DISQUS

His Naughty Girl · 8 months ago

I dont have a problem calling my man daddy. he put it down in bed and i like being his naughty little girl. lol @ you aint my daddy I have said that many times. good post xilla.

BlogXilla · 8 months ago

lol i really do believe all women have said that at one point or another. I know for me i like making them eat those words! lol

WONDERCHIC · 8 months ago

IM NEW TO THE SITE AND I BEEN WAITING FOR AN EXPLAINTION ON THIS SHIT. I DONT GET IT. I THINK ITS SICK. JUST LIKE WOEMN WHO SHAVE ALL THEIR PUSSY HAIR OFF. I AM A GROWN ASS WOMEN NOT A GIRL

BlogXilla · 8 months ago

welcome to the site. Again I pose the same question to you. Do you mind being called baby?

k chill · 8 months ago

what's bad is when you got another man's girl calling you daddy

BlogXilla · 8 months ago

hahaha you think that's bad I think that's dope!!

Ness · 8 months ago

It's being used as a term of endearment lol

Daddy's Mama · 8 months ago

Xill, i don't call my boo by his name (unless i'm pissed). he is called DADDY WHEREVER we are, and he calls mw Mama. He understands that he is my protector, my security-and i make it known whenever possible-he's needed. beyond the shadow of a doubt i know he'll whoop ass which is why i can't tell him everything lol he knows, as Mama, our househols/family is tight. i'm a force to be reckoned with, i have his back and whatever we face, it's faced 2gether. Daddy's my ride-or-die, and i'm his no doubt. i wudn't dare give him that title of respect only in the bedroom! his presence and black man masculine power authority is felt WHEREVER he is. can't no man fuck with his swag, Daddy knows it and so does Mama.

BlogXilla · 8 months ago

see that is why you're dope in my book!! I wish all women thought like you! lol

Ps8612 · 8 months ago

Thanks for the explanation I still don't quite get it because the whole "call me Daddy" thing just conjured up incestuous and child sexual abuse thoughts to me. Why in the world would I ever want to have sex with someone I call Dad? Blech!

BlogXilla · 8 months ago

i can understand that but it's a rush, and it's not that type of daddy it could just be he's the daddy ans you're the mother. like if y'all got kids. But it's like baby! you don't mind being called baby do you?

babydoll · 8 months ago

I think being called Baby and calling a your BF daddy are TWO different things. I am so cool with my dad, that the thought of calling another man daddy seriously does make my stomach turn. I could never even get into the Papi thing ugh! Boo boo and baby all day, daddy never! lol. Me and my sis are the same way, we just don't get that shit. But to each its own.

Renee · 8 months ago

I am with you on that..I tried and it never rolled over with me.
I felt out of place saying it...That does not mean that my man is not my protector and my "ride or die" and I am not his "no doubt" about it". We still know who is who and that we are tight with the relationship and family thing...but daddy no do not think so! If it is for you to feel more of a man for me to call you daddy then you seriously have issues within yourself. I can still make you feel worthy and like your are the head of the household without calling you daddy!

YEA J · 1 month ago

im with u babydoll, my daddy is my DAD, NOT MY MAN!!!

I call my man honey or sweet things, but daddy no!!! It makes me think of my dad and I don't want to think of my dad during sex with my man.

Squishy · 8 months ago

I thought about this too until I realized that I don't even call my father "daddy". So when I say it my father is the furthest person from my thoughts. And I would think that it's only incestuous if you are calling your lover daddy and thinking about your father. I guess it means different things for different people though :)

kiwi · 8 months ago

It's not bad in bed but calling him daddy in public is not really appropriate. Like some girls are always searching for that father figure if they never grew up with one so I think they actually start to believe that he us "daddy".

BlogXilla · 8 months ago

That might be the case for some, but even if that is the case, a husband/boyfriend should perform some of the fatherly duties, and a woman should do the same. it's all apart of the relationship process.

