mama/wife answered his phone and cussed me out (LOL) Because the date was wack.
Thoney Gangstasweet
· 7 months ago
they dont call back because they're a chi-town nigga and would rather get played by a light skinned chick! they get 'noyed when they realie you aren't the desperate darkie that won't pay for their life and beg! lol real talk!
p.s. i just had a guy go thru GREAT lengths to get my number then turns out he's all tooken and couldn't figure out how to balance both....ARRG! chi-town whas really DOWN!!?
Truth
· 7 months ago
I'd rather text....
R.O.
· 7 months ago
People don't exist. If I can't get in touch with someone, it means they not real. If they were real, they would be available. With email and all this shit and you still can't get in touch with someone it has nothing to do if they are busy or what not. Who cares? If they were real, they would be available. Once they go flatline, you know they are an illusion.
sibbymukobvu
· 3 months ago
what about if he is having axcuses of saying i am sorry and cakk you names and you find out that he is begging knees and balls to have his run away lover back.
All Comments
YOU WERE ONLY TEMPORARY HONEY!
I don't think not calling a Dude back in 2-5 minutes means you are not interested?? LOL It means... you have a life and you're not sitting by the phone waiting, and playing games (i.e. looking at the phone and not answering then calling back 2 min later.. LOL). I think if someone hasn't called back within 24 hours that's just rude.
Take the hint, and keep it movin
I think for women if a man doesn't answer your call, he is just not that into you. Even if for 2 seconds to tell you he is busy and he'll call you right back. A man into you WILL pick up that phone.
And fellas, if you call a lady 1 time and she doesn't pick up, or return your call in 2-5 min, move on. She's not feelin you. Shit is not that complicated.
I hate when someone calls me & keep asking "wht's up", "how are you". When I answer those two questions, that doesn't mean to repeat the same dumb sh*t 40seconds later b/c I'm not gonna answer you and I'll probably say tht I have to go and hang up.
Another reason is that most ppl tend to have separate convos w/ someone else while they're on the phone with me. Or they want to sing or rap....the phone is not a demo session...I don't want to hear that ish.....and on that note I'm haning up.
Cell phones make it VERY easy to hang up on someone and say you lost service or your bars were low lmao!!!!!!!
You fell off
Your no longer relevent( I think u posted that already)
They are tried of the same ol same ol(your boring)
I had a problem of giving dudes my number I knew I wasnt interested in (because they play that call my phone trick and they have your number) and I just never answer the phone because I didnt want them to have my # in the first place. So hopefully I just want them to just take the hint and realize I am not interested...
They do some out the blue ish like this one guy did.
It was a few wks b4 we spoke & whn he called me again....the first thing he said was..."so when are we gonna make magic happen"...I looked at my phone like WTF is wrong w/ him. I let him know that I never planned on sleeping w/ him & I'm not the one and he's trippin and said bye.
Needless to say, I deleted his # & he hasn't called me back (thank goodness).
I'm a busy b*tch and everything takes twice as long when you're tryin to multitask while trapped holding a phone to your ear, bluetooth is not my friend and speaker don't work well either when you're on the move - the only two people who hold my attention on the phone are are my "daddy" (not the father...LOL) and my mother - so unless it's for the purpose of strategizing "quickly" or it's an emergency I'm like Lady Jei and you're better off with a text, email or BBIM
Because he said something weird.
Because the first conversation we had on the phone was boring.
Because he was an emotional slut (revealing way too much about himself)
Because he has baggage.
Because the baby mama/wife answered his phone and cussed me out (LOL)
Because the date was wack.
p.s. i just had a guy go thru GREAT lengths to get my number then turns out he's all tooken and couldn't figure out how to balance both....ARRG! chi-town whas really DOWN!!?