Daddy's Mama · 8 months ago

well i guess it's about as inappropriate and incestous as calling a child and your man 'baby.' the term has totally different connotations. My daddy and my man are secure in themselves-my father knows he handled his biz in raising me and teaching me what to look for in a man. my baby has the SAME characteristics as my father: hard working, accepting non-bio children as his, unconditional love, protector, stands in the face adversity (not run), and believes in the power of love-fidelity & monagamy. when i'm intimate, i don't imagine fucking my father and for those whose minds go there...ur the 1 with the hang up lol Xill the post is excellent and i don't care if u call ur man, daddy, tarzan, mandingo etc those are titles that represent power-we emasculate men all the time. Rarely do we build up. so to the commenter who has a problem with some1 being called Daddy in public? you'll definitely have a problem with me-but ask me do i give a good got damn! lol these are SOME of the same femmes who wish for a damn sugarDADDY LOL if they don't have 1 already. and ur rught Xill, women expect men to take care of a crib like daddy! doesn't mean he's ur father, damn! old school players were known as Cat Daddy, Daddy-O etc...and by no means were they referring to some1's damn father. geesh smdh

for those who don't agree cool, don't down those who do.

Ness · 8 months ago

Tht's not true..lol.

I know my dad...grew up w/ him in the household all my life. He's my father.... :)

I have called my man daddy in public w/o a problem and he answers in public w/o any problem. Yeah I know my dad & he knows my dad too....but as an adult I can separate the word and make it what I want to make it.

I don't believe tht someone who didn't birth me is my "daddy" lol. It has a deeper meaning than it just being a word. :)

Ness · 8 months ago

Not for nothing but whenever I called a guy daddy......I never called him that during sex for the 1st time.

It usually happens before that. Sometimes I use it as a greeting (just b/c) and in that case it holds no meaning lol....it's almost like saying "hey girl" or "what's up babes"....lol

I don't thinka guy can request to be called 'daddy'. Nor can he earn it by doing freaky things in the bedroom.


The last guy I dated I called him daddy way b4 we became sexual. He didn't have to 'earn' it per se but in a way he showed me characteristics tht made want to categorize him under that.

thejadednyer · 8 months ago

nope. nuh-uh. never.

no matter how you list it, paint it, explain it, I cannot call a grown ass man who is NOT my father, daddy.

and being Latina I get dudes who want to be called Papi and I'm like HELL NO, FOOL! That's what I call my grandfather...

To each his own, but those words leaving my lips= instant mood killer...

and as for being called baby? negative to that, too. Just pet names in general... that feels so JHS to me.

perhaps it explains why I'm single?? Lmao!

cherish carver · 8 months ago

I can't do it call another man daddy. I don't even call my own father daddy.lmao. Calling names is as far as I go and you gotta earn that. sayin daddy during sex is so not happening

bogart4017 · 8 months ago

It doesnt happen much anymore (it was big in the 60s)but when it does nobody really looks twice or questions it. Occasionally mine will do it but during sex shes is about calling my name reeeall slloww!! Jesus!

HeadMistress · 8 months ago

I don't think there is anything wrong with calling your man Daddy - if it feels natural by all means do it

I've never called a man (besides my father) "Daddy" - it's never even occured to me to say it, I guess its not natural for me cause even thinking about saying it now in reference to my man just doesn't feel natural....feels contrived, like I tried too hard so I guess that's that... :-D

There's nothing incestuous or sick about it - it's just a term of endearment - period

nspirin · 8 months ago

I had this one chick say she was never gonna call me daddy, papi, or anything of the sort. By the end of the night i was known as all of the following including king ding-a-ling.
So ladies never say NEVER jus say right now, you haven't deserved the word.

outofyourmind · 8 months ago

I don't really see anything wrong with calling your man, daddy. I personally only do it in the bedroom but it doesn't work for me in public. And I love being a naughty girl and getting spanked. LOL!!

Daddy's Mama · 8 months ago

Outofyourmind, that's what I'm talking about!! Trust, some people'll have issues with being spanked cuz that's something only their daddy did...whatever. We miss out on so much because we don't open our minds up to new experiences. I'm not speaking of calling your man daddy...I'm speaking on how we're (our community) is so fucking quick to say what we WON'T DO...well what in the hell WILL you do???

MsJx3 · 7 months ago

I call my husband daddi , yes with an I. I honestly have never had any father figure's in my life, but i dont call my husband that because i want him to be my father.outofyourmind I agree with that your saying 100%! My husband love's it when i say it.. also because no other woman has said it before me..(i didnt know that til after i had said it to him).

favorisntfair · 8 months ago

I;m still trying to recover from your Conderella story and you put this up? You really trying to make us love you, huh...lol. Okay, I have no issue calling a man daddy in bed. In fact, I have to say I like to see the joy on his face after he has basically made me eat my words cause I'm always telling him, "You ain't my d*mn daddy!"
Now I will not call him that in public as anyone who knowss me recognizes he is the man!

nynikki · 8 months ago

I'd probably be more willing if I didn't still call my own father "Daddy". But my man can call himself Daddy all he likes, as in "You gonna behave yourself for Daddy, right?" (always followed by a spanking!) But he'll be hard pressed for the word to come out of my mouth. Now I'll call you "Papi" as many times as you like, it doesn't have the same baggage for me.

Lili · 8 months ago

I'm all late....THANKS XILLA! :-D

Collegechick205 · 8 months ago

I guess for me I just feel uncomfortable calling someone my daddy..just feels wrong. I think that part of that also has to do with the death of my father. I can only recall of one time calling a guy 'daddy'.....and he had to work for it lol.

nubian · 8 months ago

Ive never called out DADDY during sex, but it sounds hella sexy to me. Dont have a problem with it at all. Its all about who you are thinking of when you say it, if you are thinking about your dad, then you wont feel comfortable doing it. If you are thinking about your man, you will. More importantly, women should know their men. If your MAN gets turned on when you call him DADDY during heated sex, yell the sh!t!

daniecal · 8 months ago

Yeah I dont have a problem with it, during sex that is!!! hell during sex my husband can get me to say alot of thangs! Its when he trys to get me to say it outside of the bedroom it feels awkward.

He's my Daddy · 8 months ago

Yes I call him Daddy off the rip, thoughts of how he puts it down in and out the bedroom keeps me calling him Daddy. It turns me on so when he says whose your daddy? I tell him, " You are baby this is your P*** Daddy.

Ruby · 8 months ago

Just found your blog, and this post made me bookmark it :)

I was (shamefully) reading a friend's Cosmo a few months ago and it had one of those "What He Thinks" sections, saying guys find it creepy when you call them daddy during sex. So I am glad to see you with the counterpoint.

I have no problem calling my man daddy, if he earns it. It has to happen spontaneously the first time though, when he is working me so right I can't help it. After that, it ends up being a little signal - If I am whispering in his ear and calling him daddy, it is probably time to go home ;)

I am surprised with the vehemence some people are against it. If you don't like it, by all means, refrain. But knocking other people for it is a but much.

m · 8 months ago

I'm sorry but I just can't do it, I actually call my father daddy, and the thought of blurting it out while i'm getting the business with my man grosses me out, killing it right there on the spot. But I can see the appeal for some women.

YEA J · 1 month ago

Most women call their men daddy is because they did not grow up with one in the house!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
POINT BLANK!!!!!!!!!

hazysin · 8 months ago

I have no problem calling a guy daddy. Truthfully, if his stroke is that serious i will call him whatever the f*ck he wants me to......my guy put that to test constantly and teases me about the shit i say afterward. Daddy is just another word. There are more important things going on in the world than the labels you place on the one youre fucking

softcandy69 · 7 months ago

ain't nothing wrong... with calling your "husband" DADDY!
CAUSE IF HE YOUR HUSBAND AND HE IS FAITHFUL,HE A PROVIDER,HE LOVESand WORSHIPS THE LORD AND LAST but most certainly not least...IF HE TREATS YOU LIKE THE QUEEN THAT YOU KNOW YOU ARE...Then I say call that brotha whatever he ask of you...and make it sound sensual...make him want to hear you speak those words..over...and over...and, oooooooooooooooooo ...
let me stop mmm mm mmm...I wish I was married!
The bed becomes ..UNDEFILED!!!
Hmmmmm...the endless possibilities(or positions..whatever floats your boat)
...MUST be NICE

alishia_daisy · 7 months ago

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Cynthia · 7 months ago

I thought only MY man like that! LOL

maplebrowneyes · 1 month ago

Doing this is just RIGHT! Good sex makes you want to call out all kinds of things and if a man is hitting it right and doing the damn thing he should be called DADDY. Because a "daddy" takes care of home and if what he is doing, has done and continues to do makes you walk around with a smile plastered to your face and makes you want to do all those things that you lied to yourself over the years and said you wouldn't do calling him DADDY is in order... case closed.